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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 854 ✭✭✭JangoFett


    The thing is, I like curvy women, as in the actual definition of curvy women, Betty Page, Marilyn Monroe, Angelina Jolie and so on


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 5,671 ✭✭✭BraziliaNZ


    Angelina is skinny with tits - is that curvy? On the internet, "Curvy" means fat/chubby


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 854 ✭✭✭JangoFett


    Ok, she used to be curvy then

    But Betty/Marilyn is perfection


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 5,671 ✭✭✭BraziliaNZ


    apart from the fact that they are long dead, unless you're into grave humping, whatever that consists of


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 854 ✭✭✭JangoFett


    Well, Betty isn't known to be dead, she kinda disappeared after she went insane


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 5,671 ✭✭✭BraziliaNZ


    you've got quite the taste


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 592 ✭✭✭BubbleWrap85


    Okay okay, however, surely you can see from photos whether someone is curvy or indeed "fat" as you say. I have pictures up so I don't think I'm disguising the fact that I'm not a size 8! So if someone contacts me, I'm presuming that they're not blind and they've looked at my photos?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,397 ✭✭✭✭azezil


    I've found it really depends what you're looking for and how much effort you're willing to put in.

    For a quick shag they're great, to actually get into a relationship with someone takes a long time and patience, but it does work. :)


  • Posts: 11,928 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Being curvy is about having a waist and hips.
    You can be scrawny but curvy. Angelina never has been, she is a cone like me.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,022 ✭✭✭anthony4335


    Curvy is good ,


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  • Hosted Moderators Posts: 10,661 ✭✭✭✭John Mason


    unfortunately, there usually is an option for beached whale so most people have to go with curvy


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,022 ✭✭✭anthony4335


    A full photo will reduce the confusion , you cant be shocked if you know what you are getting into before hand. I think that people do not put up pictures for the fear for been ridiculed , That was my reason any ways.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 592 ✭✭✭BubbleWrap85


    Yeah you're right. I said already that webcams are good also for really seeing what someone is like! And "beached whale" is a really derogatory term to use in reference to someone and doesn't really portray you in a good light whatsoever.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,368 ✭✭✭thelordofcheese


    A full photo will reduce the confusion , you cant be shocked if you know what you are getting into before hand. I think that people do not put up pictures for the fear for been ridiculed , That was my reason any ways.

    Just beware the dreaded "Myspace angle"


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 592 ✭✭✭BubbleWrap85


    Just beware the dreaded "Myspace angle"
    Fair enough, but are you so shallow that you wouldn't contemplate meeting them despite getting on really well with them and the likes because of one photo? Plus some of those photos don't even match the other i.e i think it's a totally different person. Very easy to weave things in wicked ways on the internet, as you know yourself. And as someone commented, let's see a pic of the ultra cool and sexy person who set the site up...... eh yeah, thought not!

    it is true though, that's why I said webcams can give a more accurate account as some people pure pose in such photos. There's enough bad pics of me out there though to show that I'm nto hiding anything really! :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,368 ✭✭✭thelordofcheese


    Fair enough, but are you so shallow that you wouldn't contemplate meeting them despite getting on really well with them and the likes because of one photo?

    yes, yes i would. Then again i wouldn't use a dating site for anything other than cursory trolling.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 592 ✭✭✭BubbleWrap85


    yes, yes i would. Then again i wouldn't use a dating site for anything other than cursory trolling.
    Fair enough.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,022 ✭✭✭anthony4335


    The art of photography, love it . I did say an honest picture, I am all for looking for your best for the picture, but using the camera ,or editing to improve it more than you should is not a good idea.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 592 ✭✭✭BubbleWrap85


    I lost my Photo Editing thing because I got a new laptop! So any photos I have are unedited!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 209 ✭✭DiscoHugh


    azezil wrote: »
    I've found it really depends what you're looking for and how much effort you're willing to put in.

    For a quick shag they're great, to actually get into a relationship with someone takes a long time and patience, but it does work. :)

    You had me at "quick shag" :o


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 205 ✭✭laurak265


    BraziliaNZ wrote: »
    Are there seriously attractive women on it? Surely if a girl is any way decent looking they get hit on by all kinds of men wherever they go? Can they not just stand around bars until they meet someone they like? I mean not ALL blokes in bars are drunk/morons/looking for one thing. That's why I never understood girls using them... unless they're not easy on the eye.

    I am not an ugly person but i find it hard to meet guys!! Where the hell are they??


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,746 ✭✭✭taidghbaby


    laurak265 wrote: »
    I am not an ugly person but i find it hard to meet guys!! Where the hell are they??
    thataway:

    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=908


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,283 ✭✭✭Ross_Mahon


    I lost my Photo Editing thing because I got a new laptop! So any photos I have are unedited!

    I never realized how many people were editing their photos on social sites, If everyone else is doing, I can do it! Most celebrity's get their pictures air brushed, And its not that hard to do. I wouldn't edit every single picture though, I'm not that fake! :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 14,187 ✭✭✭✭kowloon


    dsmythy wrote: »
    That's not true though. Straight single women in the world get the same action on average as straight single men. After all it takes two to tango. Unless they're scoring themselves...

    On average of course, but I would imagine the distribution is different; ladies can get it easier by standing around at the bar while the men taking them home are a narrower group of particularly skilled playahs/mansluts or whatever designation you so desire.
    If you exclude the men with an unusually high success rate you will no doubt see the average drop significantly.


  • Posts: 11,928 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Ross_Mahon wrote: »
    I never realized how many people were editing their photos on social sites, If everyone else is doing, I can do it! Most celebrity's get their pictures air brushed, And its not that hard to do. I wouldn't edit every single picture though, I'm not that fake! :D

    Years ago I used to frequent a none dating related chat community.
    One of the regs who was old enough to be my Dad asked to see a pic.
    No probs.
    He sent me back a new improved me with the aid of photoshop.
    He gave me a tan! :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 14,187 ✭✭✭✭kowloon


    E-makeup is what it is. I shall make myself a ninja.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,928 ✭✭✭✭rainbow kirby


    Have profiles on OKCupid and Gaydar Girls, but no luck on either - then again, I don't have photos on my profiles because I have very little confidence in how I look. Meeting someone would be nice, but I'm not in a major rush.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 14,187 ✭✭✭✭kowloon


    Have profiles on OKCupid and Gaydar Girls, but no luck on either - then again, I don't have photos on my profiles because I have very little confidence in how I look. Meeting someone would be nice, but I'm not in a major rush.

    I would imagine that your problem is that - by internet law - without a picture you're a man until proven otherwise.


  • Posts: 18,046 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    found this thread..................

    /about to join dating website cause it's not as easy to meet people as they make it out to be in the movies



    what if friends see profile? will they disown me or is internet dating cool now?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,652 ✭✭✭impr0v


    Join somewhere that only lets your profile be viewed by other members and that way, if they mention seeing your profile, you can get your disownage in first.


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