Would you be unfaithful on your stags/hen night?

easyontheeye · 12-07-2006 11:38PM #1

hi,

just curious what do people think of one more fling on the hens/stag night? if you could get away with it, would you? Have many ppl done it?

DonkeyRhubarb · 12-07-2006 11:46PM

Im sure millions of people around the world have done it, but Ireland is a small place and people talk. Need I say any more?

jor el · 12-07-2006 11:47PM

You watching that Stag/Hen show on Channel 4 now too?

Not married so, no.

easyontheeye · 12-07-2006 11:48PM

jor el wrote:

You watching that Stag/Hen show on Channel 4 now too?

Not married so, no.

yeah I am, kinda makes you think

Royale with Cheese · 12-07-2006 11:50PM

If you're going to cheat on your fiancé just before the wedding then you really shouldn't be getting married.

easyontheeye · 12-07-2006 11:52PM

it seems to be rampant out there, do you believe we are meant to be monomagous?

Nightwish · 12-07-2006 11:54PM

Hen/Stag nights generally piss me off. I intend not to have one, but if I did there is no way I'd ever ever ever be unfaithful.

easyontheeye · 12-07-2006 11:57PM

there seems to be this view that its your last night of freedom... but its viewed as sexual freedom? do you agree with this?

Nightwish · 13-07-2006 12:02AM

I dont see it as a night of "freedom". Freedom from what exactly? I dont want to experience anything and anyone else before I marry my bf. I dont see marriage as being something which binds me.

easyontheeye · 13-07-2006 12:06AM

is it not meant to be your last night as a single person? isnt that what it has become now? to be honest it makes me sick when i hear of ppl misbehaving just before they are to get married.

seamus · 13-07-2006 12:06AM

I think it all depends on the company. If your mates are the type of people who'll say "Go on, it's your last night before you're married, we won't say anything, here's a cheap hooker", then plenty of people are likely to cave to the pressure (of course after the oiling effects of alcohol). And it's not just men. Gangs of horny women can be just as bad. It's an attitude thing - in some circles it's "OK" (hush, hush). In others it's not.

On the other hand, if you're with a big pile of people who know and like/respect your partner, then you're less likely to find yourself getting pushed into doing it.

And then there are plenty of people who don't need to be pushed.

Agent Smith · 13-07-2006 12:09AM

Royale with Cheese wrote:

If you're going to cheat on your fiancé just before the wedding then you really shouldn't be getting married.

what s/he said...

easyontheeye · 13-07-2006 12:10AM

i've known girls who "you would think" are as nice as pie and love their bf's, but once they actually go out they go looking for a shag on a night out.. and also one girl in particular is the type that would set out to pull the stag!

jd · 13-07-2006 12:12AM

easyontheeye wrote:

yeah I am, kinda makes you think

Those kind of hen/stag nights are for crass skanger types, so , no, it didn't make me think..

WhiteWashMan · 13-07-2006 12:12AM

easyontheeye wrote:

hi,

just curious what do people think of one more fling on the hens/stag night? if you could get away with it, would you? Have many ppl done it?

no i didnt, and no i wouldnt.

easyontheeye · 13-07-2006 12:14AM

well its reassuring that most ppl are decent that have responded!

Idgeitman · 13-07-2006 12:34AM

Never, Defeats the purpose of loyalty.

Ruu_Old · 13-07-2006 12:36AM

Im married, I didn't and the thought had never entered my mind.

simu · 13-07-2006 12:39AM

No, what a terrible thing to do!

OSiriS · 13-07-2006 12:42AM

easyontheeye wrote:

it seems to be rampant out there, do you believe we are meant to be monomagous?

Why would someone get married if they didn't intend to be monogamous?

Sir Digby Chicken Caesar · 13-07-2006 12:44AM

tax reasons?

easyontheeye · 13-07-2006 12:48AM

we all get tempting feelings married or not, what I am saying is do you believe we are meant to ignore them ? is monogamy natural? are we going against nature?

Sir Digby Chicken Caesar · 13-07-2006 12:54AM

you realise you're goign against nature whenever you cook your meat, wear clothes and watch television right?

it's kind of our thing..

easyontheeye · 13-07-2006 12:56AM

Mordeth wrote:

you realise you're goign against nature whenever you cook your meat, wear clothes and watch television right?

it's kind of our thing..

but that is more or less accepted in society

Gandhi · 13-07-2006 01:23AM

easyontheeye wrote:

we all get tempting feelings married or not, what I am saying is do you believe we are meant to ignore them ? is monogamy natural? are we going against nature?

Monogamy is as natural as using toothpaste and toilet paper. Though admittedly, your wife would figure out you had quit on the hygiene products rather quickly.

Sparky · 13-07-2006 01:41AM

No way would I. Honestly if I'm going to be marrying the woman I love, I would have the respect for her to be faithfull. Likewise I would be the same even if we were going out together.

Chinafoot · 13-07-2006 01:41AM

easyontheeye wrote:

is it not meant to be your last night as a single person? isnt that what it has become now?

Uhmm...surely if you are going to marry the person you have already made the commitment?

No excuses for cheating...ever.

Chakar · 13-07-2006 01:42AM

Of course not but if you want to cheat there's nothing stopping ya.

Dizzyblabla · 13-07-2006 01:44AM

I was in Spain recently, met a group of lads out at a stag do, the future groom chatted me up openly in front of 3 of his future brothers in law?? I was amazed, and reminded him of his future wedding. He didn't seem a bit bothered and neither did his fiancée's brothers, I was told 'what goes on tour, stays on tour'... needless to say he was turned down, but I just couldn't believe he was doing it!

Karoma · 13-07-2006 01:45AM

Chakar wrote:

Of course not but if you want to cheat there's nothing stopping ya.

Except perhaps having to explain to your spouse why they have a new itch,etc?

An almost worthwhile thread. Thank you. I had often wondered about this as I had the impression that the majority of people see a stag/hen night as an excuse for one last fling.

humbert · 13-07-2006 01:48AM

regarding it as a last night of(sexual or otherwise) freedom is bullshit immature cowardly rubbish, however there are plenty of immature cowards out there and plenty of bullshit rubbish relationships so I think the hen/stag night, or cheating in general, is really only a symptom of the problem...

Would you be unfaithful on your stags/hen night?

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