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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 443 ✭✭sekiro


    I'd be interested to know when exactly the possibility of medications, treatments or even surgeries are being suggested to children and at what age this is happening at the earliest.

    A lot of pro-trans literature focusses, for example, on things like little boys wanting to wear dresses or wanting to play with dolls.

    What if my son decides he wants to wear a dress and my stance is "fine, let him wear a dress"? At what point is the idea of medication or surgery coming into our lives? What if I then say "no thanks, I'm just going to let him wear what he wants and do what he wants but no meds or surgery for us thanks?"

    There needs to be proper investigation into how kids are becoming convinced that they can't just BE another gender and that's that but rather that the only way to go is medication and, maybe some day, surgery.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 3,096 ✭✭✭aero2k


    Yes indeed, and even if you are unhappy, and not functioning particularly well, that may be explicable by your life circumstances rather than any pathology. But if you have symptoms of grief lasting more than 2 weeks then according to DSM V you have a disorder. FFS I still miss my father, who died in '78.

    THe DSM is a response to the invention of lots of new drugs which needed diseases so they could be marketed.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,116 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    Grief is meant to last two weeks?? My friend lost her husband 6 weeks ago and she’s only beginning to pick herself up in the last couple of weeks. Even if they mean that initial devastating period of grief I don’t see how it can always be limited to such a short period.

    Concerning the DSM, I agree it has become a way to boost drug sales but there’s also psychiatric medicine’s very dark history as a weapon of social control. I think they are trying so hard now to remove that judgmental aspect that they’re now normalising some things that perhaps shouldn’t be.

    So now they’ve created a contradiction where sexual identity is not an illness (fine) but they also need to pathologise it - how else to provide hormones and carry out surgery?

    And there’s definitely a large degree of “We have a drug for that, let’s find a disease we can treat with it.”

    "If a woman cannot stand in a public space and say, without fear of consequences, that men cannot be women, then women have no rights at all." Helen Joyce



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 3,096 ✭✭✭aero2k


    Yeah, the DSM criteria for grief as an illness used to be 1 year. It got reduced to two weeks for DSM V.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,116 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    A year sounds right for a major loss. Two weeks sounds like losing something/someone you didn't care that much about. I think many people take a lot more than 2 weeks to get over a pet dying, never mind a significant person in their life.

    I can only agree that it's about pathologising normal, but difficult, life events. And puberty is tough. In my experience it was anyway. For a number of reasons - but changes in other people's attitude towards you (well, men, and boys, to be blunt) was a really significant part of why it was so hard.

    "If a woman cannot stand in a public space and say, without fear of consequences, that men cannot be women, then women have no rights at all." Helen Joyce



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,116 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    AFAICT there is still a 12 month "pathological grief" category, but there's also this:

    PROPOSAL TO ELIMINATE THE MAJOR DEPRESSION BEREAVEMENT EXCLUSION

    This was perhaps the most controversial diagnostic proposal since depathologization of homosexuality. Grief sometimes triggers a major depressive disorder (MDD). However, some depressive symptoms, such as depressed mood, insomnia, decreased interest, decreased appetite, and lack of concentration, are general-distress symptoms that frequently occur in normal grief 1. Thus, normal grief can satisfy the DSM's 5-symptoms-for-2-weeks criterion for MDD, yielding a mistaken “false positive” MDD diagnosis. The bereavement exclusion (BE) rectified this situation by distinguishing as normal those “uncomplicated” grief-related depressive episodes that included only general distress symptoms and remitted quickly. “Complicated” episodes were classified as MDD, despite the recent loss, if they included pathosuggestive symptoms such as psychomotor retardation, suicidal ideation, sense of worthlessness, or lengthy duration. The BE's elimination means that two weeks of general-distress depressive symptoms after death of a loved one falls under MDD.

    I don't really understand the distinction TBH, but that's just from a quick google.

    "If a woman cannot stand in a public space and say, without fear of consequences, that men cannot be women, then women have no rights at all." Helen Joyce



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 3,096 ✭✭✭aero2k


    Peter Gotzche is medical doctor who is highly critical of psychiatry in general and psychiatric diagnosis in particular. He points out that diagnoses are just convenient names for collections of symptoms- they don't explain cause or suggest cure, and they're subjective, with no physical tests ( e.g. blood tests) to rule a disorder in or out.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 3,096 ✭✭✭aero2k


    A bit OT, but since we're talking about a comedian, here's a short video about the absurdity of psychiatric diagnoses:

    Take the test here:



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 3,096 ✭✭✭aero2k


    I should have said this earlier: lest there be any doubt, psychological/emotional suffering is absolutely real, and can be debilitating. But it's also part of life, and shouldn't be overly pathologised.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 9,055 ✭✭✭plodder


    Couldn't believe these stats when I read them recently

    A diagnosis of attention deficit hyperactivity disorder is practically a rite of passage in American boyhood, with nearly one in four 17-year-old boys bearing the diagnosis. The numbers have only gone up, and vertiginously: One million more children were diagnosed with A.D.H.D. in 2022 than in 2016.

