Strange Attractions

Carlotta · 24-02-2009 10:13PM #1

Has anyone else ever been attracted to some-one who you think you shouldn't be? Some-one you would be embarrassed to tell your friends about?

Its happened to me a few times, the thing is I can find it very hard to shake the feelings - so frustrating!!!!!!!!

It happens with people I know and also some celebrities.

For instance, where I work there is a delivery man I see at least once a week. He's in his 40's (I'm 25) & has a big belly. He was probably pretty good looking about 10 years ago. But when he's around, I dunno, I get all embarrased and nervous when he's around - worse i think he knows cuz he he's started winking at me!! I find myself thinking about him quite a bit. Its not like I typically go for older guys, I don't.

Also I find Turlough off Fair City quite sexy. Also John Bishop is hot!!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gaGexC8HG2c

It feels wrong!

XxXciaraxXx · 24-02-2009 10:16PM

I used to fancy the pants off of Alan Partridge! Dunno why!

Really liking Gordon Ramsey at the mo!

TPD · 24-02-2009 10:17PM

Just ride him, it'll get it out of your system and make his day/week/year.

Carlotta · 24-02-2009 10:21PM

XxXciaraxXx wrote: »

I used to fancy the pants off of Alan Partridge! Dunno why!

Really liking Gordon Ramsey at the mo!

i can see the Ramsey connection.

TPD wrote: »

Just ride him, it'll get it out of your system and make his day/week/year.

I couldn't!!!! I'd still have to face him at work. He might be married too!!!!

sitout · 24-02-2009 10:21PM

OP if your single go for it . why not? a bit of rumble in the jungle never went astray:p

AnonoBoy · 24-02-2009 10:25PM

Carlotta wrote: »

For instance, where I work there is a delivery man I see at least once a week. He's in his 40's (I'm 25) & has a big belly. He was probably pretty good looking about 10 years ago. But when he's around, I dunno, I get all embarrased and nervous when he's around - worse i think he knows cuz he he's started winking at me!! I find myself thinking about him quite a bit. Its not like I typically go for older guys, I don't.

Admit it - you're really a 40-something year old delivery man.

rossie1977 · 24-02-2009 10:26PM

why are you worried what your friends think?? if they are that bad then get new friends, i don't look for my friends to doublecheck :P neither would i expect them to listen to me unless the other person is hideously ugly or something or i knew that person was a complete a*shole

antodeco · 24-02-2009 10:29PM

Carlotta wrote: »

I couldn't!!!! I'd still have to face him at work.

Doggy Style FTW

Cupcake_Crisis · 24-02-2009 10:31PM

i do enjoy me some strangely attractive men. Like frank from shameless....i dont know why, but i would!

Carlotta · 24-02-2009 10:31PM

sitout wrote: »

OP if your single go for it . why not? a bit of rumble in the jungle never went astray:p

AnonoBoy wrote: »

Admit it - you're really a 40-something year old delivery man.

rossie1977 wrote: »

why are you worried what your friends think?? if they are that bad then get new friends, i don't look for my friends to doublecheck :P neither would i expect them to listen to me unless the other person is hideously ugly or something or i knew that person was a complete a*shole

You don't get it, this is some guy I meet a work, we excahnge a few words about the delivery and what have you and maybe the weather, thats it. i know nothing about this man but cant help being attracted to him. He is totally not my type and my plans for my future do not include a guy the wrong side of 40!!!! I just want to not feel like this!!
Whats wrong with me anyway, its not the first time and my attraction to celebs weirds me out at times too!!!

Carlotta · 24-02-2009 10:32PM

Cupcake_Crisis wrote: »

i do enjoy me some strangely attractive men. Like frank from shameless....i dont know why, but i would!

thank god, someone worse than me hahahah

SoWatchaWant · 24-02-2009 10:33PM

Sure it's happened to me before. But I let it slide, because I when I get them, I'm like "What the **** was I thinking?" Even if it's a one night thing you still feel dirty as you're trudging out of their house midday on a sunday.

Doubly so if you work with them, in my humble opinion. Do what you want OP!

Busi_Girl08 · 24-02-2009 10:34PM

James May, aka Captain Slow from Top Gear!!

I just love his hair, and his wit, and his laugh!!!

Carlotta · 24-02-2009 10:39PM

What about neil delamere? And horatio from csi miami!!!!!!!!! yum

Carlotta · 24-02-2009 10:43PM

Maybe its cause he's Scottish. Love that accent!!!!

antodeco · 24-02-2009 10:44PM

Cant find a proper Pat Mustard video on youtube. It has failed me for once

Abi · 24-02-2009 10:44PM

Tuuubridddy!

And a boardsie.. iz a sekrit *snigger*

J.S. Pill · 24-02-2009 10:46PM

There's a girl at work I'm uncontrollably attracted to - nobody else seems to think she's pretty except me. I don't know what it is but she really does it for me.....mmm, girly at work

Kiera · 24-02-2009 10:48PM

Cupcake_Crisis wrote: »

i do enjoy me some strangely attractive men. Like frank from shameless....i dont know why, but i would!

Oh sweet jesus. I've seen it all now :eek:

Sharpshooter · 24-02-2009 10:57PM

Kiera wrote: »

Oh sweet jesus. I've seen it all now :eek:

Nooooo..
Shield your eyes.:eek:

olliedecableguy · 24-02-2009 10:58PM

this is my first post so here goes,i think we all have these strange attractions at some time or another,and in my opinion i think u should just inbrace the attraction , not the delivery guy mind? just the feelin...
think u will find u wount get so freaked out as much!!! and feel a little more comfortable in urself ....olls

Kiera · 24-02-2009 10:58PM

Sharpshooter wrote: »

Nooooo..
Shield your eyes.:eek:

You cant get worse than that, H?

BroomBurner · 24-02-2009 10:59PM

Surely everyone has had a crush on a teacher/lecturer, no?

EDIT: Kiera, a friend of mine had an insane crush on Eamonn Dunphy

Saibh · 24-02-2009 11:02PM

Kiera wrote: »

Oh sweet jesus. I know how you feel

Sharpshooter wrote: »

Yes

FYP

Kiera · 24-02-2009 11:05PM

Kiera wrote: »

You cant get worse than that, H?

BroomBurner wrote: »

Surely everyone has had a crush on a teacher/lecturer, no?

EDIT: Kiera, a friend of mine had an insane crush on Eamonn Dunphy

and there it is....

antodeco · 24-02-2009 11:08PM

BroomBurner wrote: »

EDIT: Kiera, a friend of mine had an insane crush on Eamonn Dunphy

Sweet jaysus. Sheep fetish perhaps??

Dunphy

versus

Sheep

Mimikyu · 24-02-2009 11:10PM

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BroomBurner · 24-02-2009 11:13PM

Kiera wrote: »

and there it is....

Maybe it was a weird desire to lick the folds in his skin. I can't think of it being anything else.

tangerinepuppet · 24-02-2009 11:14PM

+1 to Neil Delamere and Eamonn Dunphy! Hmmm and what about that daft butcher in Coronation Street?

Carlotta · 24-02-2009 11:15PM

-Phuqer- wrote: »

Yes, I have a very yummy lecturer. Only good thing about that class

well if its a fit teacher, then its not a strange attraction! What about an old fat bald teacher with bad breath. that would be strange. not that my crush is bald or has bad breath

Mimikyu · 24-02-2009 11:19PM

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