Found out my gf is underage.

spurious · 06-01-2007 06:30PM

The law was clearly broken but since it was concensual(spelling?), aren't the girl and the OP equally at fault?

That's the point - the law says if she is underage, there could not have been consent.

Hopefully the OP (and others) have learned a lesson.

arseagon · 06-01-2007 06:31PM

No the girl is 14. That's not considered old enough for her to give her consent of her own free will therefore making it illegal.

hmmmm · 06-01-2007 08:32PM

Victor wrote:

Would you have married people banend form nightclubs in case they went home with the wrong person?

Of course not, the difference is that it is not illegal for married people to cheat.

j0e · 06-01-2007 08:55PM

zippy28 wrote:

No the girl is 14. That's not considered old enough for her to give her consent of her own free will therefore making it illegal.

so if he gets a piece of paper from her parents saying its ok the shag is on?

RealJohn · 06-01-2007 10:11PM

Haven't read through all the posts so apologies if there's any repetition here.

If you had had sex with her the first night, it would have been illegal but the chances are you'd get away with it since you're 18 and you met her in a nightclub. You could reasonably argue you thought she was 18 too.

However, if you start a relationship with her, you will lose that defence and could potentially wind up on the sex-offenders register. I doubt that's something you want at 18.

There will be other hot girls man. Tell her how it is and let her go. Who knows, in 4 years time, she might still be hot and very appreciative you didn't take advantage of her.

One way or the other, cover yourself. Let her go.

LegacyUser · 06-01-2007 10:18PM

'Just check out the age of consent in other countries in Europe and then realise that they had condoms legal before 1991.
As for Ireland, it's not exactly a country that fights for individual rights with the nanny state interfering.'

joeybloggs · 06-01-2007 10:28PM

Just remember the classic rule which allows you to find out '' How Low Can You Go! '' Its the PLAYGROUND RULE

# Half you age Plus 7.

Its a simple rule which even a fourteen year old can figure out. It allows even the most succesful fourty year old get down and dirty with his twenty-seven year old gold digger girlfriend.

So lets do maths.

18 divided by 2 = 9
9 Plus 7 = 16

Ergo PLAYGROUND RULE says she is under the limit.

Next week: The letters R, U and N

Anti · 06-01-2007 11:16PM

Elessar wrote:

It's funny how the law works. The government is taking it in the wrong direction, for the sake of the frothing at the mouth masses. I have always been puzzled why issues such as age of consent and anything to do with under 18s brings about such extreme and sometimes violent reactions from the public

It's even worse in North America. There was a case recently where a 15/16 year old boy was sent to jail for 10 years for receiving a blowjob from a 14 year old girl. The girl was never charged with anything.

*sigh* It will be a long long time before society matures to some decent level.

I think i seen a post in S&S the other day by telesin. That in some us states. Oral sex is actuall illegal......

Dave! · 06-01-2007 11:56PM

Miss Fluff wrote:

12 + 2 = 14

That's right, she is a mere two years older than a 12 year old.

That made me lol -- nice rationale!

I'd say get outa there OP. There are many many MANY hot 18 year olds. Your gf might be hot, but I'll bet there's thousands of hotter 18 year olds. I'll bet any money!

custardcreams · 07-01-2007 06:41AM

obv you let this one slip by passport control

your a geebag and should be whipped with the belt of stupidity.

i hope you get a sixer pal. your irresponsible sc-m.

custardcreams · 07-01-2007 06:48AM

the law was floundering between mr a being let out and kept in against ..our constitution. As it happens public opinion own out and justice in ireland was kicked in the c-nt. But what price , what price they roar from the rafters. No price. Peace of mind for some over eager parents picketing leinster house in the run up to a ''poll'' for this year election. Plus the whole thing is nasty to the senses. OP you have balls posting here. IP address is handy to retrieve, You aint anonymous. Gardai might like it unless internet cafe prints. Everyone is skirting the fact you should be given the chance to change the constitution and get posibly a little rainwater grace from ''i didnt know'', even though ignorance is no defence and its not holland. Clown. Clowno. When or if you get sent, special treatment is reserved for your conviction. Boiling water. Not a pretty sight.

* the username of the OP smells of bulls-it. I believe he is illiciting a response rather than evoked a reaction to an actual deed. QED - Cu,t.

dudara · 07-01-2007 11:14AM

custardcreams banned for one week. Please contact me or another moderator to have it lifted. dudara

darkflower · 07-01-2007 03:23PM

bigjimthefirst wrote:

I'd say get out of there quick, you'll only get yourself into trouble.

