Where to have sex when living at home

LegacyUser · 23-05-2006 12:12PM #1

Ok, i know there must be people in the same boat as myself. Seeing a girl kinda on off, dont want to get into too much detail on that score but when were out having a few drinks or what have you we inevitably want to have sex (make love whatever) but weve nowhere to go, we both live at home as its impossible to move out (21 y.o. student, shes the same 22 y.o. student) apart from the odd time weve free houses its just not happying. Ive a high sex drive and the older i get the more this annoys me. Does anyone have any ideas, my friends say i should book a hotel but thats pricey and i dont have a credit card.

The ideal night/situation for both of us would be to meet up in town, few drinks maybe some food then head somewhere for a romp for an hour or two then home on the nightlink (we both live on different sides of the city). Any ideas? Looking at maybe a hostel, but dont know if you can like book in for a couple of hours, then again id pay for the night. Also anyone heard of the shagging hotel, heard on Adrian Kenneddy phone show a year ago that there was a rumour that one was being opened here, like an american motel which are great.

Ickle Magoo · 23-05-2006 12:40PM

Have you spoken to your g/f about it? She may have some ideas about where you can both go....and she may have preferences about where you don't go...like a "shagging motel"! :eek::)

Sleipnir · 23-05-2006 12:42PM

Round by the bins at the back of McDonalds, you old honeydripper you.

seamus · 23-05-2006 12:42PM

Bushes, your cars, secluded beaches etc are all great. Bear in mind though that it's technically illegal. Half of the fun of being that young is finding yourself alone in the house for only a hour and scrambling to get the other person to you.

23-05-2006 12:52PM

Sleipnir wrote:

Round by the bins at the back of McDonalds, you old honeydripper you.

Ha Ha this reminds me of a story, one of sister mates was caught in the toilets of a Mc Donalds this paddys day
Definitly rosemantic all the way hehe
I sypathise with you but unless you have a older brother or sister or a mate with a house your fcuked (or in this case not)
but yeah try the usuals, beaches parks indutrial estates etc
If you want ideas for places check out that graden of eden safe sex advertisement they have plenty of ideas but remeber safe sex etc

Travelodge is a decent enough price for the night cost about the same as a night out
60-70 euro, a couple of bottle's of wine and a room for the night once a week theres your problem sorted

अधिनायक · 23-05-2006 12:53PM

Hiace mattress mirror towel ball-gag spliff.

ianmc38 · 23-05-2006 01:28PM

coolsmileygirl wrote:

This reminds me of a story, one of sister mates was caught in the toilets of a Mc Donalds this paddys day

Touch-o-class

ianmc38 · 23-05-2006 01:31PM

dying for it wrote:

Ok, i know there must be people in the same boat as myself. Seeing a girl kinda on off, dont want to get into too much detail on that score but when were out having a few drinks or what have you we inevitably want to have sex (make love whatever) but weve nowhere to go, we both live at home as its impossible to move out (21 y.o. student, shes the same 22 y.o. student) apart from the odd time weve free houses its just not happying. Ive a high sex drive and the older i get the more this annoys me. Does anyone have any ideas, my friends say i should book a hotel but thats pricey and i dont have a credit card.

The ideal night/situation for both of us would be to meet up in town, few drinks maybe some food then head somewhere for a romp for an hour or two then home on the nightlink (we both live on different sides of the city). Any ideas? Looking at maybe a hostel, but dont know if you can like book in for a couple of hours, then again id pay for the night. Also anyone heard of the shagging hotel, heard on Adrian Kenneddy phone show a year ago that there was a rumour that one was being opened here, like an american motel which are great.

Hey Casanova, a good romp at the shagging hotel, followed by the nightlink home sounds like a nice romantic evening for all involved.

If a restaraunt and hotel is a little pricy, then save yourself a few quid. Bring her to McDonalds get a happy meal each, a milkshake (2 straws) and then bring her upstairs to the toilets for a quicky. May as well kill two birds with the one stone and it'll save ya some €€€ too.

23-05-2006 01:44PM

ianmc38 wrote:

Touch-o-class

True true but what can expect from 16 years old they also sneaked all their drink into the toilets and drank it there thats what probably led to the friskyness:)

23-05-2006 01:48PM

also you sound mature and grown up enough to discuss this with your parents
If they are resonable enough they will let you have the house to yourself for the evening a couple of times a month rather than see you in a park/field/ ditch hehe
You'd be surprised, I was anyway if your in a relationship they should understand

EWheelChair · 23-05-2006 01:53PM

Why can't you just take her back to your house after a night out? Let her stay there or get a taxi home in the wee hours. You're 21, your parents would hardly ask questions?

