Guys, Thoughts on women chatting you up?

women are generally crap at chattin up, tho they get results. The way women do it is initiate the convo in some way, be it by showing you one of the toys they bring out on girls nights out, like whistles, pacifiers, glow in the dark thingys, whatever, but they show you it as in a kinda "Look at this! ps come over here!" in which the bloke is expected to go over and then chat HER up. Or, she can come over to you at the bar when ur buyin a drink and maybe initiate conversation in which you have to take on and carry on the conversation. depending on drunkeness, its rarer to see girls chattin up fellas in the same way as we do. ya'd rarely see a girl comin over and bein pushy and goin in for the kiss too soon, they mostly wait for the bloke to take the lead. In sayin that tho, girls on here have taken the lead when the fella has been too shy. problem with girls chattin fellas up is that, as a bloke, if ya turn down a ride, ur mates might give ya abuse or slag ya or some other random man ritual, so its known for fellas to actually go off with girls that chat them up and shag them even if they dont want to! though in sayin that, theres also the blokes who would go off with anything, however, they;re not usally the type that get chatted up.

In summary, its good if you actually are attracted to the girl that chats u up. else its kinda awkward, especially if shes desperate.