why aren't people having more sex?

miles teg

Just a thought I've had...
If you were to ask people about it, most would probably say that they would like to have more sex.
So, given that people want more, as well as knowing how to have safe sex etc. why don't people in general have more sex?

Dr. Loon

To try and keep the population count of people like you as low as possible!?

Sir Digby Chicken Caesar

aids?

rymus

frigid women?

seamus

Because although we want more sex, the vast majority of us have lives to live.

If only we had the time.....

Rabies

Too expensive

feylya

People are not wearing enough hats. That's why. And all the other reasons.

Beruthiel

what?

tis only you, the rest of us are getting loads

xx

Not worth the hassle involved. For good sex, go abroad on a holiday and get some there.

projectmayhem

ugliness

Johnny Versace

The problem is simple.

For guys, sex is purely physical.

For girls, it is both physical and mental.

A guy can **** anytime, whereas the girl actaully has to be "in the mood."

This is the sex stumbling block.

Just look at the (male) gay community. They go at it like rabbits because the "in the mood" factor is out the window.

MF2HD

we're all too fat and lazy!:eek:

Kambika

ugly people !

xx

Originally posted by Johnny Versace
Just look at the (male) gay community. They go at it like rabbits because the "in the mood" factor is out the window.

Speaking from experience, monseur versace? :eek:

Johnny Versace

Originally posted by xx
Speaking from experience, monseur versace? :eek:

Nein, but hey, if I were gay or bi I'd prob have a great life!

Seriously... I recently moved out of my apartment on Georges Street (well, technically it was Aungier Street) and I swear, passing by the George every night you quickly realise gay people have a very active social/sex life.

xx

Originally posted by Johnny Versace
gay people have a very active social/sex life.

Yeah, doesn't really pay credence to that saying "its great when you're straight". Its bloody miserable is what it is. But I don't think I could turn gay, not for all the sex in the world......but.....well.......nahhhhh!!!!!!!!
By the way J, have you ever frequented the george? Your obsession with the latter half of the human digestive tract on your website would make me think you did.

Senor_Fudge

irish women in general
what irish men need are more latinas or failing that lots of TG4 weather girl types to increase the irish influence on the globe

BEAT

Originally posted by Johnny Versace
The problem is simple.

For guys, sex is purely physical.

For girls, it is both physical and mental.

A guy can **** anytime, whereas the girl actaully has to be "in the mood."

This is the sex stumbling block.

Grow up kid, Not all women think that way ..it is the men who think this that get in the way of us women having a good f**k when ever we want it.

You guys think too much about crap like this when most of us women would just rather have you grab us and throw us down for a nice roll in the hay.

uberwolf

Originally posted by BEAT


You guys think too much about crap like this when most of us women would just rather have you grab us and throw us down for a nice roll in the hay.

all you have to do is ask

T.G Catter

it's also hard to compete with a vibrator.

*mental note , get AA batteries on the way home.

Catsmokinpot

this should be in humour cause most of the replies are f-ing funny:D

Johnny Versace

Whoa you're defo in the minority! I'm basing my opinion on a study I read the other day (seriously.) It was on the MSN homepage.

Originally posted by BEAT
Grow up kid, Not all women think that way ..it is the men who think this that get in the way of us women having a good f**k when ever we want it.

You guys think too much about crap like this when most of us women would just rather have you grab us and throw us down for a nice roll in the hay.

Dont Ban Me

Originally posted by BEAT
Grow up kid, Not all women think that way ..it is the men who think this that get in the way of us women having a good f**k when ever we want it.

You guys think too much about crap like this when most of us women would just rather have you grab us and throw us down for a nice roll in the hay.

Hey I like your thinking, here's my number :

You Wish

Blitzkrieger

Originally posted by BEAT

You guys think too much about crap like this when most of us women would just rather have you grab us and throw us down for a nice roll in the hay.

I can see the court case now : "But I read it on teh interweb........"

Kold

Does solo sex count?

rymus

Originally posted by Kold
Does solo sex count?

If it does... 8 in 10 boards users have as much sex as hollywood porn stars.

