caught bf in bed with other girl

notsobrokengirl wrote:

Ha ha very funny ILMF. Since I was with my ex for 3 years and didn't even kiss another guy, would be a miracle if it was anyone else's.

Thanks Mark for your post. Feeling scared, apprehensive and unsure at the moment. Its not something I ever envisaged happening at this point in my life, or in this situation. Especially worried after reading the single mother's thread! All very surreal, and its not helped by the fact I feel really ill this week. Still hope my ex will get the help he needs, and be involved in the future. Though I have to be ready to do it alone in case he doesn't. Despite everything, can't switch off my feeling overnight. He's ill, and I hope he gets better for his own sake

More than welcome. It is a huge change for you to be sure. But its a change in path not and end of things, a new way of being. its only natural that you should feel hat way, but i am sure there are plenty of people here and elsewhere who will be on hand to give advice and support.

And don't worry about the single mothers thread either. What has come across from your posts is someone who is very caring and supportive. I have no doubt that you will be a good mother and that, in the end you will find what you need both in terms of balancing your life an a partner who will care for you in equal fashion.

It is up to your ex partner to sort himself out and decide to be involved in a responsible way. Look to yourself and the baby now, i hope it goes well and smoothly for you.

MILF is not worth answering

blessings on you both
mark