    The numbers on autism are so shocking that they are worth repeating. In the early 1980s, one in 2,500 children had an autism diagnosis. That figure is now one in 31.

    25% of American 17 year old boys diagnosed with ADHD.

    https://www.nytimes.com/2025/11/24/magazine/youth-mental-health-crisis-schools.html?unlocked_article_code=1.7E8.jSWE.YxcnQxQSOdg6&smid=url-share

    And

    Nearly 32 percent of adolescents have been diagnosed at some point with anxiety; the median age of “onset” is 6 years old. More than one in 10 adolescents have experienced a major depressive disorder, according to some estimates.

    “The opposite of 'good' is 'good intentions'”



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,346 ✭✭✭Mr.Wemmick


    Gotzch is also against mammograms, is he not?

    My problem with him is his insular highly individualistic stand alone critical approach. He does psychiatry no favours by throwing baby out with the bath water. He also forgets to mention the complexities of hidden conditions that can exacerbate debilitating stages of so called “normal” grief.

    We have a real problem in MH care today in that assessments are often too loose, criteria too shallow and misses/ fails to pin point conditions and co-morbidities in order for an individual to receive the correct course of treatment & therapies.

    The lack of knowledge and inability to access care is the biggest failure of our time. Gotzch talks as if his profession is armed with complete knowledge and has a clear overview of the human condition in each patient. Doctors do not. He’s very idealistic in his critiques.

    We know the trans issue is proof of MH care and diagnosis failures across the world. Some countries, no doubt, are better than others.

    Psychiatric drug treatments have saved and helped many people - two in my extended family. Even though I’d argue with one requiring more assessments to determined need, but crikey it’s pot luck if that happens as professionals would need to spend more time understanding their patients.. but time is very costly and sparsely allocated to patients.

    Gotzch’s views are also being politicised and used against psychiatry and the public as a money saving exercise. Lots of talk in the US & U.K. of over diagnosis especially of incurable conditions like Autism & ADHD. Like everything in life we need balance, but sadly that centre ground in critical thinking is being eroded by extreme more singular points of views. I’ve no doubt a lot of his criticism of the industry hits the mark, but.. (all of the above)

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,116 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    I think there's clearly a problem when such a large proportion of the population is being "diagnosed" with something - surely by definition 1/4 of teenage boys are not ill? Either there is massive overdiagnosis, or they are simply towards one end of the long spectrum of social ease in relationships, tendency to worry etc.

    It's really rather odd how many of the very same people who (claim to) think that sex is a spectum believe that mental health, autism or even just "neurodivergence" are absolutes. Especially with autism, where the previous distinction between "autism" and what used to be called Aspergers has now been removed for a global definition of a "spectrum of autism". No wonder numbers are spiralling.

    I have several young people in my life with such a diagnosis, and while I can clearly see the points they have in common and am in no way denying that they have difficulties, it seems equally obvious to me that the "spectrum" is actually one that goes all the way to - and includes - "no signs of autism", rather than a binary Yes(autistic) or No(not autistic). IOW it's also personality and character, not "miswiring". Or else we are all slightly miswired, which is quite possible too.

    My point being, giving lots of extra help to 25% of boys with ADHD, and/or a diagnosis of autism, and none at all to at least the next 25% is wildly unfair on one of those groups. Either the next 25% also need some help, or the 25% getting the ADHD diagnosis are not being properly helped by such a blanket diagnosis. TBH, for many of them, I suspect the latter.

    I know nothing about him so I can't comment but I agree that psychiatric and mental health issues are still problematic, and I think part of the problem is that we've put them firmly into the "medical science" category when in fact we're not able to research them, nor even just identify them, with anything like the certainty of cancer or a heart attack.

    And yes, I know that, for ex. cancer, is not always easy to diagnose with certainty either, but the point is there are biological tests. Interpreting them requires skill and even then often contains a degree of uncertainty, but it's still different from many mental health issues.

