How far is too much kink?

LegacyUser · 08-10-2004 03:10AM #1

I just want to try and feel out people here to see if what I was feeling earlier is justified...

I've been getting really friendly with this girl recently. I got off with her in a club the other night but nothing came of it after that for various reasons. Anyway we met up then for coffee there earlier today and went for a stroll around town. Before I knew it we were in a sex shop. Fair enough I think, this can almost certainly only be a good thing, right?

At first she's looking at these knee high 6" heeled boots. I'm thinking: alright!

Then we're wandering around and she starts into some of the more serious stuff. You know like the ball in teh mouth and whips, that kinda thing. The whole time I get the idea that she's trying to size up my reaction to all of this...

Now I'm not afraid to be adventerous but some of the stuff she seemed to be into was kinda freaky...we're supposed to be going out drinking tomorrow night...should I be worried?

vibrant · 09-10-2004 02:03PM

Oh, she was just trying to get a rise out of you, to shock you. Enjoy yourself!

Havelock · 09-10-2004 02:04PM

More than likely she was trying to ffreak you out. Anyway if she's not, what have you got to lose?

Try it if it cmes up, at least then you'd know if you liked it or not.

gimmick · 09-10-2004 02:19PM

I did similar to an ex years ago in a sex shop in Cork. We werent going out too long at that point. I picked up a mad big dildo, and said something awful, waving it around. She was almost in tears with embarrassment. The others in the shop had a good laugh off it.

And if she is into that stuff - how bad!?!

therecklessone · 09-10-2004 02:19PM

Freak Attracter wrote:

we're supposed to be going out drinking tomorrow night...should I be worried?

Only is she wears her ball gag out...

Seriously, don't be worried about it. She was either trying to:

(a) take the rise, or
(b) test the waters

Either way its all good. If you're not into it, you're not into it, Tell her if it comes up, you've nothing to lose (you''re not in a relationship yet) There's no point in you trying to be something that you're uncomforatble with, especially this early on.

kleefarr · 09-10-2004 02:21PM

Freak Attracter wrote:

I just want to try and feel out people here to see if what I was feeling earlier is justified...

I've been getting really friendly with this girl recently. I got off with her in a club the other night but nothing came of it after that for various reasons. Anyway we met up then for coffee there earlier today and went for a stroll around town. Before I knew it we were in a sex shop. Fair enough I think, this can almost certainly only be a good thing, right?

At first she's looking at these knee high 6" heeled boots. I'm thinking: alright!

Then we're wandering around and she starts into some of the more serious stuff. You know like the ball in teh mouth and whips, that kinda thing. The whole time I get the idea that she's trying to size up my reaction to all of this...

Now I'm not afraid to be adventerous but some of the stuff she seemed to be into was kinda freaky...we're supposed to be going out drinking tomorrow night...should I be worried?

:eek:

Fill your boots (so to speak).

just be careful that you don't get tied up and left somewhere. :rolleyes:

Pigman II · 09-10-2004 02:29PM

Freak Attracter wrote:

we're supposed to be going out drinking tomorrow night...should I be worried?

Depends, does she stir her cocktails with a dildo?

kleefarr · 09-10-2004 02:30PM

Pigman II wrote:

Depends, does she stir her cocktails with a dildo?

ROFLMAO......

RuggieBear · 09-10-2004 03:58PM

I knew a girl who wanted to be hit with the buckle on the end of my belt..... :eek:

Victor · 09-10-2004 04:05PM

RuggieBear wrote:

I knew a girl who wanted to be hit with the buckle on the end of my belt..... :eek:

Only do this after you orgasm.

Havelock · 09-10-2004 04:10PM

RuggieBear wrote:

I knew a girl who wanted to be hit with the buckle on the end of my belt..... :eek:

Where?

(sorry for being off topic. just really curious)

the_syco · 09-10-2004 04:16PM

Guy & girl meet. Girl gets brought to a sex shop. Girl see's lad looking @ the soft stuff, and so goes over to the hardcore area, and looks like she knows whats shes doing. Guy comes over, and they both leave the shop...

How am I doing so far? Morale of the story; don't go there with a girl, unless she brings you, as otherwise whe'll proberly just go one up on you & freak yuou out

The Corinthian · 09-10-2004 04:48PM

I once dated a woman who, during sex, asked me to hurt her. So I told her she'd put on weight. True story.

RuggieBear · 09-10-2004 04:55PM

Havelock wrote:

Where?

