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American Southern Girl Seeks Guidance

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 19,772 ✭✭✭✭The Corinthian


    MizzKattt wrote:
    My brother smokes and will be with me. Is smoking banned in outdoor public places as well? Parks, sidewalks, etc.?
    Smoking is prohibited in indoor public places of work, such as restaurants, bars/pubs and cafes. There are numerous heated ‘beer gardens’ around that circumvent this rule and smoking in your hotel room is permitted (subject to hotel policy).
    So the list so far goes...no paying in dollars, no political or religious discussions, no Irish heritage lectures, no walking with beer, and no smoking in public buildings. It is ok to hold doors, use ma'am or sir, give servers tips, stay in a room with three guys, and be proud of my southern twang.
    As you should be, it’s an endearing accent. I doubt if anyone would be offended by your use of American English, as long as you remember that it sometimes differs to European English. Your Fall is our Autumn, your definition of fanny and ours are radically different and where you would use ma’am, we use madam (strictly speaking, the use of the term ma’am is only for the British queen).

    On the topic of religion and politics, I don’t know whether you should avoid those topics as be aware that they are seen differently in Europe (I use the term Europe as attitudes in Ireland would tend to reflect broader European attitudes, regardless of the fact that English is the primary language). Religion is not as important here and you’ll find a far greater level of cynicism and agnosticism here than in the US. Politics, as I alluded to earlier, is probably best avoided on balance as your current president and foreign policy are about as popular as the Black Death this side of the Atlantic. You’ll probably get someone picking an argument with you at some stage or passing a remark as a result – unless you’re attractive, in which case we’ll all just try to sleep with you.

    Other than that other differences that will probably strike you are that we drink a lot, have bad teeth and are thinner than the average American.

    Actually, if you’re in Europe for any length of time, you may also consider buying a mobile phone. You can get one with call credit for less than €100 and as it’s GSM based can work in any European state (although you may have to offer a deposit for this).

    Anyhow, HTH.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,522 ✭✭✭Dr. Loon


    Trojan wrote:
    Dr Loon, my message was meant for seamus, as I said. Please bear in mind that moderaters are inphallible.

    Ha ha.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 132 ✭✭MizzKattt


    You may find it strange at first the way so many people will refer to you as 'love', 'darlin', 'pet' (or maybe not, it might be similar in Sayoth Cayolahna). just remember that it's not necessarily a term of endearment. People will call you 'darlin' while stabbing you, ripping you off or selling you rotten vegetables.

    Its not exactly a term of endearment here either. When a person calls you by an intimate pet name (i.e. love, darlin, pet, sugar, baby) that is a stranger to you (other than sweet older ladies), it is generally an insult especially if said by a man.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 68,173 ✭✭✭✭seamus


    MizzKattt wrote:
    Its not exactly a term of endearment here either. When a person calls you by an intimate pet name (i.e. love, darlin, pet, sugar, baby) that is a stranger to you (other than sweet older ladies), it is generally an insult especially if said by a man.
    In general, if someone calls you "love" or "darlin", they're not meaning to be rude. If they call you anything else, they're being sleazy. :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,765 ✭✭✭daymobrew


    Also, are there jaywalking laws?
    We have many, many laws here. Many are not enforced, for example jaywalking. I asked a Garda and he confirmed that there are decent fines for jaywalking. I saw a jaywalker run into a Garda on traffic duty and was not detained!! A pet peeve of mine.

    Earlier I mentioned getting to Glendalough. The visitor in the office took RailTours. They got a train from Pearse St south to Arklow station where they transferred to bus to Glendalough. He enjoyed it. 39 euro for a group of you is steep, hiring a car is probably much cheaper.
    Blub2k4 wrote:
    Personally I would advise against the Ma'am and sir stuff, it is OTT and American.
    Politeness is cool but that is too American.
    I'd disagree with this too. I think a little "Y'all" is quite amusing/endearing. When I went to Texas (I know, it's not SC) it was amusing being asked the airport security questions with "you" replaced with "y'all": "Y'all pack these bags ya'selves?"
    Politnesss is always appreciated. I always get a kick out of being addressed as "sir".


