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Dan133269 · 08-01-2007 01:40PM

No you did nothing wrong, but you should probably try kiss her properly the next time.
Did you get a little flutter in your stomach when you saw her in the pub?

tba · 08-01-2007 01:42PM

time to move on to the next stage.. Dinner at your place. (For the love of god call, don't text)

oceansize · 08-01-2007 03:02PM

But she hasn't text me back since friday, i've text her twice!

tba · 08-01-2007 03:26PM

Are you really going to let that stop you?

oceansize · 08-01-2007 03:28PM

Well she's away all week, and only comes home at the weekends. So i'd feel like i was eating into her home time by asking her to do something with me when she comes back? Is that stupid? But i really like her

hmmmm · 08-01-2007 03:37PM

oceansize wrote:

Well she's away all week, and only comes home at the weekends. So i'd feel like i was eating into her home time by asking her to do something with me when she comes back? Is that stupid? But i really like her

Me thinks you are thinking to much about it. Don't worry about things like this.

LegacyUser · 08-01-2007 04:06PM

'call her! male friend of mine used say if a guy likes you he'll call instead of texting reckoned texting was lazy.

slight off topic but met a guy thursday talked all night got on well kissed at the end of the night. he asked for my number, lots of noise unsure if he even heard it properly.

now i havent heard from him but quite like him. a friend of mine has his number do i take it and text him or wait for him to get in touch?'

LegacyUser · 08-01-2007 04:37PM

'Take the number and text him'

oceansize · 08-01-2007 06:06PM

eek! i think id be embarrased calling her after txting twice with no reply!

Kevin2006 · 08-01-2007 06:13PM

My advice would be to simply wait. If she doesnt get back to you then leave it. There is not much more you can do now without looking desperate.

MojoMaker · 08-01-2007 08:51PM

She knows you're interested, that much is clear, but the trouble is she just doesn't see you as a man. You second-guess everything, are too insecure (read: nice btw) to kiss her or ever try to turn any of the encounters into something that will have her weak at the knees. Why should she bother courting a sexually passive male when she can take her pick from the real men out there?

oceansize · 08-01-2007 09:01PM

MojoMaker wrote:

She knows you're interested, that much is clear, but the trouble is she just doesn't see you as a man. You second-guess everything, are too insecure (read: nice btw) to kiss her or ever try to turn any of the encounters into something that will have her weak at the knees. Why should she bother courting a sexually passive male when she can take her pick from the real men out there?

I met her twice. Maybe i missed a cue. When we all left the club the last time she did come with me instead of getting a taxi with the lads. But i live kind of in the same direction as her and she didn't want to go back to a session.

Sexually passive? She's only ever been with 1 person sexually. I don't want to be hitting her "come back to mine for a cup of coffee and 3 o'clock in the morning on the 2nd metting, which was a chance meeting, not even a date.

Maybe you're right, and that why she hasn't gotten back to me. Oh well

j4vier · 08-01-2007 09:11PM

Why should she bother courting a sexually passive male when she can take her pick from the real men out there?

ah so ur saying that just because he didnt jump on her after 2 dates , he is sexually passive? nonsense

and im not goin to waste time on explaining why that is..

but op really nothing u can do now, let her get in touch now

vorbis · 08-01-2007 09:28PM

I'd agree with Mojomaker. You don't have to jump on her but I'd imagine you would normally have made out with a girl after 2 dates. Not doing that would be seen as passive by most people I know.

D-Generate · 08-01-2007 09:34PM

Told you to grow a pair earlier on and kiss her but alas you didn't heed my advice! You're loss buddy and someother guy is now probably getting his kicks. Try better next time to be a little more direct.

Chucky the tree · 09-01-2007 12:35AM

D-Generate wrote:

Told you to grow a pair earlier on and kiss her but alas you didn't heed my advice! You're loss buddy and someother guy is now probably getting his kicks. Try better next time to be a little more direct.

She doesnt seem like the kind of girl whos drops her knickers at the drop of a hate so i doubt that.

I'm sure if she was with the Master D-Generate she couldnt resist though..

ShevY · 09-01-2007 02:24AM

unlucky oceansize

NextSteps · 09-01-2007 03:11PM

Don't mind them. Ring her anyway, what's the worst that can happen? She sounds nice and even if she doesn't want to see you she'll probably be tactful about it. And you'll regret it if you don't. You do't have to hop a girl the first date or two for her to be attracted to you!

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