kissing after oral

LegacyUser · 19-11-2007 09:00PM #1

whats peoples opinions on ere about kissing after somebody has gone down on you? 2 weeks ago, a girl gave me head and was down there for quite sometime. she then, when the job was done, proceeded to carry on and started kissing me, as if nothing had happened. i found this very weird. the same thing happened with a different girl over the weekend just passed. anytime i have gone down on a girl, i usually drink a glass of water or have a chewing gum or something like that, just to be "polite"!!!

does anybody else find this weird? am i being selfish or is it the girls involved?

How Strange · 19-11-2007 09:48PM

Hmm, might have something to do with the fact that the girls are casual flings. I think its different when its a gf. Otherwise I'd personally be avoiding any kissing for a while after. But thats just me.

Nelopee · 19-11-2007 09:57PM

That's normal.
I always did that with my boyfriend...
It was only after we broke up and I was telling my guy friend about some other guy I hooked up with that he told me some guys find that wierd...
As long as she swallows properly then whats the problem?
And no guy has ever washed their mouths out for me!

LegacyUser · 19-11-2007 09:57PM

My boyfriend has no problem with it, sure it's allswallowed anyway so it's not as if he can taste it or anything! I'd be pretty pissed off if he refused to kiss me after!

Marksie · 19-11-2007 10:03PM

I have no issue with it. I have partners who have not swallowed and kissed.

Plus afte what your partner has done, why dont you just look at it as a token of appreciation of what she has juts done. Its a bit more romantic than handing her the Listerine

l3LoWnA · 19-11-2007 10:18PM

swallowall wrote: »

whats peoples opinions on ere about kissing after somebody has gone down on you?

Absolutely nothnig wrong with it in my opinion.

swallowall wrote: »

anytime i have gone down on a girl, i usually drink a glass of water or have a chewing gum or something like that, just to be "polite"!!!

I wouldn't find this one bit polite - and now, I don't know if I'm the weird one but if a guy stopped in the throws of passion to wash his mouth out or chew on gum for whatever reason, I'd find it rather insulting/strange to think he feels he needs to clean his mouth out after being down there :eek:

swallowall wrote: »

does anybody else find this weird? am i being selfish or is it the girls involved?

I don't think anybody is being selfish. Different strokes for different folks. If you find it strange kissing someone straight after they've had your bits + cum in their mouth then that's fine, don't do anything you're not comfortable with...whatever girl you're with should understand....and I'm sure a girl who wasn't comfortable with it wouldnt be long telling you that. Although, I do think, in time, or when you're with a long-term girlfriend, you'll find these things less strange and just go with the flow....(no pun intended) possibly.

Talliesin · 19-11-2007 10:18PM

swallowall wrote: »

anytime i have gone down on a girl, i usually drink a glass of water or have a chewing gum or something like that, just to be "polite"!!!

does anybody else find this weird?

It's not particularly weird to drink water after giving head, I often would if my cheek and tongue muscles were feeling a bit tired afterwards (though not without a bit of a kiss and a cuddle first - it's not like I'd just dive for the water right away).

Chewing gum is a bit weird all right.

Chewing gum is unattractive and ill-mannered at the best of times, but during sex?!

It's like the line about "I wouldn't kick them out of bed for eating crisps" only even worse. I don't think there are many people I wouldn't kick out of bed for chewing gum.

Still, YKINMK, BYKIOK

Reku · 19-11-2007 10:39PM

This is the whole reason I'd never get into oral, giving or receiving, last thing I want to think of when we kiss is where her mouth has just been and I'd clearly rather not put my mouth in a similar place. But lets face it, if either partner goes down on the other I don't think the receiver can really then complain about them not washing their mouth out afterwards, kinda hypocritical is it not?

cson · 19-11-2007 10:51PM

is it your mouth or hands that have more bacteria on them than down below? I can't quite remember.

Point being, that as long is everyone is washing themselves there should be no major issue with it at all. It's certainly not something I think twice about and having it any other way smacks of ignorance/selfishness to me.

