I mean come on!?

deisedevil · 28-08-2005 11:40AM

Sue* wrote:

Granted im not covering all blokes by saying this, but there is so many girls that will say exactly the same thing as you. They have been hurt before and then they go out and start slutting around, to be honast it wont make you feel anybetter in the long run.

To be honast you cant say all us girls are like that, and us girls cant say the same about all lads. Life can be a bit*h sometimes.

You ve said yourself, your not ready for a relationship, fair enough, but it kinda strikes me that your saying that because you were hurt before and your trying to prevent yourself getting hurt again...however i may have this totally wrong ?

Damn right, not much point bein in a relationship if ya don't enjoy it, i'm really enjoying myself now!!!!

Sue* · 28-08-2005 03:30PM

deisedevil wrote:

Damn right, not much point bein in a relationship if ya don't enjoy it, i'm really enjoying myself now!!!!

Well then, thats all that matters... but remember dont treat all girls like there all going to do the dirt on you...some of us have some pride.

lazylad · 29-08-2005 12:19AM

R0ot wrote:

Ok is it just girls i meet or does the majority of the female population of ireland prefer to be treated like dirt by scum that go after drunk girls for the one purpose of getting off with them, or they stay with some guys that say s*** like "I'd kill myself if i ever lost you". Im sure we all know a few people like this, i could name at least 3 people localy, that would be in the running for the biggest scum bag in ireland, and they get all these girls swarming around them.

So girls do you like getting treated badly or what, because im just confused at this point.

I have to agree with this statement. But it all goes back to Treat them mean keep em keen. For some reason, a lot of girls seem to "compete" for the popular cool actin guys. Its a load of b@@ucks really for simple reason its just like a front being put up .i.e its more image than relationship, love etc. I myself agree with deisedevil on this one, he was dead on. Women can be cruel and if you treat them well and let them "know" either subconsciously or what you are attracted to them they can and some can, make sh)t of you. It does happen. Girls accept it, you might let butter melt in your mouth :rolleyes: but some girls are like that!

I myself have had an experience where I have told them I loved them all the rest and they just told me straight out they preferred som1 else! They dumped me for a more popular, what you could call scumbag type lad! But that lad done the dirt on them last time i was talking to my ex. Figures! :rolleyes:

I am staying single for the moment. I also seem to find that its generally girls who follow the crowd and are insecure that tend to seek the popular type ladz. Those type of girls lack what I call character or individuality, so lads , you are better off without them! Its like buying a cheap factory made cake when you could buy a rich, time consumed, moist home made cake instead. One if full of artificial, fake all front cr*p while the other is natural, you get what you see(plus beautiful). Dont come back with a post insulting my description, I think its creative, and quite accurate.

To be honest ladz, dont praise women until you KNOW they are for YOU! I have to say, there's no1 like your compatible partner, and theyre out there you just gotta wait and live.

lazylad · 29-08-2005 12:22AM

Sue* wrote:

Well then, thats all that matters... but remember dont treat all girls like there all going to do the dirt on you...some of us have some pride.

Well,
None of us are perfect. Fellas do dirt too, in fact fellas CAN be worse, but women seem to make it less obvious they are dumping you or doing the dirt, ie.well i like you a lot, but not in that way, we can be friends. Where's fellas just make it damn obvious they dont like you. ie they just ignore you or dont text you or get angry with you and tell you to f*ck off. At least in that case you know where you stand if you are any good at picking up signals! Nothing as bad as a girl who doesnt just come out with it and talks about it behind your back! :rolleyes: :cool:

Debracd · 29-08-2005 12:55AM

Just a comment on the 1st post

Ok is it just girls i meet or does the majority of the female population of ireland prefer to be treated like dirt by scum that go after drunk girls for the one purpose of getting off with them,

How do ya know that the girls that are going for these blokes don't just want to get into the lads pants so to speak??? It's easier to look like a victim of a predatorial male than a slapper

No offence to slappers.. go for it!! LOL

Sue* · 29-08-2005 12:57AM

lazylad wrote:

Well,
None of us are perfect. Fellas do dirt too, in fact fellas CAN be worse, but women seem to make it less obvious they are dumping you or doing the dirt, ie.well i like you a lot, but not in that way, we can be friends. Where's fellas just make it damn obvious they dont like you. ie they just ignore you or dont text you or get angry with you and tell you to f*ck off. At least in that case you know where you stand if you are any good at picking up signals! Nothing as bad as a girl who doesnt just come out with it and talks about it behind your back! :rolleyes: :cool:

you might be more direct, but it hurts a hell of a lot more !

Debracd · 29-08-2005 01:03AM

Yeah we women do try to be more sensitive about these things.. though it does us no favours. I was dumped one time(yeah only once!).. of course.. I was distraught.. and when I did the whole blubbering 'but whyyyyy???' thing.. he answered.. well.. you ring all the time and you're doing me bloody head in.. I have a life ya know! Well first I was shocked.. then angry.. then though .. balls he's right

Didn't make that mistake again though

Hugh Hefner · 29-08-2005 01:36AM

Can I ask a favour of all you girls? It's a simple thing but it's worth a lot. If you're breaking up with a guy, don't try and spare his feelings (he's a big boy, he can handle a little rejection) be completly honest. If you're breaking up with him cos' you just don't like him anymore please say that. Don't say that you're different now, or you're not ready for a relationship or something. Girls are really bad liars when it comes to this so just tell them the truth. We'd rather know. It's incredibly annoying when a girl won't be honest with you. In all honesty, I'd rather hear from a girl that she liked someone else more or didn't like me anymore than hear some cover-up. However, no need to be mean about it.

Debracd · 29-08-2005 01:44AM

If I ever decide to divorce my husband I'll be up front and tell him up front

Hugh Hefner · 29-08-2005 04:41AM

Thanks so much.

Alpha505 · 29-08-2005 11:13AM

Girls go for the scumbags and bastards (one once told me "that means he's better in bed") ........ but women go for nice guys with a bit of a cheekyness and confidence about them.

Le Rack · 29-08-2005 11:52AM

I got bored reading by page two so I'm just gonna put my bit in.

Girls don't always go for the looks and the cash and all the rest, trust me! I was with a guy for a few months who was DOG ugly, his teeth were so un-brushed they were furry! :eek: He smelled so bad it would turn your milk, and his eyes were really scary cuz of all the drugs he did, but I stayed with him cuz I knew how much he really liked and cared for me and was a really great guy to me. I remember one day a girl said to me "Your not seriously with Geff are you?" I just kinda looked at her and said yeah and then she went on a rant something like this "Yeah I heard that the other day and I said it to him. I said, what is a girl like her, doing with the likes of *you*!" but all I could say was that he was a great guy and treated me well. Also he was far from having money.

As for scumbags being better in bed, nope, I have a tried and tested theory that nerds are better all round!

I mean come on!?

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