(sorry for being off topic. just really curious)

across her back and backside....
i politely declined....said a few prayers and made good my escape. Friend on mine was with a girl who wanted to be punched during sex...

therecklessone · 09-10-2004 05:07PM

The Corinthian wrote:

I once dated a woman who, during sex, asked me to hurt her. So I told her she'd put on weight. True story.

LMFAO.

Post of the month.

mycroft · 09-10-2004 05:41PM

Okay seriously what's the problem you have a relationship and she goes and scars you in a non emotional sense.

Seriously test the waters, have fun and keep a spare key to the handcuffs in a safe place.

DrummerBoy · 09-10-2004 09:10PM

Freak Attracter wrote:

At first she's looking at these knee high 6" heeled boots. I'm thinking: alright!
Then we're wandering around and she starts into some of the more serious stuff. You know like the ball in teh mouth and whips, that kinda thing. The whole time I get the idea that she's trying to size up my reaction to all of this...

She could be looking for a Halloween costume

gimmick · 09-10-2004 10:43PM

The Corinthian wrote:

I once dated a woman who, during sex, asked me to hurt her. So I told her she'd put on weight. True story.

fantastic

Thats as funny as:

How do u make ur girl scream after sex? Wipe ur knob off the curtains!!

Sarky · 09-10-2004 10:45PM

If she starts eyeing mousetraps in the pound shop, you might want to call it a day.

FX Meister · 09-10-2004 10:48PM

The Corinthian wrote:

I once dated a woman who, during sex, asked me to hurt her. So I told her she'd put on weight. True story.

Didn't you do that to another chick too? In order to get out of buying her dinner? Either you're talking crap or you're a knob. Which one?

Gordon · 09-10-2004 10:52PM

FX Meister - no personal insults here please.

Shad0r · 10-10-2004 04:09AM

Freak Attracter wrote:

should I be worried?

/me thinks of that scene from the movie Wildcats (I think!) where the guy thinks he's gona have some major kinky sex with this hot chick and then 'Grandma' comes in dressed in leather from head to toe....

As long as both parties are consenting its all fun, dont worry about it till it happens...

KdjaCL · 10-10-2004 09:21AM

Donkey punch:
Whilst bending your gf over and taking her from behind when she is about to come, punch her in the back of the head , did that for a laugh before. Oddly she never slept with me again

kdjac

WhiteWashMan · 10-10-2004 11:41AM

The Corinthian wrote:

I once dated a woman who, during sex, asked me to hurt her. So I told her she'd put on weight. True story.

some woman asked me to fúck her silly.
i put on a clown suit.

true story.

Stugots · 10-10-2004 11:53AM

Freak Attracter wrote:

Now I'm not afraid to be adventerous but some of the stuff she seemed to be into was kinda freaky...we're supposed to be going out drinking tomorrow night...should I be worried?

So its the day after tomorrow night - WHAT HAPPENED??????

OfflerCrocGod · 10-10-2004 01:23PM

KdjaC wrote:

Oddly she never slept with me again

You're surprised

?

The Corinthian · 10-10-2004 03:01PM

FX Meister wrote:

Either you're talking crap or you're a knob. Which one?

A non-flaccid knob. Or talking crap. Whichever amuses me more.

Big Ears · 10-10-2004 04:19PM

RuggieBear wrote:

Friend on mine was with a girl who wanted to be punched during sex...

She wasn't getting back at him by claiming to have been raped by any chance ?

RuggieBear · 10-10-2004 07:26PM

Big Ears wrote:

She wasn't getting back at him by claiming to have been raped by any chance ?

To tell you the truth i don't know....she always seemed a bit weird to me (but then country girls do to me)

LegacyUser · 10-10-2004 08:34PM

Ok, really hungover after last night. Drank way too much probably cause I was worried about you know what.

I had alot of fun last night (what I can remember of it anyway), we did in fact go back to her place, which she had to herself. There were no kink granny's in attendance or drinks getting stirred by dildos, as some people suggested. When we got there I was drunk, well we both were, and horny so it was all about getting shagging.

In fact everything was fine until this morning when I sobered up a bit and noticed a police sized baton in her wardrobe (the doors were wide open). I also discovered during the proceedings that she never wears any underwear...

RuggieBear · 10-10-2004 09:07PM

Freak Attracter wrote:

In fact everything was fine until this morning when I sobered up a bit and noticed a police sized baton in her wardrobe (the doors were wide open). I also discovered during the proceedings that she never wears any underwear...

Are you sure it was a baton? :eek:

How far is too much kink?

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