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Men Are ye that shallow?

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 328 ✭✭Statso


    Gyladene wrote: »
    All the ones who aren't can definitely swing my way. :o

    You'll be waiting a while to find some who aren't.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 491 ✭✭deleriumtremens


    Well, put it like this!
    Shallowness means being attracted to somebody simply because they "look good" instead of taking personality into consideration.
    The concept of who looks good and who doesn’t is universal because we all evolved brains that associate certain facial features (eg. facial symmetry) and bodily features (eg. a certain hip to waist ratio) with increased odds of producing both healthy bodies for themselves and of producing healthy offspring.

    So the genes that built the bodies and brains that preferred those traits were more likely to get passed than the genes that built bodies and brains that had a preferences for other traits (eg. facial asymmetry or heaviness which is linked to infertility).

    So nowadays both men and women are, whether they like to admit it or not, shallow when it comes to who they would want to mate with. Even though we don’t consciously think it, our genes have hardwired us with a brain which impels our body to mate with the best possible deal we can get to maximise the chances of our offspring growing up to be attractive, pass on more of genes and so on. You need only look at the wedding photos of the local newspaper to see that people only mate with people of equal physical attractiveness. It is irrational to ignore the evolutionary baggage which nature has left us with!!!

    That said, people can deviate to a certain extent with regard to how equal in attractiveness their mate is and can sometimes be seen to mate with somebody less attractive than themselves..but ONLY if the person has other traits eg. humour, ambition or another good characteristic that make up for the deficit. We are programmed to be always trying to get the best for ourselves, whether we like to think it or not!!

    So in answer...yes, all people, men included are shallow.......makes me ashames to be a human really!!! And I'm 18 by the way, not some bitter old guy!!! :o


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,053 ✭✭✭homerun_homer


    I've gone out with the intentions of pulling a one night stand but it was more a secret desire rather than something I talked about. At the same time it's never happened, I just get drunk with the lads and leave the girls alone so either I was being shallow or optimistic, depending how you look at it.

    In my world it's not as easy as deciding to just go out and have one so it's not something I think about. If I had no standards I'm sure then things would start falling in to place.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,649 ✭✭✭✭CDfm


    deise gal wrote: »
    Was in college today minding my own business heading towards the library when i overheard a conversation between a group of fella's
    '' You up to anything tonight?''
    ''Yeh heading to ......bar(student place), get pissed, get a girl and get home!''


    Are ye men that shallow?
    Now i know i'm not naive in second year of college but i think i was astonished by the way this fella said it!
    Probably knew you were listening.

    Out of interest - did you go to the bar?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,497 ✭✭✭✭Dragan


    deise gal wrote: »
    Was in college today minding my own business heading towards the library when i overheard a conversation between a group of fella's
    '' You up to anything tonight?''
    ''Yeh heading to ......bar(student place), get pissed, get a girl and get home!''


    Are ye men that shallow?
    Now i know i'm not naive in second year of college but i think i was astonished by the way this fella said it!

    Are you serious?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    deise gal wrote: »
    Now i know i'm not naive in second year of college
    Sorry but your post is extremely naive. Being in second year doesn't mean you're all "worldly" now.
    but i think i was astonished by the way this fella said it!
    Wow, you've never heard guys go on like that before?!


  • Moderators, Education Moderators Posts: 9,815 Mod ✭✭✭✭mayordenis


    deise gal wrote: »
    Was in college today minding my own business heading towards the library when i overheard a conversation between a group of fella's
    '' You up to anything tonight?''
    ''Yeh heading to ......bar(student place), get pissed, get a girl and get home!''


    Are ye men that shallow?
    Now i know i'm not naive in second year of college but i think i was astonished by the way this fella said it!

    you're definately naive.

    to be honest I know as many or more girls who would have that attitude and sure every other girl would be all retarded like "more power to her"

    Guy wants a few drinks and some casual sex therefore all men are shallow swines.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,944 ✭✭✭✭4zn76tysfajdxp


    deise gal wrote: »
    Was in college today minding my own business heading towards the library when i overheard a conversation between a group of fella's
    '' You up to anything tonight?''
    ''Yeh heading to ......bar(student place), get pissed, get a girl and get home!''


    Are ye men that shallow?
    Now i know i'm not naive in second year of college but i think i was astonished by the way this fella said it!

    You should offer to sleep with him, maybe then he wouldn't go out looking to get laid afterwards.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,368 ✭✭✭thelordofcheese


    Dudess wrote: »
    Sorry but your post is extremely naive. Being in second year doesn't mean you're all "worldly" now.

    Wow, you've never heard guys go on like that before?!

    to be fair I don't think the OP is ever coming back to this thread...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,831 ✭✭✭Slow Motion


    to be fair I don't think the OP is ever coming back to this thread...

    Prolly off getting a good riode from some randomer!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,213 ✭✭✭✭Berty


    Prolly off getting a good riode from some randomer!

    Could be attending a feminist rally of some type discussing how many women it takes to change a lightbulb.

    The consesus will be that the lightbulb does not in fact need to be changed. It was a man who invented the bulb so it was doomed to fail.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,771 ✭✭✭jebuz


    The only time I've ever been shallow was when I was lying in a half a foot of water


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 46,938 ✭✭✭✭Nodin


    to be fair I don't think the OP is ever coming back to this thread...

