why aren't people having more sex?

WizZard · 15-03-2004 11:31PM

Most of the women aren't great looking, and I don't see why I should go with some ugly one just for the sake of getting a ride. If I'm going to ride someone, I'm going to make damn sure I like her first (also in case she/me wants a second date).

Hear, Hear!!!

Dustaz · 16-03-2004 03:29AM

Originally posted by BEAT
Grow up kid, Not all women think that way ..it is the men who think this that get in the way of us women having a good f**k when ever we want it.

You guys think too much about crap like this when most of us women would just rather have you grab us and throw us down for a nice roll in the hay.

I love when women try to deny what theyre like:)

The above is not exactly bs, but its wildly misleading. Yes, women want to be grabbed (sometimes) and have lots of sex, but it cant be just anyone. It has to be a certain type of guy. Maybe he has rugged hands and looks like he can play a saxophone in a dark club on a hot rainy night. Maybe he needs to be the suave type who looks like hes just come from an important meeting at the foreign attache's office.

For us, a great rack will get us off on the right track.

Different women want different things and unless your a mind reader , You're not going to know what they want immediatly. Unless of course theyre desperate or nymps:)

embraer170 · 16-03-2004 03:33AM

We're getting plenty of sex in Kerry:

Kerryman Front Page (seriously)

NEWS bulletin
The latest sex craze called ‘dogging’ involves strangers carrying out sexually explicit acts in public areas while others watch and take part. The website – which includes several pornographic images – lists locations close to Feale’s Bridge in North Kerry and the car park of a prominent hotel in Killarney as the two main places where dogging reread on

http://www.unison.ie/kerryman/index.php3?ca=34&issue_id=10564

cournioni · 16-03-2004 12:46PM

Because of women stuck up their own arses.

kiffer · 16-03-2004 12:51PM

...the car park of a prominent hotel in Killarney as the two main places where dogging reread on

why did no one tell me this beofore I went there last week for K2.

and what the hell does reread mean here?

lots of dogging going on in Ireland according to the internet...

as for the men are always in the mood myth, it more so that even if we're not really in the mood we have to go for it any way cause you know that if you stop her she'll be in strop for weeks...

I've had this happen with a few times ... once when I was sick with the flu ... I'm sure she thought she'd cheer me up ... but she was in the mood and I did'nt get a choice ...

I know a lot of women who think that men are always in the mood ... they need to learn that no means no!

Grim · 16-03-2004 01:01PM

I agree . What with viagra on the go, there really is no reason not to have more sex.

Men get your act together.

ShriekingSheet · 16-03-2004 01:35PM

quote:

Originally posted by BEAT

You guys think too much about crap like this when most of us women would just rather have you grab us and throw us down for a nice roll in the hay.

The girls I hang around with are all catholic school girls in the stereotypical traditional sense

Going to college really opened my eyes that there are girls like this out there- but you gotta look hard

Typedef · 16-03-2004 01:52PM

Disinterestingly.

According to Men's Health (superb mag), men/women in the UK and Ireland (in most countries in fact) are having less sex, then 30-40 years ago, which is surprising, because if you look at the media, sex is everywhere.

It's all to do with the pressures of modern society, to make money, be free... whatever that means... single is the inference I guess, have a great car, travel... I'm sure everbody knows/is a slighly patronising people who urge you (at rote) to 'live' your life and travel, and basically modern society makes people more hostile towards each other, doesn't put people in the position where sex is as likely as it would be and all these factors in no particular order contribute to it.

Basically, you are a cog in the capitalist machine and you best fit in that machine as a single childless person, working your ass off and generating as much money as possible.

Look at it like this though.... if you get rich 'enough' you can marry some bimbo with implants.

/gets back to work.

Okie · 16-03-2004 01:53PM

Originally posted by PORNAPSTER
Because of women stuck up their own arses.

...meaning there's not much room left for anything else!

KlodaX · 16-03-2004 10:08PM

the men in this thread seem to be blaming the women ....
and the women seem to be defending themselves.

whos to blame is the real issue of this thread?

I blame men.

smoke.me.a.kipper · 16-03-2004 11:14PM

'why aren't people having more sex?'

because im not everywhere.

seriously tho, its an attitude thing.

loismustdie · 17-03-2004 04:43AM

either you lads are going for the wrong women or the problem is with you. beat is 100% right and if you can't get sex it's not fair to blame women. i've no problem wit my sex-life nyway so you guys should sort yours out

Johnny Versace · 17-03-2004 02:12PM

BEAT, I'm not sure what reality you're living in (it is not the norm), however it is refreshing to see.

Your attitude stinks though

Libertine · 17-03-2004 02:25PM

Originally posted by BEAT
Billsh*t, I am a woman and I am always in the mood. You guys need to stop with the generalizations already, just because a woman doesnt want to have sex with 'you' doesnt mean she doesnt want to have sex. This is just proof that men will never 'understand' women...they only guess and generalize. That is why most of you go home alone every weekend.

That's because you're on the verge of menopause though, time running out and all that.

Johnny Versace · 17-03-2004 02:26PM

Originally posted by Libertine
That's because you're on the verge of menopause though, time running out and all that.

Yeah, I knew something was up...

Funky · 17-03-2004 02:41PM

Here here.

Silent Grape · 17-03-2004 02:46PM

mmmmmm i had sex last night with my ex for the first time in about two months....

mmmmmmmmmm

krom kruak · 17-03-2004 02:52PM

Originally posted by miles teg
Just a thought I've had...
If you were to ask people about it, most would probably say that they would like to have more sex.
So, given that people want more, as well as knowing how to have safe sex etc. why don't people in general have more sex?

