Would/have you slept with a hooker?

Radharc na Sleibhte · 14-05-2008 01:24PM

Really?
I once shagged the cabin off a tug boat.

Muff_Daddy · 14-05-2008 01:26PM

Have I ever slept with a hooker? No.

We stayed up all night.

Rob_l · 14-05-2008 01:36PM

Is the reason you pay a hooker not so that they go after sex
If your sleeping with them OP your not doing it right press F5 and try again

truecrippler · 14-05-2008 01:43PM

I was in Amsterdam last June with a mate and lets just say... WOAH what a great time. Went into a swingers bar and didn't even know it was one. Was drunk and was the weirdest yet funniest experience ever.

Anywho, so there I was walking around the red light district and I went into an alley way with windows so I kept moving on past these windows and there was a section where you can go inside and there's more windows. The place looked clean etc. Girls would be coming out of the door and talking to us "hey boys, fancy a good time". One of them grabbed by collar and started to seduce me, I really didn't want to go in so my friend pushed me in and the door locked :O. I was slowly getting naked and she wanted to 50euro upfront. I gave it to her. Jacket, shirt, jeans, underwear, shoes came off. Not the socks... looked funny. So I gave her right aul rogering but I wasn't into it. Sure I had a hot naked 21 year old in front of bending over but wizards sleeve?.. yes. Didn't feel great or nothing. Complete waste of money.

Well I can now go on and say that I have fooked a Brasser. I probably wouldn't do it again unless I was extremely desperate or when I go on a psycho prostitute killing spree as seen in the GTA series.

zuchum · 14-05-2008 01:44PM

id sleep wth one. but i wouldnt pay for sex. just snuggling.

boneless · 14-05-2008 03:08PM

MikeySligo wrote: »

Really?
I once shagged the cabin off a tug boat.

Oh, I've had many a tug in my bed...:p

ronbyrne2005 · 14-05-2008 04:24PM

People saying why pay why you can get it for free is stoopid. You can have no strings attached sex with women that would be way out of most mens league. I would sleep with one but have'nt as of now. I would not sleep with one off the street who are doing it to feed their addictions. Most high class escorts are less likely to have STDs than a drunken slapper you meet in a pub as they are sober and insist on protection. Some people are just not good at chatting up people in bars and don't want to sleep with an unattractive person that approaches them just for a bit of sex.

GrumPy · 14-05-2008 04:31PM

Jesjes wrote: »

I wouldnt, but then the likeliness of a woman paying is probably quite lower than a man, traditionally.

I know of two guys who "shared" one. It's wrong that I thought "who went first". *shudder*.

3 holes, 2 men, what makes you think one "went first?"

kowloon · 14-05-2008 05:03PM

Wouldn't pay for it myself, think it's taking the service industry a bit far. If it's accepted as a societal norm it should be regulated to avoid the most negative aspects of the "trade".

I would like to find out where this magical fantastical world where anyone can score in a bar is. I'm going through a dry period so long that the friendly slagging has stopped, so it must be serious.

allabouteve · 14-05-2008 05:25PM

I'm not referring to any particular poster here, and I'm just curious, but do any of the guys who have slept with sex workers wonder if the girls are exploited in any way or have been trafficked into the sex industry? If you did wonder did it stop you? Would it be a factor in deciding whether to use a sex worker or not? A bit serious I know, but it would be interesting to know......

Rb · 14-05-2008 05:27PM

Wouldn't touch a hooker, let alone sleep with one.

ronbyrne2005 · 15-05-2008 07:06AM

rb_ie wrote: »

Wouldn't touch a hooker, let alone sleep with one.

What about a hot female pornstar? Both have sex for financial gain. I don't think a woman should be judged if she chose to have sex for money at some point in her life just because it does'nt fit into your beliefs about life. Many women choose to do it for financial gain and have no problem with doing it. Those women who do it against their normal free choice due to trafficking and drugs are obviously a different case and I feel people sleeping with them are exploiting them.

BraziliaNZ · 15-05-2008 07:20AM

yes i have, a few times. There are some pretty hot, intelligent women out there who do this for a living. Why? Because I'm useless at chatting up birds in bars. I'm a good looking fit bloke but I'm as smooth as sandpaper probably. I have had a couple of long term relationships but outside of that there is NO sex. I have no shame at all about it. It's just instant gratification, like anything else.

elmolesto · 15-05-2008 07:42AM

Muff_Daddy wrote: »

Have I ever slept with a hooker? No.

We stayed up all night.

LOL

SimpleSam06 · 15-05-2008 07:56AM

thelastangryman wrote: »

"I am a hired killer and I still have to pay for sex. Mother would be so proud"

rofl

syklops wrote: »

Dont see what people have against it to be honest.

