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The 'Where do you work question'

  • 26-08-2009 05:17PM
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 732 ✭✭✭


    Do you think its acceptable for people to ask you nowadays where do you work, especially during a recession when so many people are unemployed? I was asked this question twice in the last week and I just think its so rude! Who wants to say I'm unemployed! I found myself lying and making excuses to people, feeling embarassed, even though Im going back to college soon. Its just so rude!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,871 ✭✭✭Conor108


    Where does Biggins work?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,651 ✭✭✭✭El Weirdo


    FFS.:rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,572 ✭✭✭WeeBushy


    Half the nation is unemployed, nothing to be ashamed of. Stop being so sensitive.

    And if you are embarrassed just tell them you're not working cuz you're going back to college. Problem solved.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,467 ✭✭✭Wazdakka


    Just say that you're a victim of the recession monster..


  • Moderators, Education Moderators Posts: 5,028 Mod ✭✭✭✭G_R


    while alot of people are out of work, the majority are still in (88/89% i think) so no its not inappropriate


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,015 ✭✭✭CreepingDeath


    scarymoon1 wrote: »
    Do you think its acceptable for people to ask you nowadays where do you work

    Yes, nothing wrong with it.
    People are showing an interest in you and your life.
    If they know you're unemployed they might be in a position to help.

    What other questions do you want to avoid ? Eg.
    Are you married ?
    Do you own a house or rent ?
    How much do you earn ?
    Do you have children ?
    Have you tried anal ?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,191 ✭✭✭narwog81


    i always lie about my occupation, the ensuing conversation is generally more interesting than speaking, again, about my actual job.... i am generally guilty of this when speaking to hairdressers or people in queues

    childish....yes but its fun!


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 12,333 ✭✭✭✭JONJO THE MISER


    I find that the people who ask this question either know your unemployed and try to :o in front of other people or Just want to look down there nosses at you and figure out how much you earn. I always Just say on the dole and what about yourself and ask them can ya sub me a pint:D that learns em.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,100 ✭✭✭✭TestTransmission


    Have you tried anal ?

    Have you?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,368 ✭✭✭Smart Bug


    I find that the answer to this question:
    Do you have children ?

    i.e. "I have 14 children" to be predicitive of this one:
    Have you tried anal ?

    'cos if they have 14 children they probably haven't tried anal. And they probably should.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,572 ✭✭✭WeeBushy


    narwog81 wrote: »
    i always lie about my occupation, the ensuing conversation is generally more interesting than speaking, again, about my actual job.... i am generally guilty of this when speaking to hairdressers or people in queues

    childish....yes but its fun!

    +1 on that, taximen are another good one to have a conversation about your fake life with.

    In my time I've played badminton professionally in South Korea, worked as a scuba diving instructor in a small town in southern Borneo, was a fisherman in Alaska for a year and featured on an episode of Deadliest Catch, and most recently I have returned from Taiwan working in a factory where I was the guy who stuck the "Made in Taiwan" stickers onto toys.

    What an interesting life I lead.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,205 ✭✭✭Neamhshuntasach


    scarymoon1 wrote: »
    Do you think its acceptable for people to ask you nowadays where do you work, especially during a recession when so many people are unemployed? I was asked this question twice in the last week and I just think its so rude! Who wants to say I'm unemployed! I found myself lying and making excuses to people, feeling embarassed, even though Im going back to college soon. Its just so rude!


    I bet you wear a bally while going down the post office to collect the dole.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,547 ✭✭✭✭Poor Uncle Tom


    Just get this printed on your T-shirt,

    no job, no kids, not married, don't own a house, don't do anal, now make with the interesting questions or GTFO.

    unless you're too embarrased to wear a t-shirt.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,896 ✭✭✭✭phantom_lord


    Conor108 wrote: »
    Where does Biggins work?

    you probably don't want to know


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,547 ✭✭✭✭Poor Uncle Tom


    WeeBushy wrote: »
    +1 on that, taximen are another good one to have a conversation about your fake life with.

    In my time I've played badminton professionally in South Korea, worked as a scuba diving instructor in a small town in southern Borneo, was a fisherman in Alaska for a year and featured on an episode of Deadliest Catch, and most recently I have returned from Taiwan working in a factory where I was the guy who stuck the "Made in Taiwan" stickers onto toys.

    What an interesting life I lead.

    Willie..! how have you been, we must catch up, call me....PUT.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,626 ✭✭✭✭My name is URL


    Conor108 wrote: »
    Where does Biggins work?

    He's a crack commando that was sent to prison by a military court for a crime he didn't commit. He promptly escaped from a maximum security stockade to the Los Angeles underground. Today, still wanted by the government, he survives as a soldier of fortune.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,572 ✭✭✭WeeBushy


    PUT
    :confused:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 36,634 ✭✭✭✭Ruu_Old


    "Between jobs". :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,547 ✭✭✭✭Poor Uncle Tom


    WeeBushy wrote: »
    :confused:

    Poor Uncle Tom.....has it been that long?....:D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,683 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    scarymoon1 wrote: »
    Do you think its acceptable for people to ask you nowadays where do you work, especially during a recession when so many people are unemployed? I was asked this question twice in the last week and I just think its so rude! Who wants to say I'm unemployed! I found myself lying and making excuses to people, feeling embarassed, even though Im going back to college soon. Its just so rude!
    In This Economy, why do you think being unemployed is something to be ashamed of?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 873 ✭✭✭Four-Percent


    Say you're self employed, and working on a few ideas if you're too embarrassed to say you're on the dole.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 62 ✭✭The End Of Days


    I make a point of never asking anyone what they work at or do for a living. It is just to oirish a thing to ask for moi.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,058 ✭✭✭✭Abi


    I make a point of never asking anyone what they work at or do for a living.

    Same ^^


    I don't know why some people feel they are entitled to ask the questions they do, nosey bastards.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,209 ✭✭✭✭JohnCleary


    Conor108 wrote: »
    Where does Biggins work?

    He's on the Dole - If he had a job he'd have no time to Google the answers to all those interesting stories he comes up with


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,190 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    your pm box is full again Abie


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,159 ✭✭✭✭phasers


    "I'm batman"


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 427 ✭✭sneakerfreak


    Amsterdam Head Shop in Rathmines


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,182 ✭✭✭dvpower


    What other questions do you want to avoid ? Eg.
    Are you married ?
    Do you own a house or rent ?
    How much do you earn ?
    Do you have children ?
    Have you tried anal ?
    These are all good chat up lines. Got any more?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 732 ✭✭✭scarymoon1


    Overheal wrote: »
    In This Economy, why do you think being unemployed is something to be ashamed of?


    well ive never got social welfare before, no one in my family has. I wouldn't dream of asking someone nowadays where they work and im surprised people still do.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 81,060 ✭✭✭✭biko


    scarymoon1 wrote: »
    Do you think its acceptable for people to ask you nowadays where do you work, especially during a recession when so many people are unemployed? I was asked this question twice in the last week and I just think its so rude! Who wants to say I'm unemployed! I found myself lying and making excuses to people, feeling embarassed, even though Im going back to college soon. Its just so rude!
    Yes and you are too sensitive. Everything doesn't change because there is a recession.


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