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,207 ✭✭✭meditraitor


    This is turning into a what no to do in eire thread,,

    I reckon if you find a nice place to stay, dump your bags and head for the nearest pub,, thats were 90% of the population spend their spare time,,,
    Pubs clubs and chippers

    Not much culture left in ireland nowadays, we are either working or getting off our heads,


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 132 ✭✭MizzKattt


    This is turning into a what no to do in eire thread,,
    QUOTE]

    And I appreciate it. Truly.

    "getting our heads off?" huh?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 132 ✭✭MizzKattt


    [QUOTE=...as your current president and foreign policy are about as popular as the Black Death this side of the Atlantic. [/QUOTE]

    He's not fairing too well here either at the moment.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,522 ✭✭✭Dr. Loon


    MizzKattt wrote:

    "getting our heads off?" huh?

    Getting drunk... and he's exaggerating somewhat. Although someone above said, you'll probably notice we drink alot more than you do.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 68,173 ✭✭✭✭seamus


    MizzKattt wrote:
    "getting our heads off?" huh?
    "Getting off our heads" is an Irish saying for anything to do with drugs or alcohol.

    You say "I was off my head" when you were fairly well drunk. :)


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 477 ✭✭Jonathanpbk


    and darn proud of it!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,207 ✭✭✭meditraitor


    Most commonly involves lots of alcohol, but can be adapted for the use of weed, speed, cocaine, etc etc

    wasted
    loaded
    bongo's
    etc

    Enjoy

    Have to say its a great country for having the craic, but as i said PUBs and CLUBs is were you will find it.. the southern accent will help


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,423 ✭✭✭✭Trojan


    I particularly like the plural ("y'all is singular!), "All y'all" :)

    OT: I've been in TX, LA, GA, KY, TN, AL, FL, MS and MO, but not SC... you guys got anything good going one over there for me to have a look at? Hope it's not another one of those blasted "dry" states...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,207 ✭✭✭meditraitor


    Dr. Loon wrote:
    MizzKattt wrote:

    Getting drunk... and he's exaggerating somewhat. Although someone above said, you'll probably notice we drink alot more than you do.

    Get out more loon

    I didnt me it in a derogatory sense but ya'll will see for yoursmelf


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,522 ✭✭✭Dr. Loon


    Dr. Loon wrote:

    Get out more loon

    I didnt me it in a derogatory sense but ya'll will see for yoursmelf

    What are you on about? Get out more? Fúck off.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,733 ✭✭✭Blub2k4


    daymobrew wrote:
    I'd disagree with this too. I think a little "Y'all" is quite amusing/endearing. When I went to Texas (I know, it's not SC) it was amusing being asked the airport security questions with "you" replaced with "y'all": "Y'all pack these bags ya'selves?"
    Politnesss is always appreciated. I always get a kick out of being addressed as "sir".

    Maybe it's just me who think they sound like twats when they say it then :rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,207 ✭✭✭meditraitor


    Dr. Loon wrote:

    What are you on about? Get out more? Fúck off.

    Now, now, darling


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 132 ✭✭MizzKattt


    Trojan wrote:
    I particularly like the plural ("y'all is singular!), "All y'all" :)

    OT: I've been in TX, LA, GA, KY, TN, AL, FL, MS and MO, but not SC... you guys got anything good going one over there for me to have a look at? Hope it's not another one of those blasted "dry" states...

    I've lived in many places in the US and abroad. South Carolina (or South Kakulaki as it is more affetionately known) is by far my favorite. Charleston, SC has been voted the Most Friendly City in America many years in a row. It is very historic here and lots to do. Plantations, a battle ship to tour, beaches, marsh tours, deep sea fishing, etc.

    Also, there are several universities and a very large college population. For the gentlemen reading, College of Charleston boasts a 6 girls to 1 guy ratio. For the ladies, there is an all male college just miles down the road.

