Girls please...be honest!

Blackpitts · 29-08-2005 03:56PM #1

hey girls,
if I go throu your posts, I see that you fall in love only with funny-sweet-masculine-sincere-quite good looking-self confident guy....but if I see what happens around in some clubs or pubs I see that you fall in love only with macho-nasty-really good looking-direspectful boys...
My flatmate is sleeping with many girls, he is always bastard, not sincere and he likes to shag someone today and forget her the day after, but they carry on calling him...
I tell you a story..he was at home and I girl called him to go to a club, he told her he was tired but she could come over after the club for shagging...
At 4 o'clock of the night the bell rang, she was there to sleep with him...

Q1: where is the truth?
Q2: what do you really like?
Q3: Do you really hate if someone get close to you asking your name and offering something to drink?
Q4: do you really like a boy who doensn't look for a girl?

Be honest pls

Beruthiel · 29-08-2005 04:00PM

this isn't a PI
read the charter blackpitts
B

Son_of_Belial · 29-08-2005 04:19PM

M'eh, more power to him Blackpitts. He'll learn sooner or later. As for your one coming over to sleep with him after the club... Doesn't seem like she has much respect for herself. Honestly Blackpitts, I don't quite get what your gripe is. Envy perhaps? Hey, I've been having a drought now for the last 3-4 months. Girls like guys who:

1. Make them laugh.
2. Are sincere.
3. Self-confident.
4. Reasonably attractive and well-groomed.
5. Sensitive.
6. Independent.

Get four or more of these and you've hit pay-dirt. Honestly though Blackpitts, I'm not sure how women are from where you come from (it's obvious you aren't Irish) but Irish women at least are easy enough to figure out. They're also easily scared off. It really depends on your personality. What makes one girl fall about the place laughing mightn't be very amusing for another girl. It's all about tastes. Really attractive girls also tend to intimidate some men who might be a teenie bit less confident/arrogant as some of the other lads around, I know the really fit ones can put me on edge and I go into silent/moody mode. Ah I dunno, I refer this one to the girls.

chern0byl · 29-08-2005 04:36PM

Blackpitts wrote:

They dont like you obviously. Why dont you ask the next girl that your flatmate brings home? She's probably drunk. Might give you a straight answer. Might even see how special you are and leave mr.super ride for you.

Go on. Give her a go!

Vokes · 29-08-2005 04:44PM

Blackpitts wrote:

hey girls,
if I go throu your posts, I see that you fall in love only with funny-sweet-masculine-sincere-quite good looking-self confident guy....but if I see what happens around in some clubs or pubs I see that you fall in love only with macho-nasty-really good looking-direspectful boys...
My flatmate is sleeping with many girls, he is always bastard, not sincere and he likes to shag someone today and forget her the day after, but they carry on calling him...
I tell you a story..he was at home and I girl called him to go to a club, he told her he was tired but she could come over after the club for shagging...
At 4 o'clock of the night the bell rang, she was there to sleep with him...
Q1: where is the truth?
Q2: what do you really like?
Q3: Do you really hate if someone get close to you asking your name and offering something to drink?
Q4: do you really like a boy who doensn't look for a girl?

Be honest pls

Sounds like you're jealous of your flatmate, tbh :rolleyes:

Blackpitts · 29-08-2005 04:50PM

Son_of_Belial wrote:

M'eh, more power to him Blackpitts. He'll learn sooner or later. As for your one coming over to sleep with him after the club... Doesn't seem like she has much respect for herself. Honestly Blackpitts, I don't quite get what your gripe is. Envy perhaps? Hey, I've been having a drought now for the last 3-4 months. Girls like guys who:

1. Make them laugh.
2. Are sincere.
3. Self-confident.
4. Reasonably attractive and well-groomed.
5. Sensitive.
6. Independent.

Get four or more of these and you've hit pay-dirt. Honestly though Blackpitts, I'm not sure how women are from where you come from (it's obvious you aren't Irish) but Irish women at least are easy enough to figure out. They're also easily scared off. It really depends on your personality. What makes one girl fall about the place laughing mightn't be very amusing for another girl. It's all about tastes. Really attractive girls also tend to intimidate some men who might be a teenie bit less confident/arrogant as some of the other lads around, I know the really fit ones can put me on edge and I go into silent/moody mode. Ah I dunno, I refer this one to the girls.

of course I'm not Irish (my english sucks) BTW i don't understand why people think that this is something personal..I want just to point out how the girls are ready to swear something and act in the opposite way.
It's not "they don't like you" or "try to be yourself", it's just a: "hey girl, please try to explain that pls".

pretty*monster · 29-08-2005 04:51PM

Radical notion:
Women are not all the same, different women want (gasp) different things!
You're questionaire is useless.

