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FFS, Why wasn't there Teachers like this at my School

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,073 ✭✭✭✭Terry


    The majority of straight 14 year old boys on the planet would jump at a chance to be with her.

    By the way, he could also be 17, but let's not allow that get in the way of the shock horror brigade.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Why are people ignoring the fact that it hasn't been established he's 17... he's described as between 14 and 17.

    And did he give his consent? Y'know, it's entirely possible he didn't - even though she's hot :eek:


    It's not to be all shock horror about it, Terry. Thought you'd have more intelligence than the "ooh amn't I da man!!!" brigade.
    And so what if most 14-year-old lads would jump at the chance (most? really? y'know, despite the media, Boards.ie, bullsh1t people talk etc... not all teenagers are uncontrollable horndogs)? She'd be breaking the law.

    I distinctly remember "paedophile supporter!!!" type comments on this forum a few months ago. Strange that...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,183 ✭✭✭Peared


    The majority of 14 year old girls would jump at the chance to be with Brad Pitt or whoever, would that make it ok?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,816 ✭✭✭✭galwayrush


    Dudess wrote: »
    And did he give his consent? Y'know, it's entirely possible he didn't - even though she's hot :eek:

    .
    She may have taken the big grin on his face as a yes.:p


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,631 ✭✭✭Einstein


    Peared wrote: »
    The majority of 14 year old girls would jump at the chance to be with Brad Pitt or whoever, would that make it ok?
    no denying about the law or about it being ok, just discussing the fact that just because the law may see it as abuse, doesn't mean that he cant have enjoyed it...lets face facts too, the link from the OP doesn't seem to be a high quality news site...:rolleyes:


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,534 ✭✭✭FruitLover


    Having been a 14-year-old bloke, a 17-year-old bloke, and everything in between, I can tell you there's not much difference in horniness through the various stages.
    Dudess wrote: »
    And did he give his consent? Y'know, it's entirely possible he didn't - even though she's hot :eek:

    Hot blonde 23-year-old: "I want that in my mouth."
    Teenage bag of hormones: "Eh.. no."

    Yeah, I can see that happening... :rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Oh so you as one guy speak for all guys. Yes I'd be absolutely confident that a guy in his mid teens wouldn't be comfortable with a much older woman fellating him. Again, not all teenagers are hornbags. What about the shy, nervous ones? The late bloomers?

    It's highly likely he did enjoy it, yes. He might also feel messed up in a few years time that a much older woman in a position of authority and trust had sex with him. The author John Irving describes the very same thing happening to him - he enjoyed it at the time but it still ****ed him up.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,631 ✭✭✭Einstein


    Dudess wrote: »
    The author John Irving describes the very same thing happening to him - he enjoyed it at the time but it still ****ed him up.
    noted, howver that happened in a completley different generation where he was probably looked on like a filthy young lad etc etc...the issue proably went on for months...
    this generation, different way of thinking. It was probably forgotten about in a matter of days...


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 32,865 ✭✭✭✭MagicMarker


    Einstein wrote: »
    It was probably forgotten about in a matter of days...

    I highly doubt it, the only adverse effect this kid probably has is prolonged friction burns on his cock while thinking about the awesome blow job he got from his hot teacher.


  • Registered Users, Subscribers, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,722 ✭✭✭✭antodeco


    More photos of her on her myspace


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,649 ✭✭✭Catari Jaguar


    Dudess wrote: »
    . Yes I'd be absolutely confident that a guy in his mid teens wouldn't be comfortable with a much older woman fellating him. Again, not all teenagers are hornbags. What about the shy, nervous ones? The late bloomers?

    Comfortable and experienced enough to take a photo of it to pass around to people...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,073 ✭✭✭✭Terry


    Peared wrote: »
    The majority of 14 year old girls would jump at the chance to be with Brad Pitt or whoever, would that make it ok?
    It would be fine in Spain and many other countries.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,971 ✭✭✭Holsten


    ANY 17 year old boy would jump at the chance of a whack of her.

    Lucky guy.

    Stupid as hell if anything actually does happen to her.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,598 ✭✭✭✭Aidric


    I'd have been well up for a bit of abuse off her.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Holsten wrote: »
    ANY 17 year old boy would jump at the chance of a whack of her.

    Lucky guy.

    Stupid as hell if anything actually does happen to her.
    Again, it hasn't been established he was 17 at the time... he may only have been 14. And if she broke the law, then it would be stupid as hell if anything didn't happen to her.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,949 ✭✭✭A Primal Nut


    Dudess wrote: »
    Why are people ignoring the fact that it hasn't been established he's 17... he's described as between 14 and 17.

    And did he give his consent? Y'know, it's entirely possible he didn't - even though she's hot :eek:

    No, its not! He could have easily walked away while she was down on her knees!
    It's not to be all shock horror about it, Terry. Thought you'd have more intelligence than the "ooh amn't I da man!!!" brigade.
    And so what if most 14-year-old lads would jump at the chance (most? really? y'know, despite the media, Boards.ie, bullsh1t people talk etc... not all teenagers are uncontrollable horndogs)? She'd be breaking the law.

    Ok, She should be arrested on principle as it would wrong for the police or the court to differentiate between men and women. That doesn't change the fact that this a very lucky young boy and the idea of people here sympathising with him is wrong! Fact: There is a difference between boys and girls at every age in pretty much every way.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,593 ✭✭✭Sea Sharp


    Lucky SOB.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 21,377 ✭✭✭✭Stark


    He needs his luckiest boy in the world medal right away.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 256 ✭✭wintear


    Can I ask who reported the abuse?
    Was it the boy concerned or someone else?