I've been bringing girls back to my house after being out on the piss since i was 17/18.

ianmc38 · 23-05-2006 05:20PM

EWheelChair wrote:

Why can't you just take her back to your house after a night out? Let her stay there or get a taxi home in the wee hours. You're 21, your parents would hardly ask questions?

I've been bringing girls back to my house after being out on the piss since i was 17/18.

Some parents aren't keen on it, mine included unfortunately.

6th · 23-05-2006 05:23PM

Where has she gone with past boyfriends? try ask her.

ando · 23-05-2006 05:58PM

coolsmileygirl wrote:

discuss this with your parents

OH MY GOD !!!!!??!!!!!!

"here ma, do you mind going out with dad tonight, I wana bring the bird back for a good shag"

My mum would never ever do that for me...

Ickle Magoo · 23-05-2006 06:02PM

ando wrote:

OH MY GOD !!!!!??!!!!!!

"here ma, do you mind going out with dad tonight, I wana bring the bird back for a good shag" My mum would never ever do that for me...

Erm, no, but...

"here ma, do you mind going out with dad tonight, I wana bring the bird back for a romantic meal" may be more acceptable?!

ando · 23-05-2006 06:06PM

Ickle Magoo wrote:

"here ma, do you mind going out with dad tonight, I wana bring the bird back for a romantic meal" may be more acceptable?!

ahaa, I have a lot to learn

The_B_Man · 23-05-2006 06:12PM

my god, im in the exact same situation. this has been on me mind the last while. im totally finished college now and gonna be in need of some privacy over the summer and beyond, until i get me own place. might ring that fella off the telly to "get me outta here". my parents would make my gf sleep in the spare room so they're not good for discussin it either.

OP, what i'm gonna do is just wait til theyre asleep and do the dirty then. One night stands are more difficult coz u have to sneak her out the next mornin without the parents seein her.

i dont liek the idea of sex motels either coz how often are the sheets changed? u could probably be shaggin in someone else juices! bleurgh!

Ruu_Old · 23-05-2006 06:40PM

Maybe book a meal for your mam and dad, while they are away bring her on over and have your fun. You dont have to rush her off or anything, watch a film or something and your parents will come back and you can introduce her.
"x came over and wanted to watch a film, hope it was ok"

LegacyUser · 23-05-2006 06:51PM

coolsmileygirl wrote:

True true but what can expect from 16 years old they also sneaked all their drink into the toilets and drank it there thats what probably led to the friskyness:)

Scumbags. Jesus Christ. That's just filth.

OP, i recommend you get a credit card and book a hotel room! Otherwise it's going to be wrecking ur head. U could both just split it...and it's cheaper than going for a meal!

Going Demented · 23-05-2006 07:03PM

My parents are the same, no way in hell was my boyfriend allowed in my room. He used have to sleep on the couch. So just waited till everyone was gone to bed and did it there. Same scenario when i stayed in his house. Only got caught once, and told to keep it down by his parents twice. Just wait till everyone is gone to bed and pray to God no one gets up for water! And the car of course. Other than that i dunno apart from forking out for a hotel room, which is gonna add up

Zebra3 · 23-05-2006 08:05PM

Going Demented wrote:

My parents are the same, no way in hell was my boyfriend allowed in my room. He used have to sleep on the couch. So just waited till everyone was gone to bed and did it there. Same scenario when i stayed in his house. Only got caught once, and told to keep it down by his parents twice. Just wait till everyone is gone to bed and pray to God no one gets up for water! And the car of course. Other than that i dunno apart from forking out for a hotel room, which is gonna add up

Yeah, used to that with a bird I went out with when I lived at home. She'd stay in our house and me being the gentleman would give up my room and sleep on the couch. Get back from clubbing at 3.30am when everyone (fingers crossed) would be asleep and nail her in the front room before sending her off to bed. (Put the duvet on the floor and do it there, the couch can be very noisy in the middle of the night).

The great thing about this is that there is nothing strange about her being in your room. That's her room for the night/weekend. So be the gentleman and check the next morning that she's ok. If you're quiet/quick enough, you can have round 2. Even better if your folks are gone to do Saturday morning shopping or Sunday morning mass!!!!

Enjoy, cos as someone else posted, it's half the fun of being young. Simply dying for the next piece of action.

*Starts to feel old*

Going Demented · 23-05-2006 09:51PM

You're right. It was half the fun. When we moved in together and had all the privacy in the world we just weren't bothered.

The good old days.

To the OP: hope you find sort of solution.