Agree! Don't waste time bro.

LegacyUser · 07-01-2007 08:13PM

'maybe the parents were gone on holidays, like skiing or something, it is that time of year. perhaps she was left with an older sibling. maybe the older sibling brought the girl to the club, dressed her up to look older so she could join in on the fun. albeit disgusting fun.'

Catari Jaguar · 07-01-2007 11:18PM

Unregwr wrote:

'Part of me wonders how you didn't have some idea of her age. We're talking 14! At a stretch I could understand some trickery if she was 16 but 14?!?!?! You fool.
In any event end it before you end up in court. Tell Lolita to take a hike'

My lil cousin was 13 got pregnant by her 19 year old bloke. She was seeing him since she was 12, and she had a very developed body, everyone used to think she was her older sister's (20) big sister!

Girl's that age are like bitches in heat and they will sneak around and lie. She was never where she said she was, had secret phones, was stealing money and skiving school etc.

So it is very plausible that the OP's girl IS 14 and in a night club. She might LOOK older but she has a child's mentality and immaturity. Dump her now, before she gets serious and can turn malicious.

Also, at 14, it's not just statutory rape for full intercourse, it's doing anything sexual. So you could technically be arrested. That's what I've heard anyways. Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong.

Catari Jaguar · 07-01-2007 11:29PM

Anti wrote:

That is very true.

But when have you seen a 14 year old boy actually looks 18 ?

A guy I know is now in 4th year I think, known him for a while now. I thought he was in 5th year when he was in 2nd year and 14! He was going to clubs in town etc, he slept with a 30 year old when he was 15.

So yea, it happens!!

Húrin · 07-01-2007 11:34PM

Underreged wrote:

She seems faily infatuated with me, maybe that's just cause of her age. I dunno how much i like her. I do think shes hot though. I take it it'll have to end?

She's infatuated with you because her hormones are all over the place. Stop this now.

She might brag about pulling an 18 year old guy to her school friends; you however will probably get nothing but disgust if you say you're going out with a 14 year old.

There, two reasons why you must get out now.

Victor · 07-01-2007 11:34PM

j0e wrote:

so if he gets a piece of paper from her parents saying its ok the shag is on?

No.

spurious · 08-01-2007 07:08AM

Lil Kitten wrote:

Girl's that age are like bitches in heat and they will sneak around and lie.

:eek:

That is why the law has to protect them. It doesn't take an awful lot of conversation to if not be sure, certainly have doubts about a young person's stated age. Of course if someone's mind is on something else they won't be looking for signs the person is underage.

There's no real excuse and blaming the underage person is abhorrent.

Victor · 08-01-2007 07:23AM

By the way OP, have you seen / read Trainspotting?

[Mark has spent the previous night having sex with Diane only to realize she was an underage schoolgirl]

Diane: Well, what's the matter, Mark?
Mark "Rent-boy" Renton: It's you that's what's wrong!
Diane: Well at least us hold hands.
Mark "Rent-boy" Renton: No, we're not holding hands!
Diane: No? But you seemed a lot more happy to do more last night. There's nothing wrong with it.
Mark "Rent-boy" Renton: Its illegal that's what's wrong with it! You know what they do to people like me in prison? They cut your balls off and flush them down the toilet.
Diane: Relax, you're not going to prison.
Mark "Rent-boy" Renton: That's very easy for you to say Diane!
Diane: Well, are you going to see me again?
Mark "Rent-boy" Renton: No, Diane!
Diane: If you don't see me again, I'll tell the police.
Mark "Rent-boy" Renton: [turns around and stares at Diane blankly]
Diane: All right, I'll see you around then.

hmmmm · 08-01-2007 10:52AM

spurious wrote:

:eek:

That is why the law has to protect them. It doesn't take an awful lot of conversation to if not be sure, certainly have doubts about a young person's stated age. Of course if someone's mind is on something else they won't be looking for signs the person is underage.

There's no real excuse and blaming the underage person is abhorrent.

I know 25 year olds that have the mentality of 14 years and vice-versa. I don't think it is that simple. Plus, with drink involved in a nightclub...

Captain Trips · 08-01-2007 11:23AM

Victor wrote:

By the way OP, have you seen / read Trainspotting?

TRainspotting is a good example, so is Hard Candy!

Capt'n Midnight · 08-01-2007 07:33PM

can't remember the exact quote from Mr Roberts but it went something like

over sixty they are protected by mother nature
under sixteen they are protected by the law
in between they are fair game

Found out my gf is underage.

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