Its not so much the paying for sex thing as the invariable element of organised crime thats behind it. Whether its a lone pimp or a gang associated with international elements, theres always a strong arm to keep the girls in line.

In my travels through SE Asia I heard firsthand some of the horrific tales of these women, although not all of them were sufficiently educated to realise just how bad it was - thats the way it was and their lot in life, as far as they were concerned. Kids bought and sold from their parents, the whole package.

I ran a girlie bar in Manila for just over 5 years. I soon found out the ground rules, and although I didn't approve of them, they were the rules.

Girls were bought from their parents in the provinces for as little as P2000.00, we went on regular shopping trips and I found the whole thing distasteful but that was how it was done.

They traveled back to Manila on the bus, while we came back in a chauffeur driven limo. As soon as they arrived, the teaching process began. Most of the teaching was done by the senior GRO's or more experienced girls at the bar.

The No. 1 Rule is that you are no longer free, you have been purchased by the boss and your parents have been rewarded, do not let your parents down! You are not allowed to go out without written permission from your boss or when you are bar-fined, but then you must arrange this with the Head Geisha.

You belong to the Boss as if you are married to him. You are not allowed to have a personal boyfriend. Every male is your boyfriend, but only if they pay your bar-fine. If you are bar-fined, you must be back on these premises by Noon the following day. If you are late you will be fined and the money will be taken from your salary.

After these ground rules were learnt, the girls settled in and were taught how to please a male by dancing, flirting, massage, and sex. At first I thought I was in paradise with a line of 18 year olds queuing up out side my bedroom door.

But the novelty soon wore off, believe me. The quiet girls were taught that shyness was a tool they could use, because loads of guys are turned on by the sexy little shy one. She acts like the virgin and the little girl lost.

Do not let this fool you. She, like all the others, are in this business to make money for the bar, the object of the exercise is to get the guy to buy loads of ladies drinks and then Bar-fine as many girls as he can handle. All the tricks in the book are used to get the cash out of your pocket and into the till.

Girls under the age of 21 are not allowed to drink alcohol, so if you ply her with drink and take her out, you could get into trouble with the Police, that's if somebody reports you. Big heavy fine, and money all around for the corrupt police and their informers.

Another thing is that if you are dating your girlfriend without paying a bar-fine, she will get into serious trouble with her boss, and you will probably be taught a little lesson by a few heavies that creep up on you from nowhere. I know. I have woken up a few times in the rat infested gutter, with my nose out of joint, all because of a shy little GRO.

OK you think you love her and want to marry her. You say you are 45. By the time she is 25 and at her sexual peak, you will be in your 50's. She will go back to the bar, she will want to show off to her old friends that she is now all grown up, and she has her old husband paying for everything she wants in life. Plus he is paying for everything her parents want....and the sisters and brothers... and the 500 or so cousins that are waiting in line for their share.

She will see the girls in her old place of work, having a good time with the punters, while all she has to look forward to that day is a pile of washing and ironing. She will be very tempted to have just one drink with an old flame and listen to his drunken promises. She will probably take him to a short time hotel and earn some extra housekeeping by just laying on her back for an hour or so. Eventually you will get suspicious, the rows will start, She will go back to work in the bar. The end!

Sorry mate, there are hundreds of thousands of gorgeous decent Filipino girls in this world, all looking for the man of their dreams, and all wanting to settle down, start a family and live Happily Ever After. You are a little bit like myself. I too fell in love with a GRO, but a good friend warned me of the dangers, I lived with her for a couple of years and we had some great times, but she would always go back to the bar to see her friends once a week, then twice a week, making excuses, coming home at 4 in the morning, drunk and clothes torn. Then into Shabu [methamphetamine, speed, crank.] Bye bye little shy GRO. Now probably dead.

So no, I wouldn't.

Homer · 15-05-2008 10:51AM

Well, just think about the maths on the Paul McCartney-Heather Mills divorce : After 5 years of marriage, he paid her $49 million.

Assuming he banged her every night during their 5 year relationship (and being married men, we all know THAT doesn't happen), it ends up costing him $26,849 per lay, not counting attorney's fees and court costs.

On the other hand, Elliot Spitzer's (New York Governor) call girl Kristen charges $4,000 an hour. Crazy, right?

But...

Had Paul McCartney employed Kristen for 5 years, he would've paid $7.3 million for an hour of sex every night for 5 years (a savings of $41+million).

Value-added benefits are: a 22 year old hot babe, no begging, no coaxing, never a headache, wide open menu, ability to put BOTH legs around you, no bitching and complaining or "to do" lists. Best of all, she leaves when you're done, and comes back the next day, ready for another round. All at 1/7th the cost, with no legal fees.

Is it just me, or is it better to rent?