    And it is definitely not a dry state. There is absolutely no way in the world one may take away a southerner's right to bare arms or bare beer. Yet, we southerners enjoy our religion. South Carolina is also known as part of the Bible Belt. You may not purchase alcohol on Sunday either in a grocery store, restaurant, or a bar. Not even in the one genuine Irish pub here.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 80 ✭✭skkatter


    Drinking in pubs in Ireland, espically Dublin, is very expensive. Prepare to spend an average of 4.50 Euro for a pint of beer. Guinness is usually a bit cheaper.

    Nobody usually tips the barman/barwoman in pubs. If you're sitting down and a waiter comes over and you order drink off him then you'd usually give them a small tip.

    Don't bother tipping taxi drivers either. Nobody usually does.

    Pubs in Ireland normally stop serving at 11:30pm/12am at night. Nightclubs normally go on until 3am.

    Some guy I know once asked me what nightclubs I go to in Dublin so I wrote him this biased little guide.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,207 ✭✭✭meditraitor


    MizzKattt wrote:
    You may not purchase alcohol on Sunday either in a grocery store, restaurant, or a bar. Not even in the one genuine Irish pub here.

    Thats ****ed up, does that mean u have to go to mass sober? The only days of the year alcohol cannot be purchased in ireland (good friday, chris day) have turned into drunken parties


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 132 ✭✭MizzKattt


    Thats ****ed up, does that mean u have to go to mass sober? The only days of the year alcohol cannot be purchased in ireland (good friday, chris day) have turned into drunken parties

    Thats the crazy part. If a store, restaurant, and/or bar are open on Christmas (which for the most part are not) and Christmas does not fall on a Sunday, then you may purchase alcohol.

    Most churches here are not Catholic. Most are Baptists. There are only two well known Catholic churches here in Charleston.


  • Posts: 12,761 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Cant resist: Can you do the charleston?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,207 ✭✭✭meditraitor


    ah, religion doesnt play much of a part in the lives of most irish people now we have a few sheckles in the pocket, Only older people trying to deal with mortality have any interest,

    As i said we are to busy working and getting wrecked.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 132 ✭✭MizzKattt


    Papa Smut wrote:
    Cant resist: Can you do the charleston?
    Fraid not.
    Care to teach me?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 448 ✭✭Agent Orange


    MizzKattt wrote:
    I will be in Dublin for a short stay in May. Any suggestions on where to stay, what to do (other than the conventional touristy stuff), where to eat, where not to stay, where not eat? Thanks ya'll.

    A word of advice: do not enter into a discussion about US politics over here, even if you voted for Kerry. If you voted for Bush, do not tell anyone.


  • Posts: 12,761 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I would love to, but I was looking for a teacher myself :) It's a great dance.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 132 ✭✭MizzKattt


    A word of advice: do not enter into a discussion about US politics over here, even if you voted for Kerry. If you voted for Bush, do not tell anyone.

    No wearing Bush campaign buttons or I voted for Bush tee shirts. Check.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,838 ✭✭✭DapperGent


    Don't listen to half these fúckers, say what you like. Given that you have a sense of humour you'll be fine in Ireland.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,972 ✭✭✭SheroN


    Just be yourself. Say what you like, no one will do anything.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,264 ✭✭✭✭Hobbes


    MizzKattt wrote:
    No wearing Bush campaign buttons or I voted for Bush tee shirts. Check.

    There was an American Comedian working for minimum wage in Dublin Kebab store (for a show on Irish television).

    He said the one thing that pissed him off and had to listen to the same conversation as follows..

    Him: Hi can I take your order?
    Customer: You sound American? Are you?
    Him: Yep.
    Customer: That Bush is a wanker.

    At that point he would say "Yea well! Bertie is a wanker too" at which point the customer would say "Ahh sure I know that already".

    You will have a grand time, just avoid talking about your ancient ancestors who left the green shores for the US and your coming back to find your roots.

    One thing to watch out for is the Taxi Drivers, especially at the airport. Ask for a printed reciept at the end of the journey and if they can't give it get them to write it down with their badge and sign number. Comments like "So is this your first time to Ireland?" is Irish for "So do you want me to fleece the **** out of you?".


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