will i tell?

useful_contacts · 04-06-2009 10:38AM #1

I just found out my 17 year old sis(who no one in the family talks to ) is planning on going to a 21st in a pub that im going to at the weekend.

Shes been asking people i know for a loan of their ids and everyone said no, but now ive heard shes gotten a fake one made up.

my dads already has a stroke cos of her thats why no one in the family talks to her. She still lives with dad even though hes at his wits end with her.

Shes a very bad drinker and attacks people when she is drunk

Shes been drinking- attacked him drunk- being shagging everyone and is called a "bike"- being taken home by police -doing drugs and burning out dads car

Will i tell on her? to the pub in question or the police?

jim_bob · 04-06-2009 10:41AM

no you should cop on to your self and grow up

Princess Consuela Bananahammock · 04-06-2009 10:41AM

useful_contacts wrote: »

I just found out my 17 year old sis(who no one in the family talks to ) is planning on going to a 21st in a pub that im going to at the weekend.

Shes been asking people i know for a loan of their ids and everyone said no, but now ive heard shes gotten a fake one made up.

Will i rat her out? to the pub in question or the police?

Not the police. Pub, maybe, or parents. How likely is she NOT to come home safe? Is she normally ok at parties?

petes · 04-06-2009 10:41AM

Wow you are a nice relative!

Time Magazine · 04-06-2009 10:42AM

Not at all. She's not 12 ffs. The drinking age should be lowered.

battser · 04-06-2009 10:42AM

Dont be a DICK! Simple as. My brother is a little rat and will hang me out to dry every chance he gets. Its a sad state when you wish you didnt have him as a brother! Be the brother any sister would want! SOUND!

toiletduck · 04-06-2009 10:42AM

DONT BE A FOOKIN' GRASS

useful_contacts · 04-06-2009 10:42AM

jim_bob wrote: »

no you should cop on to your self and grow up

she is 17 she has no business being in a pub

useful_contacts · 04-06-2009 10:43AM

Insurgent wrote: »

Wow you are a nice relative!

i dont talk to her- so i dont care. but when she attacks people langers AGAIN my dad will have to pick up the pieces

battser · 04-06-2009 10:44AM

Worst type of people in the world are rats! cu*ts tbh! You wanna be one of them?

Relevant · 04-06-2009 10:44AM

useful_contacts wrote: »

she is 17 she has no business being in a pub

You are afraid she is going to score one of your mates aren't you!

useful_contacts · 04-06-2009 10:44AM

Ikky Poo2 wrote: »

Not the police. Pub, maybe, or parents. How likely is she NOT to come home safe? Is she normally ok at parties?

No she gets plasterred and was taken home by the police before

smk89 · 04-06-2009 10:45AM

useful_contacts wrote: »

she is 17 she has no business being in a pub

but when she is a few months older at 18 she will. whats the difference between 17 and 18 anyway? a few weeks

Time Magazine · 04-06-2009 10:45AM

useful_contacts wrote: »

No she gets plasterred and was taken home by the police before

First of all, you should have mentioned this in your OP.

Secondly, if she hasn't learned her lesson then let her learn it the hard way.

Degsy · 04-06-2009 10:45AM

useful_contacts wrote: »

she is 17 she has no business being in a pub

I agree but then neither do the gaggle of three year olds you regularly see in pubs running amok on a sunday while the parents get pissed.

She doesnt need to hold it in a pub anyway,have a free house party and wreck the place instead.

Rented Mule · 04-06-2009 10:46AM

Rat her out?

Why not pull her hair and run away while you are at it.

toiletduck · 04-06-2009 10:46AM

useful_contacts wrote: »

she is 17 she has no business being in a pub

Did you ever drink underage? Tbh you do seem to have issues with her if you're contemplating ringing the gardai. Also fake id doesn't automatically mean she'll get in/served. I personally haven't seen a decent one in years.

ragg · 04-06-2009 10:46AM

yea, ruin her fun,why not :rolleyes:

Gummy Panda · 04-06-2009 10:46AM

Why does your family not talk to her?

petes · 04-06-2009 10:47AM

useful_contacts wrote: »

i dont talk to her- so i dont care. but when she attacks people langers AGAIN my dad will have to pick up the pieces

Ah well we didn't get that form your post.

Sean^DCT4 · 04-06-2009 10:48AM

Gummy Panda wrote: »

Why does your family not talk to her?

Probably because the rest of the family are like the OP. The only normal one seems to be the underage sister.

Princess Consuela Bananahammock · 04-06-2009 10:48AM

useful_contacts wrote: »

No she gets plasterred and was taken home by the police before

In that case, possibly yes. Drinking age isn't the issue here, it's safety. If you're 17 and being taken home by the police, something needs to be checked.

If you were just being a bitch, I'd agree with everyone else here. Don't be a grass.
If you're doing it because you're worried for her safety, then do it.

useful_contacts · 04-06-2009 10:48AM

ragg wrote: »

yea, ruin her fun,why not :rolleyes:

ya while im at that why dont i bury my father

cos thats what ill have to do if she comes home floored, my dads already has a stroke cos of her, why ya think no one in the family talks to her?

r3nu4l · 04-06-2009 10:49AM

I assume you'll be there with friends of your own? How about just keeping an eye on her and asking your friends to do the same? If she starts getting drunk enough so people could take advantage of her just give me a call make sure to stick to her side like glue.

MIN2511 · 04-06-2009 10:49AM

useful_contacts wrote: »

I just found out my 17 year old sis(who no one in the family talks to ) is planning on going to a 21st in a pub that im going to at the weekend.

Shes been asking people i know for a loan of their ids and everyone said no, but now ive heard shes gotten a fake one made up.

Will i rat her out? to the pub in question or the police?

Meh, do you not have anything else to do?

Like seriously....

Princess Consuela Bananahammock · 04-06-2009 10:49AM

The Economist wrote: »

First of all, you should have mentioned this in your OP.

Secondly, if she hasn't learned her lesson then let her learn it the hard way.

Insurgent wrote: »

Ah well we didn't get that form your post.

.... which is exactly why I asked!!

Rented Mule · 04-06-2009 10:49AM

This has suddenly turned into the Personal Issues forum....

It's THAT way >>>>

useful_contacts · 04-06-2009 10:50AM

Gummy Panda wrote: »

Why does your family not talk to her?

because her crap caused my dad to have a stroke already

r3nu4l · 04-06-2009 10:51AM

useful_contacts wrote: »

ya while im at that why dont i bury my father

cos thats what ill have to do if she comes home floored, my dads already has a stroke cos of her, why ya think no one in the family talks to her?

Your dad didn't have a stroke because of her! He had a stroke because he had cerebrovascular complications that resulted in compromised blood flow and therefore a lack of oxygen getting to the brain. Less of the melodramatics, pahleeeze!

EDIT: IF she really is such a problem then perhaps informing your parents is the best option but even still, her antics didn't cause the stroke.

johnny_knoxvile · 04-06-2009 10:51AM

If her fake ID says "Mac Lovin", she is legend. There is a legal loop hole which states if you grass on a legend you will have to serve hard labour, two years wallpapering Mary Harneys belly.

Don't make the same mistake i did, i implore you.

Maddison · 04-06-2009 10:51AM

Yours sister has to learn from her own mistakes, the only thing ratting her out is going to cause is further resentment between you both. As her sister should you not be trying to find out why it is that she acts the way she does?Mabey if she had a more supportive family she wouldnt be the way she is.....just my opinion based on what you have said, I dont know the background info.

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