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Missing 8yr Old Kyran Durnin - presumed dead *READ Mod Note Added to OP*

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,610 ✭✭✭✭NIMAN


    Need evidence first i suppose.

    I'm sure the AGS are trying to build a case against whoever they think is responsible in this case.

    And I'm sure they need to find a body too? Can anyone be charged with murder if there is no body? Surely the defence could say he might have been abducted and could still be alive?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,189 ✭✭✭Deregos.


    I'm sure they could prosecute someone without a body, but it would make it much more difficult to secure a conviction without one.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,637 ✭✭✭volchitsa


    is there any evidence that the father(s) want the children and are suitable parents themselves?

    ”I enjoy cigars, whisky and facing down totalitarians, so am I really Winston Churchill?” (JK Rowling)



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 856 ✭✭✭csirl


    Im not optimistic anything will happen. Nobody was ever charged with anything over the Kerry Babies in spite of them having both a body and in the past couple of years establishing the identity of the parents.

    What about the Family Law Courts? Father has been granted custody, but has not received custody. Surely they can Order the mother to appear and explain why? And if there's no cooperation.........well Enoch Burke has been in jail for not cooperating with the civil courts.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,637 ✭✭✭volchitsa


    This is just not true - the harsh truth is that it is far more rare for women to commit violent crimes than for men to do so, and when women do commit them, there is generally a cause such as mental health. Women, even criminals, just don’t generally commit violence for the sake of it in the way male criminals do.

    That’s also why male prisons are overcrowded - because there are so many more dangerous men than women.

    Though it seems Ireland has decided to even things up a bit by allowing violent men to identify as women and put them in female prisons…

    ”I enjoy cigars, whisky and facing down totalitarians, so am I really Winston Churchill?” (JK Rowling)



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 229 ✭✭apkmbarry


    The Father was granted custody, which he wouldn't have bothered unless he wanted the child. The court also wouldn't have granted it if he wasn't suitable. She fled two days prior to the handover.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,531 ✭✭✭Gusser09




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 91,032 ✭✭✭✭JP Liz V1


    Well Kyran's father wanted him and the court awarding him, would deem him suitable

    I would hope the other father(s) would want their kids safe, how many other kids and fathers are there?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,722 ✭✭✭✭josip


    I think someone earlier on said that there were 3 children including Kyran, each by a different father.



  • Posts: 436 ✭✭ [Deleted User]


    It's not an excuse it's a reason. Whether people like it or not, severe mental illness can cause violence. Or it might not be mental illness, but if a psychiatric assessment determines that they're mentally ill, then it is what it is. They still have to be locked up.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,832 ✭✭✭gameoverdude


    Has anybody been charged?

    Mental health issues or not, we need to stop chatting about alleged suspects



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,494 ✭✭✭Pauliedragon


    Torture has been proven time and time again to be completely useless when it comes to solving crime. Torture someone enough they'll admit to being Jack the ripper. What happens then? They admit the crime case solved and the real criminal goes free. Look up the Guildford 4 for example to see what police coercion achieves.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,983 ✭✭✭glenfieldman


    IMG_7979.jpeg

    Are you sure ??



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,983 ✭✭✭glenfieldman




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,547 ✭✭✭OscarMIlde


    While it's true that men do commit a lot more violent crimes than women, and that murders of children by mothers are often due to severe postnatal depression/psychosis, there are women who commit violent sadistic abuse of children. The recent case in the UK of Sara Sharif the stepmother was the primary perpetrator of the severe abuse she endured before her death.

    I know you weren't doing this, but I'm also not a fan of mental health being brought up from the get go if a woman is involved in a crime. It may be a factor but it shouldn't be assumed that it is unless there is evidence of such.



  • Posts: 436 ✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Yeah @OscarMIlde I agree it shouldn't be assumed someone who has carried out an horrific crime is mentally ill, but some people (not you) get their backs up if it's simply considered as a reason (because there's a chance it is) and seem to think it's letting the perpetrator off the hook. All it is is a consideration..



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,203 ✭✭✭✭Hotblack Desiato


    Kyren's father who spent years going through the court system and was granted custody doesn't want him and isn't a suitable parent? OK.

    I'm partial to your abracadabra,

    I'm raptured by the joy of it all.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 951 ✭✭✭Get Real


    Not necessarily. She's in England anyway. So applying for some kind of extradition isn't possible right now with....nothing to put to her.

    Yes, absolutely, a fair assumption to be suspicious. But to be able to extradite, charge and convict someone when this child could be gone 2 years, and the guards were only notified 7 weeks ago would be a bit sloppy no?