    Probably. Maybe the Mills & Boon fanclub would be more her thing.....


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,822 ✭✭✭iPlop


    deise gal wrote: »
    Was in college today minding my own business heading towards the library when i overheard a conversation between a group of fella's
    '' You up to anything tonight?''
    ''Yeh heading to ......bar(student place), get pissed, get a girl and get home!''


    Are ye men that shallow?
    Now i know i'm not naive in second year of college but i think i was astonished by the way this fella said it!

    yeah it's true

    1. Get pissed
    2. Find girl
    3. Sink banana
    4. "Ill call you sometime I have your number" YEAHHH RIGHT!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,649 ✭✭✭✭CDfm


    yeah it's true

    1. Get pissed
    2. Find girl
    3. Sink banana
    4. "Ill call you sometime I have your number" YEAHHH RIGHT!!

    More like
    1.Get pissed
    2.Find girl
    3.throw up
    4.Walk home alone


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,944 ✭✭✭✭4zn76tysfajdxp



    1. Get pissed
    2. Find girl
    3. Go home alone
    4. Masturbate.

    FYP.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,793 ✭✭✭oeb


    deise gal wrote: »
    Was in college today minding my own business heading towards the library when i overheard a conversation between a group of fella's
    '' You up to anything tonight?''
    ''Yeh heading to ......bar(student place), get pissed, get a girl and get home!''


    Are ye men that shallow?
    Now i know i'm not naive in second year of college but i think i was astonished by the way this fella said it!


    I am exactly that shallow


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,831 ✭✭✭Slow Motion


    yeah it's true

    1. Get pissed
    2. Find girl
    3. Sink banana
    4. "Ill call you sometime I have your number" YEAHHH RIGHT!!

    1 Get drunk
    2. Piss on girl
    3. Eat bannana
    4. Call random number


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,649 ✭✭✭✭CDfm


    FYP.

    or 4. recieves text pic from girl of self throwing up.With dont think of phoning me ya msg


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,822 ✭✭✭iPlop


    1 Get drunk
    2. Piss on girl
    3. Eat bannana
    4. Call random number


    1.Get drunk
    2.Piss on self
    3.Call girl slut
    4.girls fella hits you
    5.**** in pants
    6.Call ambulance


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,787 ✭✭✭✭ScumLord


    1. Go out
    2. Get drunk
    3. Blank
    4. Blank
    5. Wake up covered in spew.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Yep, that would describe your last Saturday night wouldn't it Scumlord...? ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,909 ✭✭✭✭Wertz


    kingtut wrote: »
    I am a guy and I finished college last year and this was not highest on my list of priorities. Please do not make us all out to be the same. :eek:

    Sorry you missed out...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,787 ✭✭✭✭ScumLord


    Dudess wrote: »
    Yep, that would describe your last Saturday night wouldn't it Scumlord...? ;)
    Unfortunatelyyes. I had to scrap off the sheets before I put them in the washing machine.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,909 ✭✭✭✭Wertz


    You had to scrap your sheets? Did you get a good price?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    kingtut wrote: »
    I am a guy and I finished college last year and this was not highest on my list of priorities. Please do not make us all out to be the same. :eek:
    Well people here seem to recognise, and are trying to make the point, that you can't generalise based on gender ("genderalise" if you like :pac:) so don't worry...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,949 ✭✭✭A Primal Nut


    Its just honesty really and this is fairly tame. When I moved into a house with a load of my friends at the start of september there were bets to see who'd get the first ride. This is also regular practice on lads holidays. If a guy is in the early stages of a courtship, most of the conversation revolves around "have you got your hole yet."

    Of course, its not totally reflective of whats going on inside the guys mind...for example if something ends up fizzling out with a girl the guy is not gonna go have a deep conversation with his mates about it...it just doesn't come up, even if the guy is hurting inside. Its one of the reason girls get away with using guys for attention or treating them like ****....guys don't talk about it...whereas if a guy does something bad to a girl all her friends know about it and he's public enemy number one and "all guys are assholes."

    Of course, there is a high probabibilty the lad failed in his mission - its also likely he is open to a relationship, but i'm sure that, like me, he would find it very uncomfortable to talk about that stuff with anyone in real life.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,757 ✭✭✭tony1kenobi


    When I was in college the girls that weren't turning tricks worked on the phone sex lines. It was a handy way for them to make a few extra quid.

    I myself subsidized my college years by running a rather successful whorehouse/phone sex racket............and not attending college.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 46,938 ✭✭✭✭Nodin


    ScumLord wrote: »
    1. Go out
    2. Get drunk
    3. Blank
    4. Blank
    5. Wake up covered in spew.

    1. Go out
    2. Get drunk
    3. Blank
    4. Blank
    5. Wake up still drunk
    6 Ponder mystery of pieces of coloured glass embedded in scalp, stuck to hair (True story that)
    7 - Get drink and phone numbers to make apologies and inquiries.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,778 ✭✭✭✭Kold


    Rape bike,
    Eat girl,
    Sell pizza,
    ????
    Profit


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