Seduction - Size doesn't matter

LundiMardi · 05-08-2006 03:53PM #1

Anyone see this the other night? (This isn't a topic about the show, more about what the show was about etc... you'll see).

It was about 3 different guys with absolutely zero confidence in scoring girls and basically didn't have a clue where to start. All had issues relating to their appearance... one was 6' 6'' was extremely uncomfortable with it. One was very overweight and presumably uncomfortable with it, and the other was a ''little person''. Only 5' 3''.

Basically 2 ''experts'' were showing that size doesn't matter, and that ANY guy could have ANY girl. They were put to the test, as in, all had to just go up to a stranger in the street and basically start chatting to em. They were told about body language etc... and were even given the test to tell a girl she's sexy within minutes of meeting her.
Obviously, this was quite cringe worthy and i did actually have to turn over the channel on a couple of occasions haha...

Anyway, i guess i'm just curious if many people here actively do this, as in, go up to women in random places, chat away, even if you are a person with low confidence, and do any women do it? Or do we all stick to places such as bars, clubs, parties etc...

If you're a women, would you be freaked out if a guy just came over to you while in the street and just started chatting to you?

Gone West · 05-08-2006 04:08PM

LundiMardi wrote:

Anyway, i guess i'm just curious if many people here actively do this, as in, go up to women in random places, chat away,

Yeah If I'm bored.
why not.

Sounds like an allright show, that.
Confidence (and money*) can be enough to compensate for almost anything.

*oooh controversial! But you know it's true.

spanner · 05-08-2006 04:16PM

I think humans are generally attracted to healthy looking bodies, weather they be cuvery, smaller or anything else as long as it is healthy. If you want to have a body to attract the opposite sex just lead a healthy lifestyle

Huggles · 05-08-2006 04:16PM

LundiMardi wrote:

Anyway, i guess i'm just curious if many people here actively do this, as in, go up to women in random places, chat away, even if you are a person with low confidence, and do any women do it? Or do we all stick to places such as bars, clubs, parties etc...

If you're a women, would you be freaked out if a guy just came over to you while in the street and just started chatting to you?

Yes I am a woman and I do it. I find some guys are chuffed and some are morto (especially if they are out with friends)

I would love it if more non-scary random guys chatted to me in the street/bus/supermarket!

Tha Gopher · 05-08-2006 04:17PM

Jesus Lundi, talk abpout leaving us hanging. You never mentioned whether it worked, whether the girls got afraid and told them to fcuk off....god dammit I wanna know!

Anyway the answer is when Im sober rarely, when Im pissed all the tme, with varying success.

LundiMardi · 05-08-2006 04:30PM

TheGooner wrote:

Yes I am a woman and I do it. I find some guys are chuffed and some are morto (especially if they are out with friends)

I would love it if more non-scary random guys chatted to me in the street/bus/supermarket!

define non scary?

Actually, i'm more intrigued to see if a woman would have time for a man who did this who would be considered ''ugly''(not scarred for life or anything), but someone who they wouldn't normally find atractive. Would ya just blank him and run away?

cornbb · 05-08-2006 04:36PM

TheGooner wrote:

I would love it if more non-scary random guys chatted to me in the street/bus/supermarket!

Hmmm, intriguing... but how many women feel this way?

ferdi · 05-08-2006 04:38PM

the doctor says any more Mace in my eyes will leave me with a periment visual impairment, so i dont do it anymore.

Huggles · 05-08-2006 04:40PM

LundiMardi wrote:

define non scary?

Actually, i'm more intrigued to see if a woman would have time for a man who did this who would be considered ''ugly''(not scarred for life or anything), but someone who they wouldn't normally find atractive. Would ya just blank him and run away?

non-scary=not a junkie/not carrying a weapon/not threatening/menacing in anyway

TBH it doesnt matter what a fella looks like as long as he is sound as, is able to string two words together and likes a good laugh!

ferdi · 05-08-2006 04:41PM

TheGooner wrote:

I would love it if more non-scary random guys chatted to me in the street/bus/supermarket!

cornbb wrote:

Hmmm, intriguing... but how many women feel this way?

you have to remember that when a woman say "non-scary" they actually mean "Good Looking"....or at very least a silver tounged devil who is confident, charming and generally good with words.

EDIT:

TheGooner wrote:

TBH it doesnt matter what a fella looks like as long as he is sound as, is able to string two words together and likes a good laugh!

sorry but...BS.

Pepe LeFrits · 05-08-2006 04:41PM

TheGooner wrote:

Yes I am a woman!

:eek:

Come on then Lundi, what happened?

LundiMardi · 05-08-2006 04:42PM

TheGooner wrote:

non-scary=not a junkie/not carrying a weapon/not threatening/menacing in anyway

TBH it doesnt matter what a fella looks like as long as he is sound as, is able to string two words together and likes a good laugh!

mmmm, interesting... and which establishments would you normally be found on the average day... a picture would be nice too hahaha

LundiMardi · 05-08-2006 04:43PM

ferdi wrote:

you have to remember that when a woman say "non-scary" they actually mean "Good Looking"....or at very least a silver tounged devil who is confident, charming and generally good with words.

my thoughts exactly.

