Woman asking man out?

kittensoft1984 · 12-06-2008 02:33PM #1

Well is this the done thing?

Do men like it when a woman asks you out or do you think that its too up front??

feedback welcome!

Dudess · 12-06-2008 02:35PM

I'm really not trying to be smart with you kittensoft, but surely it's down to the individual to do whatever they want, irrespective of gender? Who cares whether it's the done thing or not?

Steve_o · 12-06-2008 02:36PM

kittensoft1984 wrote: »

Well is this the done thing?

Do men like it when a woman asks you out or do you think that its too up front??

feedback welcome!

I do anyway... It illiminates the "Do you think she likes me" thing...

star-pants · 12-06-2008 02:38PM

I asked a guy out once a few years ago... it wasn't the best date... ah well..
I'll leave it up to them next time!

biko · 12-06-2008 02:38PM

In this day and age it's perfectly fine.
But I am already taken kitten

humanji · 12-06-2008 02:40PM

I'm all for it. I'm tired of women laughing at me, so it'll be nice for the shoe to be on the other foot for a change.

ScumLord · 12-06-2008 02:43PM

It's to be encouraged. Why should men do all the work?

12-06-2008 02:43PM

I think its wierd when a girl asks you to go out for a drink. Not trying to sound like a total wanker but when they do that you kind of feel like you don't need to do any work which is not good! Its happened before and I lost interest really quick even though she was a really nice girl. I dunno, I'd rather make an ass of myself doing the work. Wierd that I know because then you end up being whipped lol

.

The ideal circumstance is pure randomness imo. Thats always good

Edit - now that I think of it. There was a thread like this like a year ago and I remember having a rigorious debate with the gorgeous Donegal Lass

. O how my tune has changed

taidghbaby · 12-06-2008 02:46PM

kittensoft1984 wrote: »

Well is this the done thing?

Do men like it when a woman asks you out or do you think that its too up front??

feedback welcome!

its called proactive selling, and is the best way of developing new business!!!

WooPeeA · 12-06-2008 02:48PM

I was asked many times to go out and never found it weird. Same as I asked many people for the same.

Fresh Pots · 12-06-2008 02:51PM

Steve_o wrote: »

I do anyway... It illiminates the "Do you thing she likes me" thing...

+1

Yeah us men can be quite bad a picking up signals so it does help when they make it obvious. I definitely wouldn't have a problem with a woman asking me out.

Any offers!!!!!

Davidius · 12-06-2008 02:54PM

Don't see why not, then everybody's happy.

RealEstateKing · 12-06-2008 02:56PM

it makes a nice change from the endless slagging, being told to **** off, derision and disinterest we poor Irish blokes normally have to put up with.

Go for it!

DarkJager · 12-06-2008 03:02PM

Go for it, its nice to see an Irish female with a different view on things.I was over in southampton recently, and my god is there a difference. The women offer to buy you drinks, are friendly and approachable and up for a good laugh. Here on the other hand, the women are so far up their own arses they're licking their tonsils, and all of them seem to have what can only be described as a "Beyonce Complex" (believe they are too good looking for any man but in reality nothing special at all)

kittensoft1984 · 12-06-2008 03:03PM

Dudess wrote: »

I'm really not trying to be smart with you kittensoft, but surely it's down to the individual to do whatever they want, irrespective of gender? Who cares whether it's the done thing or not?

i was asking for peoples opinions thats all.

I dont wanna be too forward!!!!

Ruu_Old · 12-06-2008 03:07PM

Do it, do it noooooooooow! It is the 21st century after all. Saves us lads getting laughed at anyway *stops mid sentence and remembers teenage years* ;_;

Pherekydes · 12-06-2008 03:41PM

star-pants wrote: »

I asked a guy out once a few years ago... it wasn't the best date... ah well..
I'll leave it up to them next time!

I asked a gal out once or thrice. They didn't work out either. Maybe I should leave it up to them the next time. If there's a next time.

Works both ways, gorgeous.

kittensoft1984 · 12-06-2008 03:46PM

ok then girls, how would you do it?

Rob_l · 12-06-2008 03:48PM

kittensoft1984 wrote: »

ok then girls, how would you do it?

Well dont do the obvious like ask them for a drink?

do something different like tell them you know where they live and if they dont meet you tonight with a suitcase full of money their whole family will be dead

Steve_o · 12-06-2008 03:51PM

Rob_l wrote: »

Well dont do the obvious like ask them for a drink?

do something different like tell them you know where they live and if they dont meet you tonight with a suitcase full of money their whole family will be dead

Ha, a real charmer....:D

GirlInterrupted · 12-06-2008 03:52PM

kittensoft1984 wrote: »

Well is this the done thing?

Do men like it when a woman asks you out or do you think that its too up front??

feedback welcome!

Just say ''are you going to ask me out or do I have to do all the work?''

Gives them the chance to ask first knowing they're safe!

blaze1 · 12-06-2008 03:55PM

DarkJager wrote: »

Go for it, its nice to see an Irish female with a different view on things.I was over in southampton recently, and my god is there a difference. The women offer to buy you drinks, are friendly and approachable and up for a good laugh. Here on the other hand, the women are so far up their own arses they're licking their tonsils, and all of them seem to have what can only be described as a "Beyonce Complex" (believe they are too good looking for any man but in reality nothing special at all)

good call budd, from southampton , some of the girls are quality and chatty enough, then watch out for bird called sharon how like nothing better than to pull another sharons creole earings from her head while stuffing her face with a big mac! (have seen this in soton high st!!)

as for the actual question, its nice, but think that it does cut the chase a little which can be fun.

I'm open for offers tho!!

Earthhorse · 12-06-2008 03:55PM

Slow coach wrote: »

Works both ways, gorgeous.

Are you asking her out?

koneko · 12-06-2008 03:56PM

It's 2008, not 1958

I've done it before (successfully I might add!) and I'd do it again if I'm in the position. I don't think I'd want to go out with a guy that would be put off by that, so I don't see a problem.

Pherekydes · 12-06-2008 03:59PM

Earthhorse wrote: »

Are you asking her out?

Ha ha. I'm just waiting for a sign...

Dudess · 12-06-2008 04:00PM

Have more confidence in yourself kittensoft. Just do it!

Earthhorse · 12-06-2008 04:02PM

Dudess wrote: »

Have more confidence in yourself kittensoft. Just do it!

Yes. Remember just a while ago you were an unknown brand in an overcrowded marketplace and now kittensoft ranks amongst the highest recognised brands in the toilet paper market.

If you can do that surely asking a fella out is not beyond your grasp?

smellslikeshoes · 12-06-2008 04:06PM

Just do it, In the end does it really matter who asked who out, as long as you both end up out

Dudess · 12-06-2008 04:07PM

Earthhorse wrote: »

Yes. Remember just a while ago you were an unknown brand in an overcrowded marketplace and now kittensoft ranks amongst the highest recognised brands in the toilet paper market.

She's got some stiff competition from that puppy though... When you think cute toilet paper ad do you immediately conjure up a mental image of the Andrex puppy or the Kittensoft kitten? IS there even a Kittensoft kitten?

'Ol Jack Chance · 12-06-2008 04:18PM

dear lord planning on cavorting with a young lad are we? have you asked your local parish priest for permission?

:pac:

Creamy Goodness · 12-06-2008 04:23PM

kittensoft1984 wrote: »

ok then girls, how would you do it?

try it out, my number is 086 727....

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