Mahatma coat · 15-05-2008 11:08AM

Proper hookers on the street are fun like, y'know when ya stumble outa a bar in the city at about 3 in the mornin and yer tryin ta haggle with one ta see if she'd blow ya fer a tenner

Bordellos/cathouses/masage parlours/Whorehouses/tittybars on the other hand are a much more civilised affair, well maybe not lapdancin clubs if I wanted a chick to take all my munneee and no sleep wit mee then I could just get marrried

CyberGhost · 15-05-2008 12:29PM

I don't like paying someone for sex, not hookers(cause it's just business for them), not any other non-hooking girls with gifts(cause they got sex too, so we are square).

gcgirl · 15-05-2008 12:31PM

Keano A Legend wrote: »

I always thought Keith Wood was good looking but wouldn't touch Shane Byrne with yours!

Thought that Blaney lad that plays for Leinster is a bit of a ride

jester77 · 15-05-2008 05:02PM

Sleeping with a hooker is a bit like eating fast food. It's fast, service is seldom good, instant gratification but shortly after you are wanting more and if you get some bad taco... well it's not pretty!

Whereas going out and trying to pull a random girl is a bit like going to an upmarket restaurant. The menu can be expensive, you have to wait a long while for dessert, but you are usually satisfied afterwards and you won't be asked to leave straight away!

KnifeWRENCH · 15-05-2008 05:14PM

I'd like to say I wouldn't but if the oppurtunity came up (like Amsterdam or somewhere) I'd probably be tempted.
I wouldn't go near a street hooker though. Paying for her addiction and receiving syphillis in return doesn't sound like a fair trade.

O'Coonassa · 15-05-2008 06:16PM

What in the name of Jaysus are yiz on about lads? yiz always pay for sex. Face facts.

Overheal · 15-05-2008 06:36PM

Re: Pornstars, I challenge you to watch The Girl Next Door and not want Elisha Cuthbert

http://images.starpulse.com/Photos/Previews/Girl-Next-Door-movie-f01.jpg

Bottle_of_Smoke · 15-05-2008 06:53PM

IF it weren't for STDs I definitely would. Sure its it's exploitation but you can apply that logic to plenty of things people do every day/

Overheal · 15-05-2008 07:04PM

exploitation when its a hooker: im assuming probably.

when its a high class escort or something like that it sounds like its a personal choice they make. all the more power to them.

DublinWriter · 15-05-2008 07:09PM

Hmmm...I dunno. Paying someone for sex in my book is akin to paying someone to be your friend.

TequilaMockingBird · 15-05-2008 07:28PM

industria wrote: »

Well, just think about the maths on the Paul McCartney-Heather Mills divorce : After 5 years of marriage, he paid her $49 million.

Assuming he banged her every night during their 5 year relationship (and being married men, we all know THAT doesn't happen), it ends up costing him $26,849 per lay, not counting attorney's fees and court costs.

On the other hand, Elliot Spitzer's (New York Governor) call girl Kristen charges $4,000 an hour. Crazy, right?

But...

Had Paul McCartney employed Kristen for 5 years, he would've paid $7.3 million for an hour of sex every night for 5 years (a savings of $41+million).

Value-added benefits are: a 22 year old hot babe, no begging, no coaxing, never a headache, wide open menu, ability to put BOTH legs around you, no bitching and complaining or "to do" lists. Best of all, she leaves when you're done, and comes back the next day, ready for another round. All at 1/7th the cost, with no legal fees.

Is it just me, or is it better to rent?

+1
From a female perspective its good too.

Rb · 15-05-2008 07:32PM

ronbyrne2005 wrote: »

What about a hot female pornstar? Both have sex for financial gain. I don't think a woman should be judged if she chose to have sex for money at some point in her life just because it does'nt fit into your beliefs about life. Many women choose to do it for financial gain and have no problem with doing it. Those women who do it against their normal free choice due to trafficking and drugs are obviously a different case and I feel people sleeping with them are exploiting them.

I wouldn't touch a pornstar either.

Girls who sell themselves on the streets can spin it in whatever way they like, at the end of the day their letting random strangers stick their penis' in them for money, there's nothing respectful about that.

I've no respect for prostitutes, nor for pornstars.

15-05-2008 07:51PM

I was talking to a friend earlier and he mentioned how a friend of his had been with a hooker in Poland awhile back. I was a little taken aback and laughed at it. he then told me that when he was in Amsterdam a few months abck he had been with a hooker.To him it was quite to pay for sex. I don't think I'd ever be able to do it, the whole idea doesn't sit right with me.

KnifeWRENCH · 15-05-2008 08:02PM

rb_ie wrote: »

I wouldn't touch a pornstar either.

Girls who sell themselves on the streets can spin it in whatever way they like, at the end of the day their letting random strangers stick their penis' in them for money, there's nothing respectful about that.

I've no respect for prostitutes, nor for pornstars.

No respect for pornstars?? A bit extreme.

Would/have you slept with a hooker?

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