Cheating At Staff Christmas Parties??

Hugh Hefner · 06-12-2004 04:55PM

A Dub in Glasgo wrote:

What is meant by cheating? intercourse? oral sex giving? oral sex receiving? a kiss? a kiss and a quick feel?

Alright, who wants to explain the facts of life to this 9-year-old?

A Dub in Glasgo · 06-12-2004 05:02PM

Hugh Hefner wrote:

Alright, who wants to explain the facts of life to this 9-year-old?

Oh dear, we have a live one here, did you just get your 1st erection or something reading the post? :rolleyes:

Trojan · 06-12-2004 05:09PM

On-topic, non-insulting posts please. Bannage may ensue.

Iago · 06-12-2004 05:19PM

A Dub in Glasgo wrote:

What is meant by cheating? intercourse? oral sex giving? oral sex receiving? a kiss? a kiss and a quick feel?

anything you'd be p!ssed off with your partner for if they did it behind your back!

Kingp35 · 06-12-2004 05:26PM

[DA]IrishRanger wrote:

So the moral of the story is that a good strong relationship person, can sometimes be suduced by a better looking or 35+ women, who he works under. The male can be put off by his female boss. It can turn him on, so over time this builds up until booze is added and then fireworks. Also someone works under them, or beside them.

true but everyone seems to be missing the point that yeah there can be fireworks can be a huge atrraction but there is still the choice to say no whether its your boss or not. Cheating comes down to choice it really is that simple despite all the things that make it happen.

No relationship can be rock solid if you cheat and if you do then you cant really care about the person your going out with or wouldnt have done.

Come on most people have been in the situation especially at work parties where the situation has arisen that you could cheat. I reckon that has happened to alot of people it has happened to me. But I didnt and most people wouldnt because they have morals and decided against it. It all boils down to that.

Kingp35 · 06-12-2004 05:28PM

Iago wrote:

anything you'd be p!ssed off with your partner for if they did it behind your back!

Yeah I wouldnt be happy with anything!!!

Blisterman · 06-12-2004 05:43PM

I've never been to an office party. I've never worked in an office around christmastime, but I wouldn't.

robbie1876 · 06-12-2004 09:00PM

I'm a faith-tester. I've been with girls at (other people's) office parties who I are know are cheating on their partners. I'm single, so it's not a problem for me, the moral dilema is all theirs.

gimmick · 06-12-2004 11:55PM

I was out at a kinda work do the other night. Started with a free bar, then over to a bar, where clients were buying me and my colleagues drinks all night. It was fun, but also a major eye opener.

There were these married men unashamedly flirting with any woman who went near, buying them drinks and telling them their 'success' stories about how rich they were etc.

Made me sick to be looking at them/to be in their company. Myself and a few others, we just moved to another part of the bar.

I just hope to God, that I never become such a smarmy idiotic letch.

Thing is, that kinda crap happens every week.

rainbow kirby · 07-12-2004 12:01AM

Ahh, reminds me of last christmas. I was with one of the xmas temps at the work party a couple of days before Christmas. He was with someone else at the time. We were both exceptionally drunk... And I got the slagging of a lifetime for the rest of the holidays.

evad_lhorg · 07-12-2004 12:29AM

hahaha kirby ya tart!

a friend of a friend(mr x) was at his christmas party and his boss had just had an argument with his girlfriend so "mr x" decided e try cheer her up, well long story short THEY HAD WILD RAMBUNCTIOUS SEX and the boss never found out!

Kingp35 · 07-12-2004 12:25PM

evad_lhorg wrote:

a friend of a friend(mr x) was at his christmas party and his boss had just had an argument with his girlfriend so "mr x" decided e try cheer her up, well long story short THEY HAD WILD RAMBUNCTIOUS SEX and the boss never found out!

And thats the kind of stuff that makes me sick. Some girlfriend she was why didnt she just dump the guy if she was willing to cheat. I have no problem with people who are single being withpeople who arent coz the person who is with someone should say no.