Huggles · 05-08-2006 04:43PM

ferdi wrote:

you have to remember that when a woman say "non-scary" they actually mean "Good Looking"....or at very least a silver tounged devil who is confident, charming and generally good with words.

LOL ferdi I didnt say what you quoted me as saying!! shame on you!

Huggles · 05-08-2006 04:44PM

ferdi wrote:

you have to remember that when a woman say "non-scary" they actually mean "Good Looking"....or at very least a silver tounged devil who is confident, charming and generally good with words.

EDIT:

sorry but...BS.

No its not bull**** that is how I feel!!! Not all women are shallow that way! :mad:

LundiMardi · 05-08-2006 04:46PM

Pepe LeFrits wrote:

:eek:

Come on then Lundi, what happened?

well.. just incase people have it recorded, or want to catch the repeat...

One of the guys, the 6' 6'' one actually scored a girl on the last night out, he was actually the more nervous out of all of them, he really had a tough time approaching the ladies. But it worked out for him...

The big guy didn't score, but got a couple of phone numbers etc...

The little guy also didn't score, but did get on with the ladies...

Come to think of it, not too much happened, but all the guys had a big boost in confidence by the end...

The two experts were cool though, they weren't by any means brad pitts,, but they actually showed how it's ''done'', and went up to randomers on the street and they had the ladies eating out the palm of their hands hahaha!!!!, bastards!!:)

ferdi · 05-08-2006 04:47PM

its not shallow dear...its just genetics, no need to get defensive

Huggles · 05-08-2006 04:49PM

ferdi wrote:

its not shallow dear...its just genetics, no need to get defensive

I am getting defensive because your claiming that my general outlook in matters of relationships/men is BS...how else am i supposed to react LOL

Ruu_Old · 05-08-2006 04:53PM

TheGooner wrote:

I am getting defensive because your claiming that my general outlook in matters of relationships/men is BS...how else am i supposed to react LOL

What are you doing online anyway? You should be washing that stack of dishes and making my tea by around now.

*runs*

ferdi · 05-08-2006 04:54PM

TheGooner wrote:

I am getting defensive because your claiming that my general outlook in matters of relationships/men is BS...how else am i supposed to react LOL

by letting me take you out for a drink tonight, meet you at half 9 outside hogans?

Huggles · 05-08-2006 04:57PM

Ruu wrote:

What are you doing online anyway? You should be washing that stack of dishes and making my tea by around now. *runs*

LMFAO! ***Biitchslaps Ruu***

Huggles · 05-08-2006 04:58PM

ferdi wrote:

by letting me take you out for a drink tonight, meet you at half 9 outside hogans?

Heheh Sorry Ferdi am in negotiations with another non-scary male

LundiMardi · 05-08-2006 05:00PM

TheGooner wrote:

Heheh Sorry Ferdi am in negotiations with another non-scary male

Me?

Yes, this is quite pathetic, but sure fúck it haha:D

Huggles · 05-08-2006 05:05PM

Of course Lundi, its only ever you

LundiMardi · 05-08-2006 05:09PM

TheGooner wrote:

Of course Lundi, its only ever you

That's right, say my name bítch.....

Oh dear. haha

Huggles · 05-08-2006 05:11PM

LundiMardi wrote:

That's right, say my name bítch..... Oh dear. haha

Hee hee, so I guess you weren't actually paying attention to teh tv show then?

Ruu_Old · 05-08-2006 05:11PM

TheGooner wrote:

LMFAO! ***Biitchslaps Ruu***

Unf! I take it thats a no then?:) "Am wastin away!"

LundiMardi · 05-08-2006 05:12PM

show? what show? haha...

Tha Gopher · 05-08-2006 05:25PM

Lundi- you mention they went on a night out. Id assumed by approach, you just meant plain middle of the day girl is walking down the street and the lad saunters over and attempts to get her into convo. Hell, if its talking to birds on a night out even when stone cold sober (if its early like) then yeah, Id say everyone does it, and there arent too many women who would be afraid if you said something to them in the queue for the ATM in an attempt to start a convo.

However, if you did the same in the daytime, or sat right beside a bird on an otherwise empty bus, Id imagine theyd get freaked.

LundiMardi · 05-08-2006 05:34PM

the last night was a night out, the other times it was just in the street... Daytime, stone cold sober...

neoB · 05-08-2006 05:39PM

I don't mind guys coming to chat me up wherever. I think it's funny, it's unexpected and a decent change from boredom :P.
when I feel like it, and just feel spontaneous hell yes I'll chat up some dude just to pep up my day/evening. I don't mind if he is short uber tall or plain looking. You got personality, you got my attention.

Seduction - Size doesn't matter

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