How do you men prefer a woman´s...ahem Ladygarden?

LegacyUser · 25-08-2007 10:38PM #1

Hi there!

I tihnk I´m at the stage with my boyfriend where I´m ready to go a bit...further if you know what I mean, and I´m just wondering do guys have a big problem with hair..down there? If they do, would it be best to shave or wax it or use that veet stuff? I don´t want my boyf thinking I´m all disgusting and hairy but at the same time I don´t wanna look like a 10 year old!

Zzippy · 25-08-2007 10:55PM

Think most guys I know prefer smooth down below, with a bit of hair above, neatly trimmed.
Nothing worse than going down on a girl and getting hairs stuck in yer teeth! :eek:

feylya · 25-08-2007 10:57PM

Get one of those lady trimmer thingies and at least trim it back. Not fully shaved but not a wilderness either.

daveirl · 25-08-2007 11:25PM

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Dord · 26-08-2007 12:21AM

feylya wrote:

Not fully shaved but not a wilderness either.

+1

Just keep it neat

26-08-2007 12:32AM

Ladygarden wrote:

would it be best to shave or wax it or use that veet stuff?

A word of advice, be very careful with Veet and other similar products. Do not put them anywhere near your more delicate bits. You can get special stuff for bikini lines but even that will *spread* a little when you put it on and, if any of it gets near the vaginal lips, will cause a huge amount of discomfort.

Shaving does the jobs but usually goes a little bumpy and can be itchy when growing back.

Your best bet is a wax from a professional beautician. Don't worry about having to be totally hair-free and this is hard to maintain and not every woman feels comfortable about it. A good waxer will give you a tidy but natural appearance.

K-9 · 26-08-2007 12:48AM

joe robot wrote:

+1

Just keep it neat

+2.

Depends if its a wilderness or not?;)

Some girls wouldn't have a serious issue with it. The odd hair in the mouth shouldn't be an issue for a girl or a fella! Thats more of an issue than should I shave or not.

Jaysus, chill out and enjoy it.

easyontheeye · 26-08-2007 12:53AM

a neat little bit of "landing strip" is fine

WindSock · 26-08-2007 10:12AM

I don't recommend shaving or veet. Waxing is the best way to go. But you never know, he may like being a jungle explorer

faceman · 26-08-2007 10:16AM

as my economics teacher once said, "if a guy gets that far the colour of the knickers dont matter"

Tak3n · 26-08-2007 01:03PM

I had an experience with a girl before.. at least i think it was a girl who was very hairy.
She had a hairy ass crack leading all the way round to her pubic area... quite disturbing.

Keep it nice and smooth down below and the upper part trimmed down.

comongethappy · 26-08-2007 01:45PM

As I've heard many men say - no one wants to go down on chewbacca! I'd say at least trim it - maybe go for a brazillian. Personally, I feel hair free in more hygenic - but upkeep is a pain!

LegacyUser · 26-08-2007 06:55PM

If he thinks you're disgusting and hairy then he's not a man.
End of.

My guy doesn't care if I shave it or not.

It's great, coz he loves me that's all that matters.

Why don't you ask him what he likes?

And word to the wise, a friend of mine went for a professional wax and they ended up tearing her skin and she was covered in blisters all over for quite a few days, hurt her to sit down and all she couldn't have sex either!

So how many guys here would prefer a scabby "ladygarden" to a furry one?

Victor · 26-08-2007 06:59PM

Once it isn't a rainforest, no problem.

LegacyUser · 26-08-2007 07:01PM

Tak3n wrote:

I had an experience with a girl before.. at least i think it was a girl who was very hairy.
She had a hairy ass crack leading all the way round to her pubic area... quite disturbing.

Keep it nice and smooth down below and the upper part trimmed down.

And how to you keep your ass crack and balls?

Waxed smooth are they?

ircoha · 26-08-2007 07:27PM

Consider the maintenace of any solution you adopt.

Trimming,IMO, with a beard trimmer type mowing bar gives u the option of starting out with a light trim and taking it from there.

CathyMoran · 26-08-2007 07:38PM

I was hairless down below due to chemo and my husband loved it, however I have not decided to go back to it, much to his chagrine. If there was a painless way of doing it I would, just like sometimes I would prefer him hairless but there are some days when I love having his hairy big monster!

Anti · 26-08-2007 07:57PM

All off please. Its more hygenic for a start. And there is nothing worse then pulling down your ladys thong with your teeth and being confronted with the amazon rainforest.