    If it was the Boy then it would certainly be abuse, if not then it is not immediately clear if it is.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,308 ✭✭✭Rowley Birkin QC


    TBH the only problem I can see with it is that he might never get a girl as hot as this again.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 153 ✭✭Wacko


    America is a very odd place look at all these cases, could you imagine if it happened once in Ireland it would be front page stuff for years.

    http://www.wnd.com/index.php?fa=PAGE.view&pageId=39783


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,587 ✭✭✭✭Frisbee


    Hero, I want to be that guy...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,639 ✭✭✭LightningBolt


    Didn't it all come to air because pictures he took of her blowing him off became public? Hardly the actions of someone who was abused. In saying all that, as nice as it would be to have a therapist/pe teacher blow you it's still an abuse of power. This won't be taken serious at all and highlights the problem of gender inequality when it comes to abuse.

    Oh and I reckon she'll use the Mel Gibson defense;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,387 ✭✭✭✭rubadub


    Einstein wrote: »
    no denying about the law or about it being ok, just discussing the fact that just because the law may see it as abuse, doesn't mean that he cant have enjoyed it.
    It is still statutory rape if he was underage. Many female victims of statutory rape would have enjoyed it, they could have been their boyfriends for years, it is still statutory rape.
    That doesn't change the fact that this a very lucky young boy and the idea of people here sympathising with him is wrong! Fact: There is a difference between boys and girls at every age in pretty much every way.
    What facts? I do not think there is such a big difference, in fact I would think it is more common for a 14 year old girl to have a crush on a teacher who could abuse that fact/situation. Again, if your 14 year old daughter came home and said her handsome teacher ate her out and rode her would your reply be "you're a very lucky young girl, bet your mother wishes she was rode rotten by her teacher".

    Thank god the lawmakers do not agree with whatever "facts" you have in your head.
    This won't be taken serious at all and highlights the problem of gender equality when it comes to abuse.
    Thankfully it will be taken seriously by the law, it is only people here not taking it seriously.

    That link was interesting, http://www.wnd.com/index.php?fa=PAGE.view&pageId=39783 I suppose some here would lock some away since they do not find them attractive. Maybe have a swimsuit parade in the court so the jurors can vote on their appearance and figure out if it was wrong or not.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,160 ✭✭✭✭banshee_bones


    ok is there any chance that he might have iniatiated some of this? maybe he kicked things off with her,started off with some harmless flirting and it escalated from there?
    lets see. . . . he may be the cheeky kind chap which im thinking he may just be if hes taking pictures on his phone! doesnt have the air of a "nervous young boy" about it does it? and yes regardless of who iniated she abused her position.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 153 ✭✭Wacko


    rubadub wrote: »
    Thankfully it will be taken seriously by the law, it is only people here not taking it seriously.

    Not too sure about that have a look at what the judge said in this case
    http://www.wnd.com/news/article.asp?ARTICLE_ID=52044

    I think that looks do have a bearing on sentencing in cases like these, Debra LaFave, Pamela Turner (first time round), Cameo Patch, Kristen Margrif, Erica Rutters all good looking women who received no jail time, I think a man in their position would have had the book thrown at him.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,509 ✭✭✭✭randylonghorn


    Didn't it all come to air because pictures he took of her blowing him off became public? Hardly the actions of someone who was abused.
    Have to say that would be my guess as well ... dude did too much bragging:

    "Sheriff's deputies were informed of the unlawful acts by someone who saw a text message photograph, Amormino said."
    In saying all that, as nice as it would be to have a therapist/pe teacher blow you it's still an abuse of power.
    Agreed, it's totally inappropriate behaviour no matter how much the hot young female teacher on her knees might be most teenage guys' fantasy.
    This won't be taken serious at all and highlights the problem of gender equality when it comes to abuse.
    Gender equality does not mean that men and women are the same. There is a reason that most of the male respondents to this thread are not taking this seriously. Ok, there is a chance that the guy was pressurised or coerced, and if so that would make it a hell of a lot more serious, but there is a far greater chance that he thought all his birthdays had come together, and was bragging to all his mates ... and there is at least a hint of the latter from the manner in which this came to light.

    Doesn't excuse her behaviour by any means, but tbh there's a good chance that the lad will end up more traumatised by all the publicity and any court case than by the original act.

    And that is one of the major differences between the genders.
    Dudess wrote: »
    Oh so you as one guy speak for all guys. Yes I'd be absolutely confident that a guy in his mid teens wouldn't be comfortable with a much older woman fellating him. Again, not all teenagers are hornbags. What about the shy, nervous ones? The late bloomers?

    It's highly likely he did enjoy it, yes. He might also feel messed up in a few years time that a much older woman in a position of authority and trust had sex with him. The author John Irving describes the very same thing happening to him - he enjoyed it at the time but it still ****ed him up.
    23 is a "much older" woman?!

    As I remember the Irving story, it wasn't particularly comparable.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 38,227 ✭✭✭✭Guy:Incognito


    Dudess wrote: »
    Oh right, so it's ok for a woman to sexually abuse as long as she's hot. Gotcha.

    She could sexually abuse the hell out of me tbh.


    I wouldnt even tell.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 718 ✭✭✭thirdmantackle


    she's your gym teacher? nice


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,483 ✭✭✭✭daveirl


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