    But when I worked in clinical research, a good few years ago now, one of the biggest problems with testing new drugs for mental health diagnoses such as depression, was the frequency with which the known placebo (or the current gold standard treatment) being given as the control treatment in a double blind study would get results that were statistically as good as, or sometimes even better than, the drug being trialed. That's likely because efficacy of mental health treatments is so therapist-dependent. The more the patient likes and trusts their therapist, the better the results. And of course in a trial, one thing the patient gets is lots of attention. So many drugs seem really promising in studies, while out in the real world, when a busy GP shoves them at an exhausted new mother, or a grieving parent, they don't have nearly as much effect.

    ETA: Also: "against mammograms" - that depends what you mean. Mammograms are not an unalloyed good either. I won't go into the reasons here, but it really depends. Just one example: a friend's maternal line has the BRCA gene in it. Her sister did all the mammograms suggested from an early age, got a positive result and had a mastectomy. The subsequent "full" biopsy showed that she hadn't had cancer after all, just a few dodgy cells that would almost certainly have been fine with much more limited treatment. Possibly even no treatment (cancerous cells can and do get "cleared up" by the body's immune system quite regularly.) Meanwhile a young woman has been left with lymphodoema, which is a debilitating condition with little effective treatment. Just bad luck. My friend, who chose not to do the gene test, and not to have multiple mammograms, is still fine 25 years later. Of course she could have been dead of breast cancer by now - who knows? Which is the point.

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    "If a woman cannot stand in a public space and say, without fear of consequences, that men cannot be women, then women have no rights at all." Helen Joyce



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 3,096 ✭✭✭aero2k


    Agreed. I'm travelling and I struggle with boards on the phone, so I just picked someone I knew had mentioned the grief thing. Yes, he comes across as a crank, but if you read his back story he has a fair bit of justification for that. I've read his argument against mammograms- it's very well argued. He doesn't spare his own profession either, he argues that prescription drugs are the no. 3 or 4 killer.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 3,096 ✭✭✭aero2k


    Well, ya need the diagnosis to sell the drugs!

    But, if you are struggling in any way, and need help, insurance in the US will only cover it with a diagnosis so that's a big driver too.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 9,055 ✭✭✭plodder


    … not just health insurance, but supports in school I presume. There's a lot of chatter in the UK press at the moment about the SEND special needs program in schools there and how sustainable it is.

    “The opposite of 'good' is 'good intentions'”



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 2,028 ✭✭✭OscarMIlde


    Can definitely agree with the vast increase in autism diagnoses. I have a non verbal autistic brother, classic Kanner autism. He's in his forties now. Growing up, when explaining it to people (when he was acting out in public), no-one had ever heard of it. Now everyone seems to know someone with autism and I really struggle believing quite a few of the 'high functioning' autism diagnoses. People like the Governess from the chase or JackSepticEye obtaining autism diagnoses makes a mockery of people like my brother or even high functioning Asperger people, who just do not have that degree of social nous.

    “Never argue with an idiot. They will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.”


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,157 ✭✭✭eightieschewbaccy


    And I'd say you haven't lived their life so declaring they're making a mockery of others is a tad rude. The reality is neurodiversity in general has always been a pretty broad spectrum so you get more extreme cases and less extreme ones. But declaring people aren't really neurodiverse based on seeing a fraction of their lives on a TV show is a huge leap.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 9,055 ✭✭✭plodder


    Brendan O'Connor had Blindboy Boatclub on his program yesterday whose (obviously high functioning) autism got diagnosed in his 30's. It's easy to roll your eyes at some of these people, but he had some interesting things to say about it, particularly about his school days.

    It's a different matter though when it comes to allocating resources in the education system. Obviously, everyone wants the best for their own children, but as @volchitsa pointed out, if 25% of American 17 yr old boys have ADHD, what about the next 25% of kids, whose parents don't have the wherewithall to push for a diagnosis? It seems crazy to make it a binary thing that you either have, or don't have.

    “The opposite of 'good' is 'good intentions'”



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,116 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    But isn't everyone neurodiverse to some extent? That's my problem here - where's the cut-off point?

    Because while it's obvious that there are children who literally don't learn to speak without significant extra help, that's not what anyone is talking about here. If we give extra help to 1/4 of the population, and especially when we can see that that 1/4 are mostly from middle class families with parents able to get help for them, then aren't we giving them an unfair level of "help" that might be better off being spent on improving individual care for all children? Because if 1/4 of the population are unable to function, then why not 1/3 or 1/2? Or maybe all of them, in their own way? That's no longer an illness, that's a way of being - and the poorer more deprived families will need that help just as much, but their children won't get it.