    I'd have thought there's so many "outs" for her to be drilled down first. An absolute fine tooth comb of Tusla and statements from staff etc and really nail down specific dates, who was saying what and who truthfully believed what.

    For all we know, she could turn round and say "sure I brought him on (insert recent date this year here) and Tusla saw him, fine and happy" when in actual fact he may have been killed years before or shortly after that.

    She could also come up with some bizarre story of handing him to a relative in England in (insert date here) and tally it up with when she last legitimately presented him to Tusla. An absolute off the wall story, but difficult to assume then and guarantee murder. The guards would be sitting there with nothing to refute her claim.

    Countless eggs need to be cracked here to have any chance of proceeding to a desired result imo. And in addition, an absolute forensic analyst of what Tusla staff knew, didn't know, did and didn't do. Not only to pin down the person responsible in a criminal investigation, but also to discover and hold accountable anyone in Tusla who was unprofessional on their end or simply ticking boxes.

    Imo staff were meeting a child and they were either 1) genuinely thought it was him (which would be unprofessional if they had met him on occasion before this) or 2) were simply going through motions and either (a) ticking a box without physically seeing him or (B) were presented with a child but were incompetent in not recognising it wasn't him.

    It stinks somewhere that after several years, they go to the guards 7 weeks ago. Plenty of opportunity to change timelines/accounts/stories in order to cover arse. I'm sure there was no active, deliberate mistake. But someone in there be it one individual or serval got lax and will be in a panic. And it's difficult to not take anything that they'd say with a pinch of salt. Of course they're going to say they followed x,y,z. But with the passage of time and their delay in reporting it, it'd be harder to disprove.

    Tusla only coming out weeks ago after possible years is a huge red flag imo. And people can be untruthful when it comes to accounts and blame imo. Varying accounts and "well, I did this" muddies the water so that there's a big haze there.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,610 ✭✭✭✭NIMAN


    How many caring mums, if their 8yr old son went missing in Ireland, would leave shortly after that to live in England?

    Just give up on him, and also leave her other 2 kids with granny?

    It's not adding up.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,081 ✭✭✭Large bottle small glass


    I don't think you are going to get your head around this case, when the truth emerges, by looking at it from the prism of a caring mother/non dysfunctional family.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,073 ✭✭✭✭Francie Barrett




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,531 ✭✭✭Gusser09


    Amazing. A young boys existence wiped out without any fuss. The mother more than likely gave a no comment interview. Posters on here making excuses for the garda not charging her. Disgusting.

    We have the same posters criticising tusla. They didnt kill the child.

    What about the grandmother? Who said she saw the child alive at the end of August? Mental health excuse slso?

    Mental health my hoop. Some people just dont want to admit that mothers can be pure evil and commit horrible crimes like this. Always an excuse.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,832 ✭✭✭gameoverdude


    Lost might be the wrong word.

    But still, how do they not make backups of critical data!? They have a governance responsibility to have all this information available for a certain time frame.

    Incompetent to say the least, but slowly being dragged into the 21st century.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,531 ✭✭✭Gusser09


    How do a mother and grandmother lose a child. Thats the more pertinent question.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 856 ✭✭✭csirl


    Or deleted. Wouldnt be the first time Tusla staff "lost" or adjusted files to cover up incompetence. I'm going to make an educated guess that nobody from Tusla met the child, but there are files that give the impression that they did.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,659 ✭✭✭✭Dial Hard


    Did anyone actually read the article??? It's not his case notes that were lost.

    "A Tusla spokeswoman said: “A system used by some staff in this regional area was not restored following the cyber ­attack, as it was based on old technology.

    “However, this was not the system of record for case notes and isn’t relevant to the internal review under way.”



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,073 ✭✭✭✭Francie Barrett


    Nonsense.

    An early job in my career involved managing backed up data to magnetic tape that was kept in physical storage. This was in the 80's!

    There's no excuse whatsoever that extremely important and sensitive child protection data in the 2020's should somehow go missing. None.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 856 ✭✭✭csirl


    They do have backups. Tusla also has a brand new paperless system where they can see who looked at and adjusted the file.

    One problem I foresee is that Tusla employees treat their system like Facebook. They all have unrestricted access ("just in case") and consequently you'll find that dozens of people are accessing the files for idle gossip purposes, so loads of data will need to be reviewed rather that the 2-3 individuals who held the case.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,531 ✭✭✭Gusser09




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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,531 ✭✭✭Gusser09


    Not relevant.



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