Selik · 24-05-2006 12:15AM

When I was living at home (back in the day!) I used to just take my girlfriend to my room (if my bro was away, I shared it with him :eek: ). That or downstairs on the sofa or on a duvet on the floor. Never got totally busted although there was a few close calls. Funnily enough my Mum must've known but she never said anything really and neither did I! Car's also good if you have one and you know some good parking spots.

Ya gotta do what ya gotta do bro!

elivsvonchiaing · 24-05-2006 12:27AM

If she's up for it - take her home after your folks are in bed. Put the kettle on make two cups of tea (looks good

) - pour out a bowl of peanuts/whatever.

Both keep your clothes on - if they walk in on you shagging - No - embarassment; Just "Jesus I think she's alergic to.../she choking on... quick call an ambulance!"

Manolo Blahnik · 24-05-2006 12:28AM

Find a field somewhere
Bus station Unisex Bathroom
Or just go round one of yere back gardens at night who's gonna see

ThankGod I never had that problem

LegacyUser · 24-05-2006 01:23AM

whats the stupid big deal with kids from dublin suburbs not moving out of their parents house as soon as they get their first job? in all fairness. grow up. just rent a house/flat like a normal person and get on with things. i'm lucky enough not to bump into these kinds of people very often, i guess most of my friends have moved to dublin from elsewhere or are smart enough to realise that if u havent moved out of your parents gaff by the time you're 24 you're missing out on a lot in life - this issue in particular.

other than that, my parents never had a problem with my boyfriends staying over once i was 18, and a few times before that. at first it was a bit expected he'd sleep in the spare room, but that was mostly just me thinking it, after a few months that got old, and he'd just stay in my room with me. if its something u dont want to discuss with them, u can always just be like "oh yeah, we're watching a film in my room" wait til they're gone to bed, fool around, fall asleep/whatever, then they get up go to work, no one knows where anyone was. depends on your house set up i guess. but i'd say most parents would be just as embarrased to bring up the subject of where u both slept last night, so everones likely to just shut up and pretend they dont know.

but i just think it stupid that people go on for so long not moving out of their parents house, cause i dunno, they think they're too good for rented accomodation or its too much of a risk something. cop on.

renting houses is deadly: u get to move around every year or so. you're not stuck with some long term commitment/mortgage. you learn stuff about the real world and paying bills and so on. you meet new people and/or get to live with your friends, and learn stuff about living with people and being independant. and.. YOU GET TO HAVE SEX AND SPEND THE NIGHT WITH YOUR PARTNER. regular like. thus you learn more and get way more mature about adult relationships, and so are more likely to be a well balanced individual.

end rant.. sorry.

Beruthiel · 24-05-2006 08:57AM

dying for it wrote:

but weve nowhere to go, we both live at home as its impossible to move out (21 y.o. student, shes the same 22 y.o. student).

have you asked your parents if it's ok for her to stay over?

Sam Vimes · 24-05-2006 10:23AM

grownups wrote:

whats the stupid big deal with kids from dublin suburbs not moving out of their parents house as soon as they get their first job? in all fairness. grow up. just rent a house/flat like a normal person and get on with things.

tell you what, i'll move out if you pay the 70000000000 euro a month it costs to rent a place in dublin. and unlike in the sticks, our colleges are within a short commute so moving out is an unnecessary expense.

to the OP, the best way is when the parents are either downstairs or in bed. it adds to the excitement when you know you can get caught

my dad was once had the living room door half open and i had to close it in his face so he didn't see my girlfriend naked

Talliesin · 24-05-2006 10:49AM

Just ask your parents if you can have your gf stay over.

Leave the issue of where she'll be sleeping unspoken unless they actually ask you "which one of you is taking the sofa?".

Your parents may be already aware of the fact that many 22 and 21 year olds have sex.

Unless they're very green, or think you're very green, they probably assume you do anyway.

azezil · 24-05-2006 12:10PM

Talliesin wrote:

Just ask your parents if you can have your gf stay over.

Leave the issue of where she'll be sleeping unspoken unless they actually ask you "which one of you is taking the sofa?".

Your parents may be already aware of the fact that many 22 and 21 year olds have sex.

Unless they're very green, or think you're very green, they probably assume you do anyway.

Yeah I say just bring her over, parents never like it but get over it.

I know what worked with my family was to first tell them I'm seeing someone, introduce them... then after a few visits, I'm sure they'll have no problem with her staying over.

24-05-2006 12:11PM

Same here, though its usually not an issue for me since I live in the middle of nowhere and anyone coming to visit is a big deal, plus he has a house
In any case, bring her over a few times, let the family get used, then at some point they'll be ok with her staying in your room

Where to have sex when living at home

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