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Hi all, please see this major site announcement: https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058427594/boards-ie-2026
Your "first time"...
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LOL!BrightEyes wrote: »Mine was something like this
:D:D That's similar to the Ballymun incident - literally like alley cats.
You don't have to wait for "the one"/"someone special" at all. And I disagree with people who say you'll definitely regret it if you don't. It's only sex. That said, the fact you have to ask, shows you're not 100% sure you want to do it next Tuesday. I know I said it's only sex but you shouldn't do something - anything, not just sex - if you don't really want to.Cheeky_gal wrote: »I mean does it really have to be "special" like why cant I just do it and have no regrets rather than having to wait for the "one" cuz that could be years whereas I could just do it Tuesday
At the same time you're also quite anxious for people to "approve" of you going ahead with it on Tuesday? Is there an element of wanting to just get it over with? Because there's no rush - do bear that in mind. I mean, how much do you fancy this person? As I said, the person doesn't have to be someone special at all, but I do think there should be physical attraction at the very least.0 -
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Cheeky_gal wrote: »Exactly why i began this thread...I'm at a crossroads, dont know which path to choose
You don't have to wait for "the one"/"someone special" at all. And I disagree with people who say you'll definitely regret it if you don't. It's only sex. That said, the fact you have to ask, shows you're not 100% sure you want to do it next Tuesday. I know I said it' s only sex but you shouldn't do something - anything, not just sex - if you don't really want to.
At the same time you're also quite anxious for people to "approve" of you going ahead with it on Tuesday? Is there an element of wanting to just get it over with? Because there's no rush - do bear that in mind. I mean, how much do you fancy this person? As I said, the person doesn't have to be someone special at all, but I do think there should be physical attraction at the very least.
I agree with a lot of your points Dudess but 'It's only sex' doesn't / shouldn't really apply when it's the first time. I think it has to be special to a certain extent, or at least the person you're doing it with has to be special (at the time of course, I know we all grow up and move on).
Cheeky, the vibe I'm getting from you is that you just want to get the first time out of the way - you should try and have a different perspective than that, wait until it's somebody you are totally mad about and comfortable with (btw that doesn't mean they are 'the one' by any stretch and you may not meet 'the one' for a long time, but you can still have sex in the interim, and there are decent fellers out there if you go looking:D)
Many years ago I had the 'get it out of the way' perpective and acted on it. Although the guy was special to me at the time we did rush into it and it was pretty awful to say the least:eek:. We broke up (correction, he dumped me!) pretty soon afterwards and I was devastated. But then I met the man who is now my husband and we are together 13 years (married for 6) and things have been pretty special since then!;)0 -
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Mine was with my first love. We were messy around in her bedroom and ended up completely naked. She suggested we have sex and handed me a condom.
Was during the day with her folks out so was planned and thought out (by her). So yes it was special
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Nicely done. Wish mine had been like that - you're a lucky boy!Gummy Panda wrote: »Mine was with my first love. We were messy around in her bedroom and ended up completely naked. She suggested we have sex and handed me a condom.
Was during the day with her folks out so was planned and thought out (by her). So yes it was special
And cheeky_gal, if you decide to have sex with this lad on Tuesday, bring condoms with you. Don't rely on him to have them.0 -
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