Dealing with this wave of "validate my feelings, don't offer advice" mindset being adopted by women.

There are plenty of toxic and unhealthy 'friends' out there, just because she's female doesn't mean she should be kept on as a friend. If that friend crossed the line, then good riddance. This isn't rocket science. It's actually fairly sexist, when you drill down into it.

Anyway………….OP, here you go:

For the purpose of saving the relationship? There are obviously different types and levels of advice that you would offer your partner vs your boss vs your friend, to imply that it should be a constant across all levels is frankly bonkers.

You're over thinking it.

If someone makes every conversation, or piece of advice a minefield. Stay as far away as possible.

The other part of this is like a kid who won't listen to their parent but will listen to someone else giving exactly the same advice. This is why you get them driving lessons with someone else and avoid massive arguments.

It's called housekeeping, house maintenance and things like baking are hobbies that anyone can do. It's not gender specific.

It's like calling after school activity "lads football for girls".

I didn't say anyone had to change what they do. Just that it's advantageous to do so.

It's not only women who do this.

You cannot be so blind as to see why after posting in a tone putting down feminists and women, why using the term ¨housewifey things¨ would be seen as a red flag from you?? Regardless of if its your term or not.

Theres several in your opening post alone, not to mention the title of your tread.

Genuinely confused by this one tbh.

The OP complains about the phenomenon he’s observed of ‘women wanting their feelings validated’, gives examples of his girlfriend telling him straight out she doesn’t want his help, OP then goes on to argue with everyone here whose advice he doesn’t like…

The OP and his girlfriend are a match made in Heaven from what I’m seeing 😂

The word women isnt bad but treating women like a hive mind is, and yes from your descripton of ´feminist shithouse reactions´ i think youre misogynist.