SarahSassy · 19-11-2007 10:56PM

If you consider it good enough for her to put in it in her mouth then you should consider it good enough to be put in yours.... If not, its a selfish attitude IMHO.

cson · 19-11-2007 11:10PM

SarahSassy wrote: »

If you consider it good enough for her to put in it in her mouth then you should consider it good enough to be put in yours.....

Autofellatio ftw!

:eek:

But yeah I'd agree it seems selfish. OP - Whats your major issue with it? Taste?

syberspud · 19-11-2007 11:10PM

This is the whole reason I'd never get into oral, giving or receiving,

:eek: You're missing out there big time...the reason I love oral so much is cos it is kinda dirty...no denying it. I completely let myself go when I'm having sex - total freedom from manners, regulations and rules - that's part of the reason why sex feels so ****ing great. As far as I'm concerned, it's one of the few places left where society can't get ye! My advice is to commit to it - 100%!

kowloon · 19-11-2007 11:30PM

What about after they've done it to someone else?

Talliesin · 19-11-2007 11:32PM

cson wrote: »

is it your mouth or hands that have more bacteria on them than down below? I can't quite remember.

On average, both.

kowloon · 19-11-2007 11:37PM

I would have thought hands myself, but im not willing to challenge Talliesin out of fear

tSubh Dearg · 19-11-2007 11:38PM

I might have a slurp of water afterwards, mainly cause I'm not great at swallowing unassisted and it also helps to settle any gag reflex that might have kicked in, depending on how things were going.

But chewing gum?? At least water has a neutral taste, I'd imagine that the taste of mint (or god forbid cinnamon) mixed with the natural taste of head would just be gross!

syberspud · 19-11-2007 11:40PM

What about after they've done it to someone else?

Since people tend to have more than one sexual partner in their lives, you're only gonna wreck your own head with that attitude. Go wash your hands another 50 times and get over it.

SarahSassy · 19-11-2007 11:42PM

syberspud wrote: »

Since people tend to have more than one sexual partner in their lives, you're only gonna wreck your own head with that attitude. Go wash your hands another 50 times and get over it.

I assume they mean directly before they do it to you.....

auggie2k · 19-11-2007 11:44PM

I don't see the problem with kissing after it at all, I do it with my girlfriend and there's nothing wrong with it.

Some people seem to take it as a sign of the comfort you have with a person or the closeness... I kind of agree with that.

kowloon · 19-11-2007 11:46PM

SarahSassy wrote: »

I assume they mean directly before they do it to you.....

Thats what i meant, what are ye like syberspud :rolleyes:

I'm remembering back to teenage discos where the carry on was a bit less respectable

LegacyUser · 19-11-2007 11:47PM

Heya, I'm a girl - swallow - but would have a bit of a well deserved rest & catch my breath & a bit of a cuddle (I would get kisses on the head) but I would keep away from him myself because I would want to go rinse/brush my teeth. Which I would usually go do after a few minutes. Then get kisses when I come back. Personally don't like the taste & also wouldn't be comfortable kissing him when my mouth feels in need of a gargle.

syberspud · 19-11-2007 11:49PM

I assume they mean directly before they do it to you.....

Don't quite follow you here...we talking threesome or something like that? I think it'd be fair to draw the line somewhere before kissing my girl just after she's given head to some other dude!! But would the fact that she was with some guy before and done all sorts of nasty **** with him in a previous relationship bother me? Absolutely not. :cool:

neuro-praxis · 19-11-2007 11:50PM

farohar you're missing out my friend!

SarahSassy · 19-11-2007 11:51PM

I think they meant that he / she was just after giving oral sex to someone else....

Not classy in my book and definitely no need to kiss them after - whats the expression?? Sloppy seconds???

syberspud · 19-11-2007 11:54PM

Ah I getcha...well I dunno. I'd judge each situation on it's merits like..!

kowloon · 20-11-2007 12:12AM

Hehe, classy stuff, sloppy seconds would be a fitting expression.

iMax · 20-11-2007 12:24AM

Seems like a good enought reason to post this from "clerks"

- That was Snowball.
- Why do you call him that ?

