Do you regret the first time you had sex?!

Da Bomber · 03-12-2007 06:58PM #1

Just wondering whats the general consensus on this,most of my girl friends do and wish they had waited for the "right person"...whereas most of the fellas i know dont care!

azezil · 03-12-2007 07:00PM

Nah, I liked the guy at the time, that's all that matters to me.

Mr.Nice Guy · 03-12-2007 07:00PM

Yeah I do. Serves me right though for agreeing to a quiet evening in with Mary Harney.

MattKid · 03-12-2007 07:02PM

yes and no. I was 13, it was a spur of the moment thing with a girl I knew and unsurprisingly it was crap. I think I learnt a valuable lesson from that.

cornbb · 03-12-2007 07:03PM

Da Bomber wrote: »

Just wondering whats the general consensus on this,most of my girl friends do and wish they had waited for the "right person"...whereas most of the fellas i know dont care!

The whole "right person" thing is BS in my opinion. The right person at the time rarely turns out to be the right person in the long term.

Mr.Nice Guy wrote: »

Yeah I do. Serves me right though for agreeing to a quiet evening in with Mary Harney.

Dudess · 03-12-2007 07:03PM

Yes I do. It was a drunken one-night stand and not particularly earth-moving. I did fancy the guy though but it was still a disappointment

MayMay · 03-12-2007 07:03PM

God yeah I really do. But it taught me a lesson (don't bother with one night stands again!) so in a way it's a good thing it was such a crap experience.

Boston · 03-12-2007 07:04PM

Yes and no. Bit awkward with it being YOUR MA, but once i got over the age difference, it was all grand.

Merry Ploughboy · 03-12-2007 07:07PM

yes very much so, at my debs with a complete stranger wasnt the best

prendy · 03-12-2007 07:09PM

ya i regret it...drunk and with someone i dont even remember.

Duiske · 03-12-2007 07:13PM

I met up with my "first" three years ago, 18 years after the event. We have been together since, so its all good.

Red Alert · 03-12-2007 07:20PM

ah sure it wasn't too bad, haven't seen her in ages tho

Dudess · 03-12-2007 07:21PM

Duiske wrote: »

I met up with my "first" three years ago, 18 years after the event. We have been together since, so its all good.

Oh wow, that's really cool!

Ruu_Old · 03-12-2007 07:28PM

Not at all, it was with my wife of over 3 years (currently) a few years before we got married.:eek:

Boston · 03-12-2007 07:30PM

She was your wife of 3 years before you had sex with her? JESUS :eek::eek::eek::eek:

monkeyfudge · 03-12-2007 07:34PM

No regrets here... It may have been with a girl who was cheating on her boyfriend with me.. but we had good fun together... until it turned out she was cheating on both me and the boyfriend with some other guy who she ran off with and married, and his mother performed the ceremony...

But I guess in retrospect it's a pretty funny story...

Dudess · 03-12-2007 07:34PM

Ruu wrote: »

Not at all, it was with my wife of over 3 years.

Wow that's really cool too!

DonalN · 03-12-2007 07:44PM

I'll let you know !!;)

Toto Wolfcastle · 03-12-2007 07:45PM

No way. Still with him after 4 years (and I waited for 6 months until my Leaving was over! Pretty proud of that really.)

But hey, if you liked the person at the time, what's the harm?

I'm a bit of a romantic really, into all that 'the one' stuff.

MayMay · 03-12-2007 07:50PM

janeybabe26 wrote: »

I'm a bit of a romantic really, into all that 'the one' stuff.

Aren't we all...then along comes alcohol!

Toto Wolfcastle · 03-12-2007 07:54PM

MayMay wrote: »

Aren't we all...then along comes alcohol!

Except I only drink about 3 times a year, and even then I'd only have 2 or 3!

I think I would like drunken sex though...but not as my first time. (Bit late for that now anyway!)

lezizi · 03-12-2007 07:58PM

Yes I cringe even thinking about it eewwwwww.

seamus · 03-12-2007 08:01PM

janeybabe26 wrote: »

I think I would like drunken sex though...but not as my first time. (Bit late for that now anyway!)

It can be fun because you're even less inhibited, but it usually ends up less satisfying overall (damn anaesthetic alcohol). Sober is always best.

My first was with my current love of 8 years, so it was certainly not regrettable

SubjectSean · 03-12-2007 08:08PM

Da Bomber wrote: »

Just wondering whats the general consensus on this,most of my girl friends do and wish they had waited for the "right person"...whereas most of the fellas i know dont care!

I think you have hit the nail smack on the head here Bomber. I'm glad nature isn't forcing me to take oestrogen. It seems like a very bad buzz to be on indeed and a huge stumbling block to ever feeling happy or contented about anything for very long.

GerryRyan · 03-12-2007 08:15PM

First time - wrong person, wrong place (long story) and wrong time.

Felt like we were doing for the sake of it, out of curiosity nearly. Oh to be 16 again ...

Rob_l · 03-12-2007 08:30PM

My only regret about sex is Im not having it now, this is a common regret for me

CathyMoran · 03-12-2007 08:54PM

I don't regret it as it was over 9 years ago with my now husband, having siad that, if it had not been with him I might have had regrets. He was very tender and made me feel special.

Lawless_Samurai · 03-12-2007 09:51PM

Boston wrote: »

Yes and no. Bit awkward with it being YOUR MA, but once i got over the age difference, it was all grand.

Hahaha brilliant!

Nope don't regret my first time one bit

constitutionus · 03-12-2007 09:54PM

nah,dont reget it at all. im all for "meeting the right person" but lets be honest how the hell often does that happen. so i got pissed off waiting and ended up having a one night stand. was pretty good considering, but then again i wasnt looking for anything more than lust and we both wanted just that

cson · 03-12-2007 10:21PM

janeybabe26 wrote: »

(and I waited for 6 months until my Leaving was over! Pretty proud of that really.)

Good choice there. I reckon sex cost me ~10 points in the Leaving. Didn't matter in the end cos I got my course, so everyones happy

Niamho! · 03-12-2007 10:34PM

Dudess wrote: »

Yes I do. It was a drunken one-night stand and not particularly earth-moving. I did fancy the guy though but it was still a disappointment

Me too. i was hammered. and i wanted to "Get it over with" kind of...
so i did it. id never have a one-nighter again. it was awful....i was far too nervous and Tense well....it didnt go to plan. DIASTER!! how cringey!

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