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I better go just to show my face!

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,358 ✭✭✭Dennis the Stone


    At my grandmother's funeral, nobody said anything.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,369 ✭✭✭✭ejmaztec


    One of our old family acquaintances went to all of the funerals within a twenty mile radius. He popped up in the most unlikely places for free tea, booze and sandwiches.

    Whenever he wasn't at a funeral, he was described as "sniffing for a corpse":eek:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,358 ✭✭✭Dennis the Stone


    An uncle of mine was asked why he wasn't going to a particular funeral and he quipped "I'm not going to her funeral. She won't be coming to mine."

    He is a bit of a bollocks though in fairness


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,978 ✭✭✭Soby


    Go for the triangle sandwiches;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,390 ✭✭✭Captain-America


    It's a sign of respect. Maybe not so much to the dead person, but to the people you know.

    And it's an extra Mass point for when you go to heaven. God loves a mass goer.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,605 ✭✭✭Fizman


    I had a strange experience about a month ago. An old friend of my dad passed away, a man I never met. My dad hadn't seen him for a year or two, and he passed suddenly enough. MY old man did a lot of work with this guy many moons ago, and would have known his family through having lunch in their house etc.

    On the evening of his funeral my dad was travelling with work, so he wasn't around to attend. He asked myself and my mum to go (my mum had only met him once in the past, years ago), so I said I would, if only for my dad.

    Now I didn't know a single face in the dead house, nor many outside it. When my mum and I got to the deceased mans wife, my mum introduced me, explaining why my dad couldn't attend. This was the strange part. Her eyes almost lit up, as if she were looking at my dad. We even spoke for about 15-20 seconds, with her daughters beside us also smiling knowing who we were.

    It was mad that, even though my dad couldn't 'show a face'...the people seemed so grateful that my mum and I were there and to be honest seeing there reaction made the whole trip worthwhile.


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