Strange Attractions

Carlotta

Has anyone else ever been attracted to some-one who you think you shouldn't be? Some-one you would be embarrassed to tell your friends about?

Its happened to me a few times, the thing is I can find it very hard to shake the feelings - so frustrating!!!!!!!!

It happens with people I know and also some celebrities.

For instance, where I work there is a delivery man I see at least once a week. He's in his 40's (I'm 25) & has a big belly. He was probably pretty good looking about 10 years ago. But when he's around, I dunno, I get all embarrased and nervous when he's around - worse i think he knows cuz he he's started winking at me!! I find myself thinking about him quite a bit. Its not like I typically go for older guys, I don't.

Also I find Turlough off Fair City quite sexy. Also John Bishop is hot!!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gaGexC8HG2c

It feels wrong!

XxXciaraxXx

I used to fancy the pants off of Alan Partridge! Dunno why!

Really liking Gordon Ramsey at the mo!

TPD

Just ride him, it'll get it out of your system and make his day/week/year.

Carlotta

XxXciaraxXx wrote: »

I used to fancy the pants off of Alan Partridge! Dunno why!

Really liking Gordon Ramsey at the mo!

i can see the Ramsey connection.

TPD wrote: »

Just ride him, it'll get it out of your system and make his day/week/year.

I couldn't!!!! I'd still have to face him at work. He might be married too!!!!

sitout

OP if your single go for it . why not? a bit of rumble in the jungle never went astray:p

AnonoBoy

Carlotta wrote: »

For instance, where I work there is a delivery man I see at least once a week. He's in his 40's (I'm 25) & has a big belly. He was probably pretty good looking about 10 years ago. But when he's around, I dunno, I get all embarrased and nervous when he's around - worse i think he knows cuz he he's started winking at me!! I find myself thinking about him quite a bit. Its not like I typically go for older guys, I don't.

Admit it - you're really a 40-something year old delivery man.

rossie1977

why are you worried what your friends think?? if they are that bad then get new friends, i don't look for my friends to doublecheck :P neither would i expect them to listen to me unless the other person is hideously ugly or something or i knew that person was a complete a*shole

antodeco

Carlotta wrote: »

I couldn't!!!! I'd still have to face him at work.

Doggy Style FTW

Cupcake_Crisis

i do enjoy me some strangely attractive men. Like frank from shameless....i dont know why, but i would!

Carlotta

sitout wrote: »

OP if your single go for it . why not? a bit of rumble in the jungle never went astray:p

AnonoBoy wrote: »

Admit it - you're really a 40-something year old delivery man.

rossie1977 wrote: »

why are you worried what your friends think?? if they are that bad then get new friends, i don't look for my friends to doublecheck :P neither would i expect them to listen to me unless the other person is hideously ugly or something or i knew that person was a complete a*shole

You don't get it, this is some guy I meet a work, we excahnge a few words about the delivery and what have you and maybe the weather, thats it. i know nothing about this man but cant help being attracted to him. He is totally not my type and my plans for my future do not include a guy the wrong side of 40!!!! I just want to not feel like this!!
Whats wrong with me anyway, its not the first time and my attraction to celebs weirds me out at times too!!!

Carlotta

Cupcake_Crisis wrote: »

i do enjoy me some strangely attractive men. Like frank from shameless....i dont know why, but i would!

thank god, someone worse than me hahahah

SoWatchaWant

Sure it's happened to me before. But I let it slide, because I when I get them, I'm like "What the **** was I thinking?" Even if it's a one night thing you still feel dirty as you're trudging out of their house midday on a sunday.

Doubly so if you work with them, in my humble opinion. Do what you want OP!

Busi_Girl08

James May, aka Captain Slow from Top Gear!!

I just love his hair, and his wit, and his laugh!!!

Carlotta

What about neil delamere? And horatio from csi miami!!!!!!!!! yum

Carlotta

Maybe its cause he's Scottish. Love that accent!!!!

antodeco

Cant find a proper Pat Mustard video on youtube. It has failed me for once

Abi

Tuuubridddy!

And a boardsie.. iz a sekrit *snigger*

J.S. Pill

There's a girl at work I'm uncontrollably attracted to - nobody else seems to think she's pretty except me. I don't know what it is but she really does it for me.....mmm, girly at work

Kiera

Cupcake_Crisis wrote: »

i do enjoy me some strangely attractive men. Like frank from shameless....i dont know why, but i would!

