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To wait or not bother?

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  • #32
    ianmc38
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,754 ✭✭✭ianmc38


    I think a poll is obviously the best means of finding the answer.

    Regarding the OP, do it when you feel like it and don't let the actions or thoughts of others influence you in anyway.


  • #33
    togster
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,931 ✭✭✭togster


    Rnger wrote:
    wow.... some crazy responses here imo

    its not a big deal, its just sex. enjoy yourself while your young
    look dont get caught up in what other people think you should do including some of those suggesting that you should wait. Sex is a personal issue and at the end of the day its up to you to decide whats right. I lost mine at 16 and never regretted it but i know people including guys who had an awful first time. Take it as it comes.


  • #34
    AthAnRi
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 962 ✭✭✭AthAnRi


    af_thefragile wrote:
    This thread disgusts me!!
    Whats the big deal if you are a still virgin?! thats a good thing!! and u are only 20!
    Sex is not some small thing u can play around with. Once you lose or take away someones virginity, u can never get it back. Losing your virginity is a big thing imo and i think you should only give it away to the person you really love and wanna spend the rest of your life with. Not some random guy you met at a club and humped cuz u were desperate!!!

    Being a virgin is not something demeaning! Its shows you are sensible enuf to wait for the right person to give it off to and not some desperate horny teenager who went around humping anything on two legs cuz you just wanted to get rid of it!

    Its always better wait for the right person to give away ur viginity to rather than giving away to someone u were hardly close to and then regretting it later! It always feels better to be close and get intimate with the person you trully love, trust and know u're gonna spend the rest of ur life with.

    Sooo... Dont be desperate! be sensible and wait for the right person and only let him take away ur viginity after u're completey sure he's the person u're gonna spend the rest of ur life with and not someone who's gonna leave u in a few months for the hot chick he met the other day...!!

    I don't understand how this thread could disgust you? I find it quiet refreshing that so many people are understanding to the OPs dilema. the vast majority of people believe she is doing the right thing by waiting. The fact the she herself feels under pressure to lose is more than reason enough for her to seek advise. It's also refreshing that there are a lot more people like her on here also.

    From a male point of view It is certainly not something that would put me off a girl, in fact it is probably something that would attract me to her even more. To the OP I say fair play. Your certainly not a loser.


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