StephenInsane

Yeah, it's a purely biological. While men are in the mood for sex all the time, women are only really in the mood during certain times of the month.

BEAT

Originally posted by StephenInsane
Yeah, it's a purely biological. While men are in the mood for sex all the time, women are only really in the mood during certain times of the month.

Billsh*t, I am a woman and I am always in the mood. You guys need to stop with the generalizations already, just because a woman doesnt want to have sex with 'you' doesnt mean she doesnt want to have sex. This is just proof that men will never 'understand' women...they only guess and generalize. That is why most of you go home alone every weekend.

the_syco

Originally posted by BEAT
Billsh*t, I am a woman and I am always in the mood. You guys need to stop with the generalizations already, just because a woman doesnt want to have sex with 'you' doesnt mean she doesnt want to have sex. This is just proof that men will never 'understand' women...they only guess and generalize. That is why most of you go home alone every weekend.

Firstly, I'm not always in the mood for a ****.
Secondly, sometimes my hand is just too tired to ****.
I fully understand my hand.

I go home alone at the weekends because;

• No money (you have to buy the girl a drink if ur not a George Clooney look-a-like)
• Most of the women aren't great looking, and I don't see why I should go with some ugly one just for the sake of getting a ride. If I'm going to ride someone, I'm going to make damn sure I like her first (also in case she/me wants a second date).
• No confidence
• Not great looking (also, see reason one)

WizZard

Originally posted by BEAT
they only guess and generalize. That is why most of you go home alone every weekend.

Cos this is not a generalization!!

You are correct though in that most women want to have sex as much as men want to, its just the whole communication thing that f*cks it all up.

El Marco

Originally posted by miles teg
Just a thought I've had...
I want more sex
I'm not getting sex
Why?

Fixed

WizZard

Most of the women aren't great looking, and I don't see why I should go with some ugly one just for the sake of getting a ride. If I'm going to ride someone, I'm going to make damn sure I like her first (also in case she/me wants a second date).

Hear, Hear!!!

Dustaz

Originally posted by BEAT
Grow up kid, Not all women think that way ..it is the men who think this that get in the way of us women having a good f**k when ever we want it.

You guys think too much about crap like this when most of us women would just rather have you grab us and throw us down for a nice roll in the hay.

I love when women try to deny what theyre like:)

The above is not exactly bs, but its wildly misleading. Yes, women want to be grabbed (sometimes) and have lots of sex, but it cant be just anyone. It has to be a certain type of guy. Maybe he has rugged hands and looks like he can play a saxophone in a dark club on a hot rainy night. Maybe he needs to be the suave type who looks like hes just come from an important meeting at the foreign attache's office.

For us, a great rack will get us off on the right track.

Different women want different things and unless your a mind reader , You're not going to know what they want immediatly. Unless of course theyre desperate or nymps:)

embraer170

We're getting plenty of sex in Kerry:

Kerryman Front Page (seriously)

NEWS bulletin
The latest sex craze called ‘dogging’ involves strangers carrying out sexually explicit acts in public areas while others watch and take part. The website – which includes several pornographic images – lists locations close to Feale’s Bridge in North Kerry and the car park of a prominent hotel in Killarney as the two main places where dogging reread on

http://www.unison.ie/kerryman/index.php3?ca=34&issue_id=10564

cournioni

Because of women stuck up their own arses.

kiffer

...the car park of a prominent hotel in Killarney as the two main places where dogging reread on

why did no one tell me this beofore I went there last week for K2.

and what the hell does reread mean here?

lots of dogging going on in Ireland according to the internet...

as for the men are always in the mood myth, it more so that even if we're not really in the mood we have to go for it any way cause you know that if you stop her she'll be in strop for weeks...

I've had this happen with a few times ... once when I was sick with the flu ... I'm sure she thought she'd cheer me up ... but she was in the mood and I did'nt get a choice ...

I know a lot of women who think that men are always in the mood ... they need to learn that no means no!

Grim

I agree . What with viagra on the go, there really is no reason not to have more sex.

Men get your act together.

ShriekingSheet

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Originally posted by BEAT

You guys think too much about crap like this when most of us women would just rather have you grab us and throw us down for a nice roll in the hay.

