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Kell · 13-03-2007 01:54PM

oceansize wrote:

See i'm not normally like this.

Eh? Yea you are. This is a mirror image of a post you posted about two months ago where everyone told you the same thing.

Stop overfúckinganalysing! Damn script doesnt extend to mile hi concrete letters. Damnnit.

K-

ballsofire23 · 13-03-2007 08:05PM

oceansize wrote:

Hello all,

Met a french girl the weekend. didn't speak to her much but i thought she was lovely.

I managed to get her number and text her the next day. She remember who i was and we got talking and asked if she wanted to meet for a drink and she agreed.
We went to a small pub with a bit of music, was fairly nervous, we talked about this and that and had a good laugh. neither of us was drinking much though.

We went to a late bar and then left still had a good time. I walked her home and we talked for a minute and i said i was going home and thank you for a lovely evening, we hugged and i left.

I then txt her a while later saying i was home and i had a great night and would love to meet again. And i hoped she had a good night

She replied a bit later and said that she had a great time and said something like "i thought i'd be home by 11 but the night when so quick with you, thats a good thing" and she said if i want to meet for a drink next weekend that she'd love to meet up again.

I text her again and said it was fun and she said "im glad you did have a good night because you never said it!". and that was it.

So i was well happy with myself. Now should i leave it till next weekend to contact her again or should i text her tonight and ask her how work was or whatever?

Cheers

Trust me she didn't like you. French women tend to lead you on, and then abrubplty blame you for the slightest mistake to justify "you wont get anothe call from me". You see they are convenience stores of texts. Meaning they are mating differnt than others.
you class all foreign as the same. Trust me, she didn't like you. She led you on. My brother maried a French woman; divorce we prayed for and got it answered. They are very rude in their way of letting you down never gently.

Don't feel embarraseed just learn to give light hearted compliments and comments on the dates. Remember that helps but if she liked you, she could also have adjusted to you cultural slange there's a compromise she failed to meet. Don't kill yourself over her, she sounds like vinegar to date. You are learning by that. So remember, the French are difficult to date.

Wibbs · 13-03-2007 08:20PM

ballsofire23 wrote:

Trust me she didn't like you. French women tend to lead you on, and then abrubplty blame you for the slightest mistake to justify "you wont get anothe call from me". You see they are convenience stores of texts. Meaning they are mating differnt than others.
you class all foreign as the same. Trust me, she didn't like you. She led you on. My brother maried a French woman; divorce we prayed for and got it answered. They are very rude in their way of letting you down never gently.

Prejudicial much? WTF? So your brother married a bad one? My cousin's happily married to a French woman for the last 15yrs. Would I say all French women are like his lovely wife. No that would be equally stupid. I'd love to see how long that post would last if you said the same nonsense about Black women or Asians? And "trust me she didn't like you"? What. How in God's name can you make such a statement?

Don't feel embarraseed just learn to give light hearted compliments and comments on the dates. Remember that helps but if she liked you, she could also have adjusted to you cultural slange there's a compromise she failed to meet. Don't kill yourself over her, she sounds like vinegar to date. You are learning by that. So remember, the French are difficult to date.

Have you even read what has happened with the OP?

OP ignore this nonsense. Enjoy your time with her and she with you, like us all you never know.

cornbb · 13-03-2007 08:22PM

ballsofire23 wrote:

French women tend to lead you on ... the French are difficult to date.

No they don't ... no they're not

ballsofire23 · 13-03-2007 09:29PM

Wibbs wrote:

Prejudicial much? WTF? So your brother married a bad one? My cousin's happily married to a French woman for the last 15yrs. Would I say all French women are like his lovely wife. No that would be equally stupid. I'd love to see how long that post would last if you said the same nonsense about Black women or Asians? And "trust me she didn't like you"? What. How in God's name can you make such a statement?

Have you even read what has happened with the OP?

OP ignore this nonsense. Enjoy your time with her and she with you, like us all you never know.

I'm not replying to this anymore.

It's a sour life we all live in. might treat myself now to caffeine and nicotine high.

So if I'm the target for Wibbs and using me as a good reason...............

Confused.

Wibbs · 13-03-2007 09:41PM

Kell wrote:

Stop overfúckinganalysing! Damn script doesnt extend to mile hi concrete letters. Damnnit.

Best advice ever.:)

Marksie · 13-03-2007 11:04PM

ballsofire23 wrote:

So if I'm the target for Wibbs and using me as a good reason...............

Confused.

Ummm, actually, i was wondering where on earth that initial post of yours came from. It was pretty headscratching. I think wibbs was targeting the post it made some sweeping statements.

ballsofire23 wrote:

I'm not replying to this anymore.

hmmmmmmmm

ballsofire23 wrote:

It's a sour life we all live in.

No, its not. But that is for a different thread, if you feel like starting one

OP: Kells remembered as did I about your previous threads, all saying the same thing.So relax, and enjoy the moment

Beruthiel · 14-03-2007 08:52AM

ballsofire23
Please don't come in here and tar the whole french nation with one bad experience that your brother had.

My b/f of 7 years happens to be french, he was never in the slightest difficult to date and is in fact a dote.
In this life you should always judge a person on who they are, not what country they happen to come from.

oceansize · 15-03-2007 01:20PM

Yeah sorry, i'm just a bit worried as i really like her.

She asked me over for dinner the night before last, bottle of wine and some nice food, was really nice. Didn't talk to her at all yesterday, was pretty busy.

Wibbs · 15-03-2007 06:59PM

oceansize wrote:

Yeah sorry, i'm just a bit worried as i really like her.

and it looks like she likes you too. You can never be sure about anything like this so just go with the flow ya lucky muppet!

She asked me over for dinner the night before last, bottle of wine and some nice food, was really nice. Didn't talk to her at all yesterday, was pretty busy.

Don't overanalyse and enjoy it. Oh yea and good luck.

Jesus Wept · 15-03-2007 07:11PM

Kenny 5 wrote:

I don't understand how you're not bouncing your balls of her chin as we speak She's interested, go for it!!!

Romance is not dead.

oceansize · 16-03-2007 10:50AM

OK she likes me. Definitely.
I was testing myself by not texting her the day before yesterday, and i didn't text her yesterday, so she contacted me again and asked me to join her for dinner again

We went to the pub after, had a really good time. I''m very happy

louisecm · 16-03-2007 11:07AM

oceansize wrote:

OK she likes me. Definitely.
I was testing myself by not texting her the day before yesterday, and i didn't text her yesterday, so she contacted me again and asked me to join her for dinner again We went to the pub after, had a really good time. I''m very happy

Good for you Oceansize.

LegacyUser · 16-03-2007 11:45AM

Wow, a personal issues thread with a happy ending. There's hope for us all!

oceansize · 16-03-2007 11:48AM

Well you can't blame her, i'm a handsome bastard

Beruthiel · 16-03-2007 12:03PM

Well, I think this thread is done.
Bon chance avec ta fille

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