is it slutty for a girl to have a one night stand?

mrets · 28-10-2009 01:04AM #1

any thoughts????

Novella · 28-10-2009 01:07AM

I think if a girl wants to sleep with someone, she should be able to, without having anyone class her as a slut.

merlin39 · 28-10-2009 01:10AM

God no, go for it girl. love them and leave them..

minidazzler · 28-10-2009 01:10AM

No, if a girl wants to sleep with someone she can go ahead and do it, it's her body.

I would prefer she was safe (well all people were safe about it), but if not, again, it's her body. Do as she pleases.

liah · 28-10-2009 01:11AM

No.

Why would it be?

Kinky Slinky · 28-10-2009 01:12AM

Yes

mrets · 28-10-2009 01:13AM

Kinky Slinky wrote: »

Yes

a reason maybe???

krudler · 28-10-2009 01:15AM

It always seems to be the girl who's labeled as the slut, the guy just gets away with being a guy. I guess (and this is purely from a guys perspective, feel free to correct me) that sex is a lot more invasive for a woman than a man, we're entering your body in probably the most personal act there is, so if a girl is seen as someone who'll let anyone do this naturally people will see her as slutty, especially if its a fairly regular occurance

Theres nothing wrong with enjoying sex, its what its meant to be, fun and enjoyable, but for me one night stands just dont do it, only ever had one and it was the most awkward, crappy sex ever, personally to me sex is something to be enjoyed with someone you feel close to or more of an attraction than just drunken lust or whatever (lets face it most ONS's are a result of booze) each to their own though.

Cupcake_Crisis · 28-10-2009 01:17AM

Absolutely not If a woman wants to have protected, consentual, no strings attached sex more ower to her!! Why should it be any different for a woman than it is for a man?

beks101 · 28-10-2009 01:18AM

In a word, no.

But discretion is the name of the game for a woman who wants to have a few but doesn't want to be labelled as one. That's the world we live in.

Kinky Slinky · 28-10-2009 01:21AM

mrets wrote: »

a reason maybe???

a woman with the morals of a man

blackbetty69 · 28-10-2009 01:23AM

depends on how often she does it

Gauge · 28-10-2009 01:23AM

Kinky Slinky wrote: »

a woman with the morals of a man

I wasn't aware morals were gendered.

minidazzler · 28-10-2009 01:24AM

Kinky Slinky wrote: »

a woman with the morals of a man

Thanks, for generalising all men! Cos we all just think with our sexual organs and don't think of concequences.

Gary ITR · 28-10-2009 01:25AM

For the love of God, of course not. At the end of the day it's only sex

enry · 28-10-2009 01:25AM

mrets wrote: »

any thoughts????

every night?

who cares as long as she does not give you crabbs

Novella · 28-10-2009 01:27AM

Kinky Slinky wrote: »

a woman with the morals of a man

That's a ridiculous statement. Not all men have the same morals. Some people enjoy casual sex and engaging in one night stand's. If it's done in a way that is safe etc, what exactly is the problem with it?

merlin39 · 28-10-2009 01:28AM

enry wrote: »

every night?

who cares as long as she does not give you crabbs

Would you be up for it everynite. means going out seven nites a week! Once a week would be grand.

pikachucheeks · 28-10-2009 01:33AM

merlin39 wrote: »

Would you be up for it everynite. means going out seven nites a week!

... Not every one-night stand involves going out to pubs and clubs, surely?

minidazzler · 28-10-2009 01:35AM

merlin39 wrote: »

Would you be up for it everynite. means going out seven nites a week! Once a week would be grand.

The internet exists for a reason!!!

Theresalwaysone · 28-10-2009 01:36AM

If its with me. No.

If I hear about her with someone else. Yes.

joking

enry · 28-10-2009 01:37AM

merlin39 wrote: »

Would you be up for it everynite. means going out seven nites a week! Once a week would be grand.

its been so long since i've been up for it, i worry that they have changed it. god who has the energy. but the way i see things, do what you want as long as your not hurting anyone else. you just have to remember its just sex but it can get messy

Kinky Slinky · 28-10-2009 01:40AM

Novella wrote: »

That's a ridiculous statement. Not all men have the same morals. Some people enjoy casual sex and engaging in one night stand's. If it's done in a way that is safe etc, what exactly is the problem with it?

If an attractive woman came up to a man and asked for sex on a Saturday night I'd guarantee the majority would say yes, if the sexes were interchanged I don’t think there would be the same result, Personally I don't have a problem with it ,that’s just my opinion on the topic

brendansmith · 28-10-2009 01:40AM

IMO......yeah a bit.

Its a bit classless, I she wants to and dosnt care what the neighbours might say thats fine but I think its a bit laddish tbh.

Maybe im just old fashioned.

merlin39 · 28-10-2009 01:42AM

pikachucheeks wrote: »

... Not every one-night stand involves going out to pubs and clubs, surely?

Where would you meet them then?

Novella · 28-10-2009 01:43AM

Kinky Slinky wrote: »

If an attractive woman came up to a man and asked for sex on a Saturday night I'd guarantee the majority would say yes, if the sexes were interchanged I don’t think there would be the same result, Personally I don't have a problem with it ,that’s just my opinion on the topic

That's fair enough! You think it's slutty for a woman to have a ONS, do you think the same of a man then?

Bob_Harris · 28-10-2009 01:44AM

I'm going to vote for a yes. A poll would could be interesting.

Professey Chin · 28-10-2009 01:46AM

Nope.Definately not.Same rules apply to both genders ie both can enjoy casual/ONSs without getting a bad name.

Kinky Slinky · 28-10-2009 01:48AM

Novella wrote: »

That's fair enough! You think it's slutty for a woman to have a ONS, do you think the same of a man then?

No, I know I am being a hypocrite but I think it’s socially more acceptable for a man to have a ons than a woman

krudler · 28-10-2009 01:48AM

A former friend of my OH's has a reputation for being a slut, she'll shag literally anything with a dick, in the year they lived together she must have slept with well over 100 men,she went out at least 3 nights a week and at least 1 of those nights would have a one night stand, sometimes every night, and a lot of it was unprotected, she told us she gets "embarassed" buying condoms, yet sleeping with random blokes isnt? Its gotten to the stage now where guys will tell their friends about the girl you're guaranteed a shag off of if it hits 2am and you havent pulled, so her slutty reputation is well deserved imo

pikachucheeks · 28-10-2009 01:53AM

merlin39 wrote: »

Where would you meet them then?

Could be friends with them, meet them online, through college or work, through a club ... List is endless.

My point being, not all one night stands are based around going out to bars, getting drunk then pulling someone. There's a variety of ways to meet people, even if it's just for a one nighter.

I don't think it's slutty. It's a personal choice.

is it slutty for a girl to have a one night stand?

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