    "If a woman cannot stand in a public space and say, without fear of consequences, that men cannot be women, then women have no rights at all." Helen Joyce



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 2,028 ✭✭✭OscarMIlde


    I stand by what I said. I'm sure they have difficulties but they are nowhere near the same ball park as someone like my brother, who is still unable to speak and is 44 years old.

    I even went to college with someone with Aspergers, intelligent enough to do a degree, but no social understanding whatsoever. He genuinely lived his life by rules that he had been taught (he gave out to me for giving money to a buskers as students don't have to give money was a particular favourite of mine). His face blindness was so severe that even though he saw me every day of college for four years and I frequently had lunch with him I saw him once in a non college setting and he hadn't a clue who I was (I'm a five foot eight redhead so am fairly recognisable). Even when I explained he wasn't certain who I was. This lad had no friends as everyone found his constant questions insufferable and would vanish as he soon as he joined a group. There were one or two of us who would always stay with him if he came up to us but it was out of kindness.

    The social functioning and verbal expressiveness of the people I mentioned is not impaired to any pathological degree.

    “Never argue with an idiot. They will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.”


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,157 ✭✭✭eightieschewbaccy


    No, everyone is not neurodiverse to a certain extent. Not all autistic people are non verbal and that's never been the case.

    I would fall into the category of autistic but it was identified in older life. Having it identified so late was a bit of a problem looking back. Educationally I got through school but I would have been classified as lazy. Socially I was a long way behind my classmates, I masked heavily to the point where it almost caused nervous breakdowns in my 20s. I had a suspicion I'll admit but the most important thing in terms of having it identified was that I have a far better idea of how to manage myself than I did. It's not simply about help in the classroom and the fact that you're reducing it to that is a massive lack of an understanding. On top of that, it is not classified as an illness.

    They're not claiming that their struggles are the same as your brothers though. That's something you're super imposing on the situation. Btw, masking is incredibly common with autistic people so saying they seem socially good is a weird baseline. A lot of that is something these people have trained themselves at, you didn't see them at other points in their life but you're making a judgement based on very limited information.

    Btw, I'd absolutely have come across the exact same way in college as the guy you know. As I went into my thirties, I come across as far more competent in those scenarios. If I'm in a situation where it's something I'm really interested in, I'll be incredibly competent. (Not exactly surprising the governess would come across as socially competent in a quiz show)



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,116 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    No, everyone is not neurodiverse to a certain extent. Not all autistic people are non verbal

    But those are two entirely different things.

    Because what does "non neurodiverse" actually mean? A subset of the population that's exactly fitted in all ways to fit perfectly into OUR society as it is today? How many would that be? Probably a minority. And what happens when society evolves - this "perfectly neuro-standard" group evolve as well? Or would some get left behind?

    Or do you mean they are so neurostandard as to fit into ANY society, despite all the variations that entails? I'd say that's impossible.

    That's why I think the idea of non neurodivergence is meaningless. Everyone has their own quirks and difficulties. Some people have more than others. But it's not a binary "Yes you're neurodivergent" vs "No you're bog standard". Though I can see quite why some "neurodiverse" people - especially the self diagnosed (I know several) - like to see it that way.

    And autism, if we include what used to be Aspbergers, is simply a broad range of the far end of that spectrum, starting with people who are just a bit socially awkward, and going all the way to people who are non verbal. But TBH I think it was a really bad idea to lump those all in together. They don't have the same needs. It's like deciding there's an illness called "fever" - yes the symptoms may be similar but that doesn't improve care for all of them.

    "If a woman cannot stand in a public space and say, without fear of consequences, that men cannot be women, then women have no rights at all." Helen Joyce



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 2,028 ✭✭✭OscarMIlde


    I'm not disagreeing that people have difficulties with aspects/behaviours, what I am disagreeing with is whether they are severe enough to describe as a pathology. You describe yourself as masking and that you were like the guy I described in college. That guy would never have been able to mask, I don't think it would have occurred to him to have even attempted it. To want to and be able to mask shows a high ability theory of mind, something that would in the past have precludes a diagnosis of autism.

    I and my other non autistic siblings could all go out and describe our tendencies/traits to a degree that we could obtain an autism diagnosis. But for what use l, we all have jobs, relationships, friends. Some of us are more advanced in that than others.

    I think there should be help for all of us for our difficulties, whether it is shyness, anxiety, difficulties with social relationships without the need to necessarily label any defences we have as a pathology. None of us is this perfect typical being, we all have our foibles, some are just more socially acceptable than others.

    “Never argue with an idiot. They will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.”