Oh sweet jesus. I've seen it all now :eek:

Sharpshooter

Kiera wrote: »

Oh sweet jesus. I've seen it all now :eek:

Nooooo..
Shield your eyes.:eek:

olliedecableguy

this is my first post so here goes,i think we all have these strange attractions at some time or another,and in my opinion i think u should just inbrace the attraction , not the delivery guy mind? just the feelin...
think u will find u wount get so freaked out as much!!! and feel a little more comfortable in urself ....olls

Kiera

Sharpshooter wrote: »

Nooooo..
Shield your eyes.:eek:

You cant get worse than that, H?

BroomBurner

Surely everyone has had a crush on a teacher/lecturer, no?

EDIT: Kiera, a friend of mine had an insane crush on Eamonn Dunphy

Saibh

Kiera wrote: »

Oh sweet jesus. I know how you feel

Sharpshooter wrote: »

Yes

FYP

Kiera

Kiera wrote: »

You cant get worse than that, H?

BroomBurner wrote: »

Surely everyone has had a crush on a teacher/lecturer, no?

EDIT: Kiera, a friend of mine had an insane crush on Eamonn Dunphy

and there it is....

antodeco

BroomBurner wrote: »

EDIT: Kiera, a friend of mine had an insane crush on Eamonn Dunphy

Sweet jaysus. Sheep fetish perhaps??


Dunphy

versus

Sheep

Mimikyu

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BroomBurner

Kiera wrote: »

and there it is....

Maybe it was a weird desire to lick the folds in his skin. I can't think of it being anything else.

tangerinepuppet

+1 to Neil Delamere and Eamonn Dunphy! Hmmm and what about that daft butcher in Coronation Street?

Carlotta

-Phuqer- wrote: »

Yes, I have a very yummy lecturer. Only good thing about that class

well if its a fit teacher, then its not a strange attraction! What about an old fat bald teacher with bad breath. that would be strange. not that my crush is bald or has bad breath

Mimikyu

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BroomBurner

-Phuqer- wrote: »

That Kurt fella? Please don't say you're serious.

Think she means Ashley, ah say, ah say

Acacia

I have a thing for Boards mods, what with their ruling this place with an iron fist.

Some people call that arse-licking, but I can't help how I feel...*sighs*

Abi

Acacia wrote: »

I have a thing for Boards mods, what with their ruling this place with an iron fist.

Some people call that arse-licking, but I can't help how I feel...*sighs*

árse licker

Oooh.. But when Wibbsy lays down the law... *licks lips*

pickarooney

antodeco wrote: »

Sweet jaysus. Sheep fetish perhaps??


Dunphy

versus

Sheep

Dunphy has a bit of a Sam Beckett thing going on there.

banshee_bones

yeah me and my friend had this conversation.....and we both found for us it was......


Dr Cox from scrubs....


no idea why....

neil delamere! Hello he makes ya laugh! that counts for ALOT with some women....

who007

I think it's just both a hormonal thing - and also I think it's cos you know that it would be purely only sex with that person - no swapping phone numbers, going for meals etc., just the raw and readiness of a highly charged shag, end of story. It's hard to explain.

I used to work woth a woman I really really hated (she doesn't work here any more though) and one day suddenly out of the blue I began havnig very vivid and erotic daydreams about her sitting in a chair while I ate her out - with her giving me orders at the same time. Was really strange how it just suddenly popped into my head. I looked at her in a different light after that but still never liked her!

Rhyme

banshee_bones wrote: »

neil delamere! Hello he makes ya laugh! that counts for ALOT with some women....

Some kind of rustic charm perhaps?

banshee_bones

Rhyme wrote: »

Some kind of rustic charm perhaps?

you would be surprised at how high a value some women place on that attribute!

oh and neil delamere doesnt do it for me, i was merely stating that i can see why there could be an attraction there.... :pac:

Carlotta

BroomBurner wrote: »

Think she means Ashley, ah say, ah say

Yup. Ever since he got a decent haircut he looks alright.

banshee_bones wrote: »

Dr Cox from scrubs....

Nice bod and just...generally....HOT!

Carlotta

Rhyme wrote: »

Some kind of rustic charm perhaps?

Why rustic charm?

banshee_bones

Carlotta wrote: »

Nice bod and just...generally....HOT!

meh.... dunno... i think we were swooning over his sheer arrogance? (not a quality we would "normally" look for in someone i guess!)

I really dont know, guess hes not the worst looking for an *older lad....





*but if were going down that road... for me (off topic i know) its got to be Clive Owen. HOT.

liah

Janitor from Scrubs.

Don't ask.

Carlotta

liah wrote: »

Janitor from Scrubs.

Don't ask.

Yeah. *sigh*
I have a problem

really liked skinner from the x files too
worf from star trek

oh god