Nightwish · 29-08-2005 04:52PM

Q1: where is the truth?

the truth is some girls are complete saps with no self respect ie the girls your flatmate attracts. do you really want a girl like that?

Q2: what do you really like?

every girl is different, but personality and similar interests are of the utmost importance to me

Q3: Do you really hate if someone get close to you asking your name and offering something to drink?

me? yeah i dont like talking to guys in bars as they usually come across quite insincere and leery cos they are usually half tore

Q4: do you really like a boy who doensn't look for a girl?

no,but girls dont like a guy who's trying it on with every girl around him

Le Rack · 29-08-2005 05:20PM

Son_of_Belial wrote:

Girls like guys who:

1. Make them laugh.
2. Are sincere.
3. Self-confident.
4. Reasonably attractive and well-groomed.
5. Sensitive.
6. Independent.

you have to smell good too but that kinda comes under 4...
Dude you hit the nail on the head!
Well sensitivity wouldn't bother me too much but as long as its someone you can trust to talk to about things then yeah!

honru · 29-08-2005 05:30PM

Perhaps instead of having a grudge against your flatmate, you should go out and find some women.

pickarooney · 29-08-2005 05:33PM

does 'sensitive' mean 'falls to bits at Meg Ryan movies' or 'understands your wacky wacky ways'?

Jonny Arson · 29-08-2005 05:49PM

Blackpitts wrote:

hey girls,
if I go throu your posts, I see that you fall in love only with funny-sweet-masculine-sincere-quite good looking-self confident guy....but if I see what happens around in some clubs or pubs I see that you fall in love only with macho-nasty-really good looking-direspectful boys...

Very true.....................

Sarky · 29-08-2005 06:02PM

At the end of the day, when you really get right down to it, all girls want a good cuppa.

Lord knows I do.

And maybe some biscuits. Digestives, Hobnobs, or custard creams for preference.

Puck · 29-08-2005 06:11PM

Your flatmate and the girls he sleeps with seem to have pretty low standards, and I'm not talking about looks. That's about it really. The really good things in life don't come so easy. You can't just "figure out" women, there are lots of them and they're all different.

simu · 29-08-2005 06:17PM

Well, people act odd when they first start having sex. Like badgers full of helium, full of confusion. Then they calm down when they are older and wiser.

See what this thread has done to me?

Tiffany · 29-08-2005 08:22PM

Blackpitts wrote:

Q1: where is the truth?
Q2: what do you really like?
Q3: Do you really hate if someone get close to you asking your name and offering something to drink?
Q4: do you really like a boy who doensn't look for a girl?

I like custard.

bp · 29-08-2005 08:59PM

i'm female....the bad boy b*stard image does it for a lot of girls...the treat them keep them keen thing unfortunately works a lot of time! personally I dont go for that kind.....if a guy did that to me i wouldnt call or txt....after a date i would txt if i got no answer then that would be the end of it, but thats me!!

i go for the nice kind!

Sparky · 29-08-2005 09:18PM

its probably because the girls on here are cool and respectfull and not slappers tbh

Shellie13 · 29-08-2005 10:10PM

Relationship-wise 90% of women will go for the sweet guy but sometimes the rebel/bad-boy image is attractive while out in a club. Not the type of guy we envision a relationship with anyway!

However the girls who he takes home every night sound like slags-would you really want someone like that?! If the answer is yes i say learn a few tips from your flatmate and prepare to spin a few yarns and splash out on the drink.

Your flat-mate is happy with the a**hole image of different girls each night, but if you want something more a genuine girl *will* eventually come along though it may take longer as relationships take more time than 1 night stands!

StupidLikeAFox · 29-08-2005 10:22PM

Hey guess what, girls like sex!

This sounds like all you've learned about women are from romantic comedies, pull yourself together and have a little fun!

Le Rack · 30-08-2005 12:12AM

Sparky_S wrote:

its probably because the girls on here are cool and respectfull and not slappers tbh

yeah slappers can't use computers! Or so I've seen!

Scraggs · 30-08-2005 12:56AM

Q1: where is the truth?

You cant handle the truth....

unfortunately some girls out there just have no self respect or self worth!

Q2: what do you really like?

Sense of humour is the most important thing for me then in no particular order similar interests, well-groomed and sociable! o and impeccable manners!