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The girls I hang around with are all catholic school girls in the stereotypical traditional sense

Going to college really opened my eyes that there are girls like this out there- but you gotta look hard

Typedef

Disinterestingly.

According to Men's Health (superb mag), men/women in the UK and Ireland (in most countries in fact) are having less sex, then 30-40 years ago, which is surprising, because if you look at the media, sex is everywhere.

It's all to do with the pressures of modern society, to make money, be free... whatever that means... single is the inference I guess, have a great car, travel... I'm sure everbody knows/is a slighly patronising people who urge you (at rote) to 'live' your life and travel, and basically modern society makes people more hostile towards each other, doesn't put people in the position where sex is as likely as it would be and all these factors in no particular order contribute to it.

Basically, you are a cog in the capitalist machine and you best fit in that machine as a single childless person, working your ass off and generating as much money as possible.

Look at it like this though.... if you get rich 'enough' you can marry some bimbo with implants.

/gets back to work.

Okie

Originally posted by PORNAPSTER
Because of women stuck up their own arses.

...meaning there's not much room left for anything else!

KlodaX

the men in this thread seem to be blaming the women ....
and the women seem to be defending themselves.

whos to blame is the real issue of this thread?

I blame men.

smoke.me.a.kipper

'why aren't people having more sex?'

because im not everywhere.

seriously tho, its an attitude thing.

loismustdie

either you lads are going for the wrong women or the problem is with you. beat is 100% right and if you can't get sex it's not fair to blame women. i've no problem wit my sex-life nyway so you guys should sort yours out

Johnny Versace

BEAT, I'm not sure what reality you're living in (it is not the norm), however it is refreshing to see.

Your attitude stinks though

Libertine

Originally posted by BEAT
Billsh*t, I am a woman and I am always in the mood. You guys need to stop with the generalizations already, just because a woman doesnt want to have sex with 'you' doesnt mean she doesnt want to have sex. This is just proof that men will never 'understand' women...they only guess and generalize. That is why most of you go home alone every weekend.

That's because you're on the verge of menopause though, time running out and all that.

Johnny Versace

Originally posted by Libertine
That's because you're on the verge of menopause though, time running out and all that.

Yeah, I knew something was up...

Funky

Here here.

Silent Grape

mmmmmm i had sex last night with my ex for the first time in about two months....

mmmmmmmmmm

krom kruak

Originally posted by miles teg
Just a thought I've had...
If you were to ask people about it, most would probably say that they would like to have more sex.
So, given that people want more, as well as knowing how to have safe sex etc. why don't people in general have more sex?

Because I'm too busy been a w.an.k.er

BEAT

Originally posted by Johnny Versace
BEAT, I'm not sure what reality you're living in (it is not the norm), however it is refreshing to see.

Your attitude stinks though

My attitude stinks??? I think you are just too sensitive, I am purely stating that you are wrong in assuming most women feel the way you say they do. 80% of studies are made up so all we have to go on is your opinion or personal experiences which do not account for many women I would assume I have no need to defend women they are clearly fending for themselves as you can see if you read the posts.

Originally posted by Libertine
That's because you're on the verge of menopause though, time running out and all that.

Anyway, I doubt a 26 year old would be approaching menopause lads...Nice try though :rolleyes:

Johnny Versace

BEAT, I'm afraid you're talking out of your arse.

You're trying to say you require no mental stimulation before you'll shag a guy? If that's not what you're saying, then why are you trying to disagree with me for no reason?

And saying 80% of studies are made up...come on now, this isn't the school yard...

Originally posted by BEAT
My attitude stinks??? I think you are just too sensitive, I am purely stating that you are wrong in assuming most women feel the way you say they do. 80% of studies are made up so all we have to go on is your opinion or personal experiences which do not account for many women I would assume I have no need to defend women they are clearly fending for themselves as you can see if you read the posts.

Originally posted by Libertine
That's because you're on the verge of menopause though, time running out and all that.

Anyway, I doubt a 26 year old would be approaching menopause lads...Nice try though :rolleyes: