Do you regret the first time you had sex?!

Da Bomber

Just wondering whats the general consensus on this,most of my girl friends do and wish they had waited for the "right person"...whereas most of the fellas i know dont care!

azezil

Nah, I liked the guy at the time, that's all that matters to me.

Mr.Nice Guy

Yeah I do. Serves me right though for agreeing to a quiet evening in with Mary Harney.

MattKid

yes and no. I was 13, it was a spur of the moment thing with a girl I knew and unsurprisingly it was crap. I think I learnt a valuable lesson from that.

cornbb

Da Bomber wrote: »

Just wondering whats the general consensus on this,most of my girl friends do and wish they had waited for the "right person"...whereas most of the fellas i know dont care!

The whole "right person" thing is BS in my opinion. The right person at the time rarely turns out to be the right person in the long term.

Mr.Nice Guy wrote: »

Yeah I do. Serves me right though for agreeing to a quiet evening in with Mary Harney.

Dudess

Yes I do. It was a drunken one-night stand and not particularly earth-moving. I did fancy the guy though but it was still a disappointment

MayMay

God yeah I really do. But it taught me a lesson (don't bother with one night stands again!) so in a way it's a good thing it was such a crap experience.

Boston

Yes and no. Bit awkward with it being YOUR MA, but once i got over the age difference, it was all grand.

Merry Ploughboy

yes very much so, at my debs with a complete stranger wasnt the best

prendy

ya i regret it...drunk and with someone i dont even remember.

Duiske

I met up with my "first" three years ago, 18 years after the event. We have been together since, so its all good.

Red Alert

ah sure it wasn't too bad, haven't seen her in ages tho

Dudess

Duiske wrote: »

I met up with my "first" three years ago, 18 years after the event. We have been together since, so its all good.

Oh wow, that's really cool!

Ruu_Old

Not at all, it was with my wife of over 3 years (currently) a few years before we got married.:eek:

Boston

She was your wife of 3 years before you had sex with her? JESUS :eek::eek::eek::eek:

monkeyfudge

No regrets here... It may have been with a girl who was cheating on her boyfriend with me.. but we had good fun together... until it turned out she was cheating on both me and the boyfriend with some other guy who she ran off with and married, and his mother performed the ceremony...

But I guess in retrospect it's a pretty funny story...

Dudess

Ruu wrote: »

Not at all, it was with my wife of over 3 years.

Wow that's really cool too!

DonalN

I'll let you know !!;)

Toto Wolfcastle

No way. Still with him after 4 years (and I waited for 6 months until my Leaving was over! Pretty proud of that really.)

But hey, if you liked the person at the time, what's the harm?

I'm a bit of a romantic really, into all that 'the one' stuff.

MayMay

janeybabe26 wrote: »

I'm a bit of a romantic really, into all that 'the one' stuff.

Aren't we all...then along comes alcohol!

Toto Wolfcastle

MayMay wrote: »

Aren't we all...then along comes alcohol!

Except I only drink about 3 times a year, and even then I'd only have 2 or 3!

I think I would like drunken sex though...but not as my first time. (Bit late for that now anyway!)

lezizi

Yes I cringe even thinking about it eewwwwww.

seamus

janeybabe26 wrote: »

I think I would like drunken sex though...but not as my first time. (Bit late for that now anyway!)

It can be fun because you're even less inhibited, but it usually ends up less satisfying overall (damn anaesthetic alcohol). Sober is always best.

My first was with my current love of 8 years, so it was certainly not regrettable

SubjectSean

Da Bomber wrote: »

Just wondering whats the general consensus on this,most of my girl friends do and wish they had waited for the "right person"...whereas most of the fellas i know dont care!

I think you have hit the nail smack on the head here Bomber. I'm glad nature isn't forcing me to take oestrogen. It seems like a very bad buzz to be on indeed and a huge stumbling block to ever feeling happy or contented about anything for very long.

GerryRyan

First time - wrong person, wrong place (long story) and wrong time.

Felt like we were doing for the sake of it, out of curiosity nearly. Oh to be 16 again ...

Rob_l

My only regret about sex is Im not having it now, this is a common regret for me

CathyMoran

I don't regret it as it was over 9 years ago with my now husband, having siad that, if it had not been with him I might have had regrets. He was very tender and made me feel special.

Lawless_Samurai

Boston wrote: »

Yes and no. Bit awkward with it being YOUR MA, but once i got over the age difference, it was all grand.

Hahaha brilliant!

Nope don't regret my first time one bit

constitutionus

nah,dont reget it at all. im all for "meeting the right person" but lets be honest how the hell often does that happen. so i got pissed off waiting and ended up having a one night stand. was pretty good considering, but then again i wasnt looking for anything more than lust and we both wanted just that

cson

janeybabe26 wrote: »

(and I waited for 6 months until my Leaving was over! Pretty proud of that really.)

Good choice there. I reckon sex cost me ~10 points in the Leaving. Didn't matter in the end cos I got my course, so everyones happy

Niamho!

Dudess wrote: »

Yes I do. It was a drunken one-night stand and not particularly earth-moving. I did fancy the guy though but it was still a disappointment

Me too. i was hammered. and i wanted to "Get it over with" kind of...
so i did it. id never have a one-nighter again. it was awful....i was far too nervous and Tense well....it didnt go to plan. DIASTER!! how cringey!

Sleepy

It was crap but I'm not sure that I regret it...

Senna

No regrets, but it was with another virgin, so it wasn't a lot of pressure. Thinking back on it, i must have lasted all of 20 seconds, but there was a good 3 minute foreplay first.

Firetrap

Yeah, it was a one-nighter. I just wanted to get it over and done with and he seemed like a nice enough lad. I'm not into all that "the one" crap either but in hindsight, it would have been nicer to have had sex with someone I knew for more than 2 hours.

star-pants

Nope, was with someone I was dating at the time and it felt right.

p.s. I was 23

Lola123

Bit cringey...was with a bloke I was friends with. We continued to sleep together for a while but i didn't really bank on the whole "female hormones" thing and ended up falling for him. My poor lil heart was broken ....but I've made up for it plenty of times since!

quackquackBOOM

my first time was as awkward as hell there were legs and feet all over the place and she did things i had,nt seen in movies :eek:.
she had been around the town a couple of times
terrible terrible night
so yes i regret it:(

LuckyStar

I don't regret it at all, I waited til my 3rd boyfriend (at the ripe old age of 21)because I didn't want to regret it, one of the best things I have ever done. Worth the wait. I could have done it at 15, I could have done it any time between 17 and 20, but I wanted it to be special, and it was. It is one of the best times I have ever had sex.

TerrorFirmer

Wouldn't have minded waiting a bit longer to get more accustomed to the person first but I definitely wouldn't regret it...

Lands Leaving

I don't regret it, I loved her at the time, and I guess you can't hope for more than that, it was never gonna be spectacular, or even good first time.

l3LoWnA

No regrets here!

arybvtcw0eolkf

I rarely forget, or regret anything, but I'll never forget the experience of the first time I truely felt I'd made love.

Mrs_Doyle

No regrets, still with him now, nearly 4 years later!

condra

I was a drunk randy 18 year old. She was 24 and fat and ugly.

No regrets here. It was a buzz.

I regret lots of other sex I've had though.

stratospheres

Where's the option for us?!
Anyway I doubt I'll regret it since it will be with the guy I'm in love with

Reku

Would've prefered if we'd remained together for life (may sound weird but would've liked to only ever had one partner in my life:o) but at least I do genuinely believe we were in love so I'm ok with it.

KingOfFairview

No regrets, but it really did become apparent to me it's a learning curve and you dont always get it right forst time;)

monosharp

Dudess wrote: »

Yes I do. It was a drunken one-night stand and not particularly earth-moving. I did fancy the guy though but it was still a disappointment

Absolutely yes.

Cathmandooo

Nope dont regret it, was with him for a year and a half afterwards, he's a ****head now but i still dont regret it

Rob_l

MayMay wrote: »

Aren't we all...then along comes alcohol!

Not me all that "the one" stuff seems a bit matrixy

2 stroke

There are girls I regret sleeping with but the first I'll never regret.