Q3: Do you really hate if someone get close to you asking your name and offering something to drink?

Depends on how drunk they are... usually [for me anyway] its drunk letchy old men tryin to score who do this! Depends on th lad and the situation tbh

Q4: do you really like a boy who doensn't look for a girl?

Once again it depends on the lad. Personally I dont like lads who try it on with every female creature in the place, but then again everyone is different some girls like players.

Deadwing · 30-08-2005 01:08AM

Le Rack wrote:

you have to smell good too but that kinda comes under 4...
Dude you hit the nail on the head!
Well sensitivity wouldn't bother me too much but as long as its someone you can trust to talk to about things then yeah!

hey le rack, im feeling er..really sensitive about umm...your rack.
/sprays some lynx about the place
so tell me about like..your feelings and stuff

/eyes the rack
now THATS some sincere, sensitive and caring chatting up right there

Nedrac · 30-08-2005 05:01AM

Poor sxualie deprived blackpitts.......

GrumPy · 30-08-2005 05:14AM

You can tell that ^^^ was written at 5 in the morning without knowing the time

Collumbo · 30-08-2005 09:53AM

A few people here are suggesting that Blackpitts is jealous. I reckon that's bu11sh 1 t. I was in a similar situation about 7 or 8 years ago... I had nothing to be jealous about but a bloke I lived with scored/(bedded in some cases) about 20 birds in 4 months. They called him various things from "ba$tard" to *******, yet, they still wanted a bit of action.... Wierdo women.

Anyway, I met one of those girls recently (we are all in our thirties now). It's odd, but I think she had a bit of a complex being around me because I knew her history from those 4 months... funny how freelance shagging eventually has diabolical repercussions. She is single and is about as appealing as gone-off milk....

Dave! · 30-08-2005 10:30AM

There's nothing wrong with what your flatmate does... He's young (presumably) and getting the most out of it. Live a little! There'll be time for all that relationship stuff when you're older, you won't be able to f*ck around then though(unless you're suptle;))

Blackpitts · 30-08-2005 10:53AM

Collumbo wrote:

A few people here are suggesting that Blackpitts is jealous. I reckon that's bu11sh 1 t. I was in a similar situation about 7 or 8 years ago... I had nothing to be jealous about but a bloke I lived with scored/(bedded in some cases) about 20 birds in 4 months. They called him various things from "ba$tard" to *******, yet, they still wanted a bit of action.... Wierdo women.

Thank you Collumbo, I've already said that there is nothing personal (it could be if I wrote "why I don't shag many girls as he does?"), but for someone here I'm frustrated, ugly and envious, but I don't mind.
Basically I wonder why some girls are telling to the entire world that they are looking for the sweetest guy but they shag the bastards..that's it.

ShiverinEskimo · 30-08-2005 11:24AM

The man has a point - magazines, boards.ie, romantic comedies all have girls going for the underdog who is sweet and wants to love them yet all the girls I know, even close friends of mine get hurt constantly because they go for the players of this world.

Saying that, at the end of the day, the first thing you have about any person you meet is looks - so thats going to be the first attraction. You'd probably find that if people get together after knowing each other for quite a while it will last longer because they have something else to go on than looks.

As for this pink tee-shirt, diamonique-earring-wearing, collars-turned-up brigade - thems the guys that gets the girls on a night out, despite all this girl-talk of good personality first ****e - but thems the girls I have no real interest in other than drunken admiration.

After 3 years in a relationship where I know its my personality thats appreciated most (i'm not what you'd call a good looker) I feel i'm in a position to laugh at all those pink tee-shirt wearing muppets competing for the shortest skirt..

I guess my point is, let your flatmate shag his way around the place - eventually he'll see all his mates married around him and every girl he calls will either hate his guts, be obsessed with the next dickhead or be pregnant..

LegacyUser · 30-08-2005 01:31PM

get yourself a flashy car!

LadyJ · 30-08-2005 04:38PM

Son_of_Belial wrote:

As for your one coming over to sleep with him after the club... Doesn't seem like she has much respect for herself.

Bollox.

Did the girl ask for a relationship? Eh....NO! She asked him out clubbing which probably meant she wanted to get drunk and **** him! In fact,considering she dropped by at 4am then that was definitely it!

Women have needs just like men do. If men want to sleep with someone without persuing a relationship then most people accept this but when women want a good time they have no self-respect.

By letting her in just for sex at 4am then she's using him just as much as he's using her!

Girls please...be honest!

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