LegacyUser · 26-08-2007 08:03PM

Anti wrote:

All off please. Its more hygenic for a start. And there is nothing worse then pulling down your ladys thong with your teeth and being confronted with the amazon rainforest.

And how do you keep your down below?
All off is it?

Tak3n · 26-08-2007 09:00PM

getreal2007 wrote:

And how to you keep your ass crack and balls?

Waxed smooth are they?

Im not a woman. And most women i know don't have balls maybe you do ?

McGinty · 26-08-2007 09:03PM

Hi Op

Do what ever feels comfortable for you but do be aware that if you shave/wax it all off, the grow back can be very uncomfortable as it will be itchy, personally I would advise that you trim it to start and see how that goes and maybe try a bikini wax to get some idea of the pain level. I strongly advise you not to use creams such as Veet as the skin is very delicate around your ladygarden (nice word).

Anti

All off please. Its more hygenic for a start.

It is not more hygenic, it may seem that way but pubic hair around a woman's vagina protects it from infection, also the hair around the anus (aka crack area) stops any germs from the anus going near the vagina. What is hygenic is keeping the area clean, not ripping all the hair off, it leaves it very vulnerable.

Finally Op, just to add less hair can be pleasing to your lover's eye, and it may increase sensitivity to you as well, but do be careful that you may be open to more bugs entering there too.

Victor · 26-08-2007 09:07PM

Tak3n wrote:

getreal2007 wrote:

And how to you keep your ass crack and balls? Waxed smooth are they?

Im not a woman. And most women i know don't have balls maybe you do ?

OK, chill out folks.

LegacyUser · 26-08-2007 09:35PM

McGinty wrote:

Hi Op
It is not more hygenic, it may seem that way but pubic hair around a woman's vagina protects it from infection, also the hair around the anus (aka crack area) stops any germs from the anus going near the vagina. What is hygenic is keeping the area clean, not ripping all the hair off, it leaves it very vulnerable.

Finally Op, just to add less hair can be pleasing to your lover's eye, and it may increase sensitivity to you as well, but do be careful that you may be open to more bugs entering there too.

Exactly,
If it was soooo un hygenic and dangerous we would have evloved past the stage of having it.

The Walsho · 26-08-2007 09:50PM

getreal2007 wrote:

Exactly,
If it was soooo un hygenic and dangerous we would have evloved past the stage of having it.

This is the third time you've posted something like this in this thread, we see your point.
Back on topic, just keep it neat OP and you're fine.

Rossibaby · 26-08-2007 10:03PM

some say if there is grass on teh filed play away,but i say a good footballer can play on all surfaces;-)

Magic Eight Ball · 26-08-2007 10:16PM

boreds wrote:

But you never know, he may like being a jungle explorer

And the likelihood of that is slim to nil.

meglome · 26-08-2007 11:23PM

I don't like women to be hairier than me, not that I'm particularly hairy, other than that I have no issue whatsoever. I find this current fixation with women being hairless a bit weird. Women are not generally hairless and never have been so I hope this fad passes, although let’s not go back to the 70’s

You’d have to blame modern porn and magazines. Go to the continent and women have hair where they naturally should have and it’s not an issue. Do what you’re comfortable with and don’t be brainwashed by what Cosmo is currently saying.

meglome · 26-08-2007 11:29PM

getreal2007 wrote:

And how to you keep your ass crack and balls?

Waxed smooth are they?

Very good point though.

LegacyUser · 26-08-2007 11:38PM

**** that, i love pubes down there, lady gardens well and the hidden treasure inside are the greatest things on planet earth to me, and anyone on who prefers a mouthfull of stubbly plastic prepubescentness must have read too many braindeath magazines, wwell i suppose its all a matter of perception anyways. whichever shaved or not it'll be heaven.

#Smokey# · 27-08-2007 12:40AM

The landing strip seems to be common these days. Not sure if its hygienic for women but it works ie. no hair in teeth

The Corinthian · 27-08-2007 07:45AM

getreal2007 wrote:

Exactly,
If it was soooo un hygenic and dangerous we would have evloved past the stage of having it.

Indeed, and we shouldn't use deodorant either because if BO was bad we'd produce our own. As for men shaving or trimming down there, many do and are actively asked to do, it really depends upon what their partner prefers and that she expresses that preference.

Nonetheless, to simply suggest that men should do exactly the same thing because their partner does it does actually come across as infantile tit-for-tat. After all, if a guy wants his girlfriend to wear suspenders in bed, should he do the same? Perhaps (let me just throw this crazy notion out there) he should so something that works for her instead?

How do you men prefer a woman´s...*ahem* Ladygarden?

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