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the dreaded number

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  • #32
    Iago
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,639 ✭✭✭Iago


    Sleepy wrote: »
    The most experienced person I've ever slept with had only had three partners prior to me.

    The largest amount of experience I gained personally came from a single relationship.

    Experience tends to be gained in relationships, not many one night stands.

    you can gain as much from both in my experience. The actual number should be a non-issue, as has been mentioned already who needs someone with that level of insecurity.


  • #33
    Gemini Sister
    Closed Accounts Posts: 175 ✭✭Gemini Sister


    The number you sleep with rises with age & whats going on in your life.

    If you're single for a year, you may well sleep with 3-6. Single for five years? Yikes!

    Rule of thumb is: even if you're 70, never admit to sleeping with more than 20! Who needs to know? As all the posters say, its skill that matters, not numbers.

    What I mean is: you don't have to admit anything.
    Most girls don't tell the whole truth and nothing but the truth. There's nothing wrong with a bit of discretion.


  • #34
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Bottle_of_Smoke wrote: »
    Evolution has nothing to do with consciously wanting.

    If she's not a virgin she's slept with someone else & it's possible it's someone elses child you're putting your energy into upbringing. By being with a virgin you cut out that risk

    If they've already had a child they'll still have to spend time bringing up that child which has none of your genes.

    Of course this doesn't logically apply to relationships today but the unconscious doesn't catch up so fast.

    Why do you think virgins are sought after in every society in the world & mainstream religions all preach no sex before marriage?

    The mainstream religion I know and love doesn't believe in evolution. According to that mainstream religion, we all came from Adam and Eve. Going by your reference to religion , I don't think you've actually studied evolution in much depth, so stop trying to use it as a flimsy argument to back up YOUR logic.

    Men who don't like women with more partners than they've had are on the back foot. Women nowadays do not have patience for men with that type of insecurity issue. True, back in the old days, women had to be coy and unassertive. Not now. Who knows, maybe we're right at the beginning of a change on our evolution path


  • #35
    Bottle_of_Smoke
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,770 ✭✭✭Bottle_of_Smoke


    Unreg1992 wrote: »
    The mainstream religion I know and love doesn't believe in evolution. According to that mainstream religion, we all came from Adam and Eve.

    Do you actually believe it's true?.... we ALL came from Adam & Eve? What do you make of dinosaur fossils? - are they tests of faith from god? How about carbon dating, is that just scientists lying?

    I bet your religion is against sex before marriage too.
    Going by your reference to religion , I don't think you've actually studied evolution in much depth, so stop trying to use it as a flimsy argument to back up YOUR logic.

    My reference to mainstream religion was just to show that something man-made like religion is based around the concept of virginity. Whether the bible's authors were aware or not.
    Men who don't like women with more partners than they've had are on the back foot. Women nowadays do not have patience for men with that type of insecurity issue. True, back in the old days, women had to be coy and unassertive. Not now. Who knows, maybe we're right at the beginning of a change on our evolution path

    I'm not sure if this is directed at me. I'm not saying women shouldn't have multiple partners, it's none of my business & as I'm non-religious promiscuity doesn't bother me. I'm basically saying, if I was a woman who had a lot of partners I'd avoid the numbers conversation with boyfriends.

    I thought you said your religion doesn't believe in evolution???? Women being assertive won't change male's attraction to virginity by the way.

    Why are replying unregistered?


  • #36
    gcgirl
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,044 ✭✭✭gcgirl


    Personaly i would rather get down and dirty with some one who knew what to do! Experience counts ! what ever you done before this relationship is not his business! I never told any ex whom i had before him !


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  • #37
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Bottle of Smoke, I never said it was MY religion.

    I also said MAYBE we are on a new evolutionary path. I didn't say it was fact.

    I'm posting as unregistered because I'm unregistered.
    The last section of my post was not directed at you.


  • #38
    Bottle_of_Smoke
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,770 ✭✭✭Bottle_of_Smoke


    Unreg1992 wrote: »
    Bottle of Smoke, I never said it was MY religion.

    Oops, just kinda got misled by the "religion I know & love" part.

    I also said MAYBE we are on a new evolutionary path. I didn't say it was fact.

    Ah, the semantics card.


  • #39
    kowloon
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,722 ✭✭✭✭kowloon


    Gemini Sister wrote: »
    If you're single for a year, you may well sleep with 3-6. Single for five years? Yikes!

    That doesn't apply to everyone, i'm going off to cry now :rolleyes:


  • #40
    Marksie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,395 ✭✭✭Marksie


    Keep it on topic please folks


  • #41
    thefinalstage
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,503 ✭✭✭thefinalstage


    By the gods! He dumped you over that!? Thats a damn good bonus in a girl!
    Am I right?


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  • #42
    Froot
    Closed Accounts Posts: 546 ✭✭✭Froot


    Well I have been with a few girls in particular who slept with lots of people and they were terrible in bed.

    Maybe it's just this guy creating a problem for you...


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