Anyway keep the stories coming!! Wanna see how many of you guys are out there

loz_the_boz · 07-12-2004 12:33PM

Its a part of xmas tradition..............
:-)

ven0m · 07-12-2004 12:43PM

To borrow & bastardise a line from a movie;

"Merry F*ckmas"

LOL - lots of free alcohol + people spending long hours together closely + relaxed out of office enviornment = high chance of some drunken shagging.....

not exactly science granted...

::: ven0mous :::

][cEMAN** · 07-12-2004 01:04PM

Kingp35 wrote:

I have no problem with people who are single being withpeople who arent coz the person who is with someone should say no.

I don't agree with this. Someone willingly entering into any liaisons with someone in a relationship knows where they stand and what they're doing to that relationship.

It takes 2 to tango, and them persuing the liaisons is causing a temptation for the person in the relationship.

Now the person in the relationship doesn't have to act on this, but if there is no temptation then there's not going to be something going on. Fair enough it may happen with someone else, but the person unattached is just as much to blame for doing it if they know the other person is also attached.

Da_cOmRaDe_MiKe · 07-12-2004 01:20PM

often enuf people cheat. we all know it.
no 1 can tell wether someone is innocent apart from the person them selves.

now people can easily say "oh i never cheated"....
but did they?
my girlfriend did... and i found out.. how? the other person told me... and when i asked her about it, she denyd it...
then the other person who she met, called around 1 day, when i was home. i asked them both about it, and she confessed....

relationship ended 2 weeks ago over some other stuff.
now she is going out with my best friend.
some people depend on relationships...
not me...
we got our christmas party friday...
and there are a lot of people working here. well over 700...
so might be fun! :P

][cEMAN** · 07-12-2004 02:08PM

Da_cOmRaDe_MiKe wrote:

often enuf people cheat. we all know it.
no 1 can tell wether someone is innocent apart from the person them selves.

Helps to have to have access to a lot of CCTV footage

D!ve^Bomb! · 07-12-2004 02:15PM

Da_cOmRaDe_MiKe wrote:

relationship ended 2 weeks ago over some other stuff.
now she is going out with my best friend.
P

I really hope you mean ex bet friend? and i also hope that you have/will give(n) him a serious beating!! :mad:

Kingp35 · 07-12-2004 02:23PM

yeah no way would he still be my best friend the punches would be flying. Plus my man if she cheated on you how come you broke up over other stuff?? she cheated on you man end of story. Bye Bye

Oh ICEMAN your right it does take two the tango but lets be honest the person who cheats is more to blame. Its fairly low to go after somebodies boyfriend/girlfriend but its not as bad as cheating and as for temptation thats always there whether someone is coming onto or not. It may increase but it was still there.

There seems to be alot of excuses coming out here as to why people cheat but in my opinion there is no justification in it at all.

Da_cOmRaDe_MiKe · 07-12-2004 04:45PM

' wrote:

[cEMAN**']Helps to have to have access to a lot of CCTV footage

yeah after the last law suit, im banned from any survielance camera's for next 30 years....

newband wrote:

I really hope you mean ex bet friend? and i also hope that you have/will give(n) him a serious beating!! :mad:

yeah of course! my ex best friend.... shame i cant ban him from seeing my kid when he goes to see her.... i hates him with a big axe...

woosaysdan · 07-12-2004 05:32PM

i cheated on my g/f one x-mas party!!! it was great fun i had my own white x-mas!!!

Mr. Presentable · 07-12-2004 05:40PM

Da_cOmRaDe_MiKe wrote:

we got our christmas party friday...
and there are a lot of people working here. well over 700...
so might be fun! :P

Entemp?

Kingp35 · 07-12-2004 05:57PM

woosaysdan wrote:

i cheated on my g/f one x-mas party!!! it was great fun i had my own white x-mas!!!

Too much details!!

simu · 07-12-2004 07:31PM

Apparently, the cool thing now is to let people bring a partner to the office party, which would make cheating harder. That's what it said in the Irish Times magazine anyway...

Kingp35 · 08-12-2004 01:17PM

yeah thats what i thought but seems that not all parties allow that. especially the one that involve me going!!!!

Kingp35 · 09-12-2004 01:25PM

anybody have any cheating stories where the cheater is beaten?? would like to hear that one

Cheating At Staff Christmas Parties??

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