19 year old autistic guy struggling to get a girlfriend

I don't think he is looking for advice or suggestions, just appears to wants someone to research direct matchmaking services for him. Perhaps this should be moved to the Online Dating Forum, where they might be more informed of such things?

Maybe not a barring order but he has been warned twice and told to give the female students a wide bearth, the third time, then the principal will have to move on it.

If he does it to the wrong student or the parents get involved yeah then there will be a report lodge. College students are highly entitled and protected. Wrong student would think nothing of organising the student union for less.

What you really need is for someone to point out what your doing wrong as your doing it and actually teach you. Nobody hear really knows what the issue is without seeing you in full flight. It could be something as simple as weird intense eye contact or being really nervous, which then makes those you speak with nervous of you.

weird intense eye contact

Funny you should say that. I knew this girl who done a fresh start course and there was a guy on the course similar to OP. I remember her telling me he looks at her weird. I didn't think much of it. I was in a niteclub one night and I seen him so I started talking to him and asked what are you doing here. To get a woman he replied. I remember talking to him and he was doing that weird eye thing too and I remember thinking to myself you would really want to learn to stop doing that if you want to get with a woman.

Having autism and adhd can mean youre more inclined to hyper focus on things and it seems like you might be hyper focused on finding a girlfriend and youre approaching this like youre trying to buy a pair of shoes or something, youve already had some negative experiences with your approach. This might indicate that you dont have the maturity to know what to do with a girlfriend or a relationship, if you found one. For now, I think you should really be focusing on yourself, developing hobbies and interests, focusing on your course and getting good marks, building friendships or atleast good relationships with acquaintances. You deserve love and connection but these things take time to build and to attract the right people you have to become someone theyre attracted to, this doesnt mean change who you are just become a more fulfilled version of yourself. You cant force anyone to like you or be interested in getting to know you and youve already gotten feedback from the college and other students either rejecting you, warning you to stop or refusing to introduce you to women they know. This doesnt mean youre a bad person or are flawed, it just means you need to step back from trying to date and start investing that energy into your own growth.

This is so true, social skills are a skill that can be learned! Have you ever looked into social skills coaching? There are lots of neuroaffirmative coaches and therapists that could help you.