Because I'm too busy been a w.an.k.er

BEAT · 17-03-2004 03:23PM

Originally posted by Johnny Versace
BEAT, I'm not sure what reality you're living in (it is not the norm), however it is refreshing to see.

Your attitude stinks though

My attitude stinks??? I think you are just too sensitive, I am purely stating that you are wrong in assuming most women feel the way you say they do. 80% of studies are made up so all we have to go on is your opinion or personal experiences which do not account for many women I would assume

I have no need to defend women they are clearly fending for themselves as you can see if you read the posts.

Originally posted by Libertine
That's because you're on the verge of menopause though, time running out and all that.

Anyway, I doubt a 26 year old would be approaching menopause lads...Nice try though :rolleyes:

Johnny Versace · 17-03-2004 03:27PM

BEAT, I'm afraid you're talking out of your arse.

You're trying to say you require no mental stimulation before you'll shag a guy? If that's not what you're saying, then why are you trying to disagree with me for no reason?

And saying 80% of studies are made up...come on now, this isn't the school yard...

Originally posted by BEAT
My attitude stinks??? I think you are just too sensitive, I am purely stating that you are wrong in assuming most women feel the way you say they do. 80% of studies are made up so all we have to go on is your opinion or personal experiences which do not account for many women I would assume I have no need to defend women they are clearly fending for themselves as you can see if you read the posts.

Originally posted by Libertine
That's because you're on the verge of menopause though, time running out and all that.

Anyway, I doubt a 26 year old would be approaching menopause lads...Nice try though :rolleyes:

BEAT · 17-03-2004 04:05PM

Originally posted by Johnny Versace
BEAT, I'm afraid you're talking out of your arse.

You're trying to say you require no mental stimulation before you'll shag a guy? If that's not what you're saying, then why are you trying to disagree with me for no reason?

And saying 80% of studies are made up...come on now, this isn't the school yard...

Ok JV, I am not going to lower myself to your standards...you obviously have some issues with the female gender that perhaps you should seek profesional help for. I have stated my point, my original point on page 1 of this thread and I feel no need to take this any further. You may continue your ignorant rant and debate on your own.
--/beat has unsubscribed to this thread.

joseph brand · 17-03-2004 06:32PM

Compare a hard working, stressed out European couple to an African couple, living in a mud hut, in the desert, with nought much to do all day, apart from aquiring a bit of grub, ....... What would ye do all day???

I know what I'd be doing, '22 positions in a one nite stand' (Prince). Yeahhh!!!! 'specially with a love truncheon hanging down to my knee, Yeehaah!!

Seriously though, the German population is on the decrease (more deaths than births), caused by couples working, living to work, loving the job, kids aren't as important as the JOB, and if they have one, well, .... . .hey, just send 'IT' off to a Montessori, have we lost our values and morals, SOLD OUT TO THE MAN????

EKRIUQ · 17-03-2004 06:51PM

are you saying we lock our Irish women in mud huts if we want more sex?:D

R33F · 18-03-2004 02:38AM

Originally posted by redRogue
the men in this thread seem to be blaming the women ....
and the women seem to be defending themselves.

whos to blame is the real issue of this thread?

I blame men.

I disagree with that....

I bought a lovely young woman home the other nite.

Mrs R33F was furious !!!!!!

brainstorm · 18-03-2004 01:31PM

Originally posted by BEAT
Billsh*t, I am a woman and I am always in the mood. You guys need to stop with the generalizations already, just because a woman doesnt want to have sex with 'you' doesnt mean she doesnt want to have sex. This is just proof that men will never 'understand' women...they only guess and generalize. That is why most of you go home alone every weekend.

Not saying its the case for every one but :

1) Men dont understand women and women say they dont understand men(? so they say anyway).... i was once told by a woman that she doesnt understand herself sometimes... so if shes ok with doing something today and tomorrow she thinks about doing the same thing, she might not... ya know what i mean..

2) Women think about sex as often as guys but they dont go round staring fellas arses or things that guys do to girls... women are more subtle then men and tactful!

3) women are in control these days (as we all know but wont admit). So its up to guys to do most of the leg work. just cos a girl talks to a guy doesnt mean hes gonna get some... or anything for that matter, but us guys think we are in there. then again a girl will cut u down to size fairly sharpish if she thinks u arrogant.

4)Prob the main reason why most of us go home alone every weekend is that we cant read the signs that women give us (if any), we dont know how to act on them, apart from grabbing various parts of her anatomy, we dont know how to chat a girl up and keep the conversation going/interesting......

boos hisses.... quiet down the back.....

just my 2c... intersting to see a few reponses to this from women....

KlodaX · 18-03-2004 02:02PM

I was seeing a lad for a while who thought of me as a distraction.
All I wanted to do was drink and have sex.

Is that too much to ask? Now really is it??? :eek:

again I blame men.

You're trying to say you require no mental stimulation before you'll shag a guy?

Most men aren't capable of mental stimulation anyway. Its a bonus if they are.

Kali · 18-03-2004 02:08PM

Originally posted by redRogue
Most men aren't capable of mental stimulation anyway. Its a bonus if they are.

Heres a crossword puzzle. Now get on the bed.

KlodaX · 18-03-2004 02:13PM

Originally posted by Kali
Heres a crossword puzzle. Now get on the bed.

LOL

po0k · 18-03-2004 02:16PM

Originally posted by Typedef
Look at it like this though.... if you get rich 'enough' you can marry some bimbo with implants.

/gets back to work.

The System works.

KlodaX · 18-03-2004 02:22PM

This thread is mental.

I take back what I said ... was trying to start ... or take a side on the battle of men vs women ...

but it is absolutly pointless ... kinda like this thread!?!?

why aren't people having more sex?

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