   
                   
Silvan made it up.
It's a blow job thing.

   
                   
What do you mean ?

   
                   
After the blow job, he likes to have it
spit back into his mouth while kissing.

   
                   
It's called snowballing.

   
                   
- He requests this ?
- He gets off on it.

   
                   
- Silvan can be talked into anything.
- Why do you say that ?

   
                   
Like you said, she snowballed him.

   
                   
- Silvan ? No, l snowballed him.
- Yeah, right.

   
                   
I'm serious.

   
                   
- You sucked that guy's dick ?
- Yeah. How do you think l knew--

   
                   
You said you only had sex
with three different guys !
You never mentioned him !

   
                   
- Because l never had sex with him.
- You sucked his dick !

   
                   
We went out a few times.
We never had sex, but we fooled around.

   
                   
Oh, my God. Why did you tell me
you only had sex with three guys ?

   
                   
Because l did
only have sex with three guys.

   
                   
- it doesn't mean
I didn't just go with people.
- Oh, my God, l feel so nauseous !

   
                   
I'm sorry, Dante.
I thought you understood.

   
                   
I did understand !

   
                   
I understood that you had sex with
three guys and that's all you said !

   
                   
- Please calm down.
- How many ?

   
                   
- Dante, let it go !
- How many dicks have you sucked ?

   
                   
Shut up a second and I'll tell you.
Jesus !

   
                   
I didn't freak out like this when
you told me how many girls you ****ed !

   
                   
This is different. This is important.
How many ?

   
                   
Well ?

   
                   
- Something like  37 .
- What ? Something like    ?

   
                   
- Lower your voice.
- What is that-- ""Something like   "" ?

   
                   
Does that include me ?

   
                   
- Uh...   .
- I'm    ?

   
                   
- I'm going to class.
- Oh, my God.

   
                   
-    ! My girlfriend sucked  37  dicks!
- in a row ?

   
                   
- Where you going ?
- Hey, listen, jerk.
Until today, you never even knew...

   
                   
how many guys l slept with
because you never even bothered to ask.

   
                   
Then you act all nonchalant
about ****ing  3  girls.
I never had sex with  37  guys !

   
                   
- No, but you sucked enough dick !
- Yeah, l went down on a few guys.

   
                   
- A few ?
- One of those guys was you.
The last one, l might add.

   
                   
Which, if you're too stupid
to comprehend, means that
I've been faithful to you since we met.

   
                   
All the other guys
I went with before l met you.
If you want to have a complex, go ahead.

   
                   
But don't look at me like
I'm the town whore, because you
were plenty busy before you met me.

   
                   
Why did you suck their dick ?
Why couldn't you sleep with them
Like any other decent person ?

   
                   
Because going down isn't a big deal.

   
                   
I used to like a guy, we'd make out,
and sooner or later I'd go down on him.

   
                   
- But l only had sex
with the guys l loved.
- l feel sick.

   
                   
I love you !
Don't, I feel sick.

   
                   
Every time l kiss you,
I'm gonna taste  37  other guys.

   
                   
- I'm going to school. Maybe later
you'll be a bit more rational.
- I'm    ! l just can't--

   
                   
Good-bye, Dante !

   
                   
Hey, try not to suck any dick
on the way through the parking lot !

BTW - OP, she's sucking your dick dude, least you can do is kiss her !

Talliesin · 20-11-2007 12:26AM

syberspud wrote: »

Don't quite follow you here...we talking threesome or something like that? I think it'd be fair to draw the line somewhere before kissing my girl just after she's given head to some other dude!!

Pretty much the point of a threesome.

syberspud · 20-11-2007 12:29AM

Not my kinda threesome, madame.

syberspud · 20-11-2007 12:34AM

BTW - OP, she's sucking your dick dude, least you can do is kiss her !

QFT

kowloon · 20-11-2007 12:43AM

syberspud wrote: »

Not my kinda threesome, madame.

A classic

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