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,346 ✭✭✭Mr.Wemmick


    That’s just an excuse for a deliberate government-led funding crisis. The SEND program isn’t fit for purpose mainly because councils have handed over local authority assessments and statement/report writing to cheap private companies that are making a balls of it. They’ve been making a balls of it since 2014 (when I was involved in SEND) and blaming parents for their cock-ups.
    What HMG really mean: the way councils have been forced to deal with SEND is unsustainable. Tory governments stopped funding SEND support/education and told Councils to sort it out through their own local budgets many moons ago. And now it seems that some local Burrough Councils across the U.K. are teetering on edge of bankruptcy.

    Kids don’t improve without support, they get worse. Support has become more and more difficult to access - the correlation obvious.

    To correct a myth that High Functioning Autism is easier, or less in need of support or a diagnosis is very wrong. Parents often struggle to cope with and mentally support higher functioning children because kids/young people are more aware of the extreme limits with their social communication skills or executive functioning abilities. Maintaining regulation to attend education or access learning can be very difficult. Suicide amongst this group is very high. They fall into the trans ideology too very easily, hoping to be understood and rescued.

    With Trump’s government we have RJK in the US talking about vaccine damage, death or illness. He’s very dangerous because he is too vague and loose with meaning, but I guess even a stopped clock is right twice a day and toxic overload via medication on autistic kids increases their difficulties.

    Methylation and absorption through the gut is crucially important for many kids, never mind SEND kids, and yet the research on this is very slow to come through. Wouldn’t surprise me to find we are slowly poisoning our kids with increases of hyper activity coming from a body and brain overload with no means of regulating itself. Compare the toxicity of our environments and food industries present day to that of the 1980s. I suspect that is where we might find some answers, if only research was properly funded, independent and not politicised or pharma controlled.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,346 ✭✭✭Mr.Wemmick



    Yet I know quite a few high functioning young people who are very capable, but very impaired. Crippled with anxiety and cannot regulate at all in school/college environments.

    Ireland is a better place to be for high functioning autistic young people. People are kinder (like you Oscar), more accommodating.. and school staff, by and large, have a warmth and understanding. I hope that never changes.

    If Baggins loses, we eats it whole..



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,346 ✭✭✭Mr.Wemmick


    Agree with everything you’ve written. Autism is a disability and as it’s so fecking complex, it cannot be understood at face value or singular witnessed experience.

    Because one person manages okay in a college setting between the hours of 10 -3 pm, doesn’t mean that they’re not in brutal physical and mental pain by the time they get home. Some people sleep for hours, others cry.. and some I know can’t access college at all or can only attempt it two times a week.

    Hidden co-morbidities are very common, sometimes so well hidden they take years to be diagnosed as an extra condition, and not something that is simply a part of an autism diagnosis.

    If Baggins loses, we eats it whole..



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 2,028 ✭✭✭OscarMIlde


    I didn't mean to be dismissive of your experiences by the way. I just genuinely think the definition of what constitutes autism has widened to an extent that it is genuinely not useful as a categorisation. I also disagree with Asperger syndrome being redefined into high functioning autism. I think autism and Asperger syndrome are related but distinct conditions, with some common comorbidities and predisposing factors (genetic and environmental).

    “Never argue with an idiot. They will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.”


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 9,055 ✭✭✭plodder


    I think it does give adults (who get a diagnosis) an insight into their past, if nothing else. That chap Blindboy was describing his first days at school and how uncontrollable his crying was, compared to other kids who were only upset for a short time. A sibling tried to explain to the nuns that if they played a particular music tape that he was obssessed with (T-Rex) it would calm him. The nuns would have none of it though, saying only music suitable for children would be played. Insights like that might be helpful for other people in dealing with the less severe cases. I'm presuming he only fully appreciated all this after he got the diagnosis.

    “The opposite of 'good' is 'good intentions'”



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 2,028 ✭✭✭OscarMIlde


    I guess my problem is that I could describe similar stuff from my own childhood and indeed adulthood. I just think that the abnormal thing in that situation is expecting a bunch of kids, most of whom develop at different rates and may indeed be be quite differing ages depending on when they were born, to all behave in the same manner when thrown into a new environment. If he had gone to a different school were the teachers said OK we'll do that and made similar accommodations throughout his life would he consider he needed a diagnosis?

    I just think people can have traits that are maladaptive in certain situations without that requiring the need for a diagnosis.

    Whereas someone unable to make any social connections whatsoever or requiring extremely rigid regimes probably does need a diagnosis as they require interventions to allow them to live a normal life.

    “Never argue with an idiot. They will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.”


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