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French man accused of drugging his wife and inviting men to rape her

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,145 ✭✭✭monkeybutter


    There was never an argument that everyone was local either just most

    So you have no argument

    Your gotcha was lame



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,725 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    ? Are we really back to the feigned shock and disbelief that rapist didn’t self report themselves to the police? I know what a department is. I referenced them in an earlier post when discussing how large the population of the tri-department area was.

    go on remind me since you may know better than I the person who wrote it. How did I say “stretched across Europe“ what was the context? Until you go through that entire list and tell me where all of the defendants are from and give us a table, we cannot say for sure they do not hail from all across Europe and we can sure as hell say that the investigation taking down website where they conspired Was investigated all across Europe.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,034 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    It's not one case ever. It's the biggest case ever gone to court yet because bringing in other men is a bit more unusual. But that may be related to what men want - and it's not usually watching other men have sex.

    Another reason (apart from the sheer number of men involved, some of whom went on to use his method on their own partners) for thinking it may not be nearly as unusual as people - including myself - have supposed, is the number of times and specialists Gisele Pelicot consulted about her memory lapses and her gyne problems. And not one of them thought of chemical submission. So if nobody even thinks of it, how is anyone going to identify it happening?

    And finally, I posted articles about three different cases of a man raping a sleeping, and in some cases definitely drugged, woman in Ireland. In each case a partner or a close friend.

    So if you mean, a 70 year old woman raped by multiple men at the instigation of her husband, yes I'd say that's as rare as Harold Shipman murdering hundreds of old people is for doctors. But this is far from the only instance of a man that a woman trusted drugging her to have sex with her. In fact I'd say this is the tip of the iceberg.

    ”I enjoy cigars, whisky and facing down totalitarians, so am I really Winston Churchill?” (JK Rowling)



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,725 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    I am confused that you think being an active participant in the civic process is a monumental effort. Pointing out the challenges and obstacles is not saying it can’t be done, it is underlining what has to be committed to by the Irish electorate to change the things you are levying grievances about, like suspended sentences and the like. This example you’re sharing does nothing to address suspended sentences so I don’t know how that’s a rebuttal to what I said about criminal justice reforms as a response to the criminal justice shortcomings you highlighted, agreeably, as a problem. This doesn’t simplify our exchange as much as you think it does IMHO it just muddies it.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,034 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    Not the 72 rapists, as I said before. The 30 men who, when they learned that Pelicot wasn't just role playing with his wife but was raping her, said "No thanks" and left it at that.

    But you know this already.

    And as for across Europe, you got that wrong, and if you were being honest you'd admit it. The website was closed down after entirely separate investigations, 23,000 of them (do you really think that was all against one woman??) were made, because the site was being used to target men, especially gay men, for robberies.

    But again, you know that too.

    ”I enjoy cigars, whisky and facing down totalitarians, so am I really Winston Churchill?” (JK Rowling)



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,725 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    there absolutely has been that argument put forth, it is a claim central to the thesis of the OP:

    “He also didn't have to search too far to recruit the others - it was all within a fairly small zone. So unless there's some reason to think that particular small town and its surroundings make up some sort of "Little Britain" incestuous village - which AFAIK there isn't, then it's probably the same everywhere. Which means there are a lot of men living normal lives who are eager to rape an unconscious woman as long as her husband isn't going to punch their lights out.”



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,145 ✭✭✭monkeybutter


    The difficulty in pulling this off is massive

    Ita very rare as in Shipman was rare

    Yourself and overhead should go on a date, well suited



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,145 ✭✭✭monkeybutter


    It is not the case put forward

    What has been suggested is in line with what was reported you are just making up the rest because you can't admit being wrong



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,034 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    The above quote is fundamentally pretty accurate though. You and a couple of others have been trying to make out that I said "small ads in the local paper and suchlike, which I didn't. Your interpretation of what I said is wrong. And at this stage that can only be deliberate on your part.

    You can twist and turn all you like, but the facts are that a large number of men from a relatively small area, most with families and jobs, came to rape a nearly 70 year old woman who was so heavily drugged that the experts who saw the tapes said she was at risk of suffocating.

    You can try to minimise that as much as you like, but I think that says more about you than anything else.

    ”I enjoy cigars, whisky and facing down totalitarians, so am I really Winston Churchill?” (JK Rowling)



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,715 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    I am confused…

    Taking the five minutes to read the articles I posted might help inform your perspective. I say might, because it’s not guaranteed you wouldn’t still attempt to be so obtuse. Our exchange has been simplified massively, by being willing to meet half-way, so I’ll leave you get back to arguing the difference between local and international for all the good you imagine that’s likely to do. You’re likely already familiar enough with both systems to do the conversion between metric in Europe and Imperial in the US, so at least that’s one less confusion to be concerned about, which is progress, I guess 😒



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,034 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    So when I said 55 km it was actually only 50km, so in fact closer than I thought? Thanks for that.

    ”I enjoy cigars, whisky and facing down totalitarians, so am I really Winston Churchill?” (JK Rowling)



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,034 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    Yeah like I said, like Shipman. But that doesn't mean other doctors haven't killed far fewer patients, and in fact the NHS changed its whole organisation of doctors' surgery as a result of Shipman, so that it's now very rare to have single doctor practices. And Shipman didn't bring in 70 other doctors to join him. So we're already in a situation where 'men drugging women to have sex' is not nearly as rare as Shipman.

    Because my point is not that men all around the country are pimping their wives out to other men. My point is that some perfectly normal seeming men, with jobs and families are doing some version of drugging their partner for sex, and that when other men are aware of it they let it go on. Male solidarity? Bros not hos? I don't know - but not one man went to the police, or even made an anonymous phone call. Even though 30% of those interested didn't go through with it so had done nothing illegal.

    And maybe male posters (not you) getting their knickers in a twist about women saying "this is more worrying than just a single madman", are part of why these men get off with it. Because we're not even allowed to talk about it without being attacked. It's more important to men like overheal that men's feelings shouldn't be hurt than that the subject should be allowed to be discussed openly.

    ”I enjoy cigars, whisky and facing down totalitarians, so am I really Winston Churchill?” (JK Rowling)



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,552 ✭✭✭kaymin




  • Posts: 1,125 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    funny how you are so violently pro woman but your signature is transphobic. You seem to only care for the safety of a select group and **** everyone else.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,195 ✭✭✭Large bottle small glass


    The distance from Mazan or Paris is important in terms of the getting a handle on the scale.

    If all the men who raped the victim are within 50km of Mazan; then that's 50-60 men out of a population of 500,000.

    If they are all within 100km then that's 50-60 men out of a population of 4,000,000. Both population according to chatgpt.

    All local or mostly local means nothing in terms of quantifying the scale of what is one of the horrific things I've ever read.

    When we have the names and locations of all the perpetrators we'll have some idea of the size of the pool the husband selected from.

    Given the scale of this, the ease of using the web to carry it out, I'd be surprised if there aren't more. Maybe not as prolific but there must be others.

    It really is hard to wrap your head around the horror of what happened to this woman. There must be a better way to prosecute cases than making her sits through weeks of this.

    My work brings me into all types of courts civil, criminal, coroner and I frequently observe victims or their families having to sit through some pretty difficult evidence. There's a atmosphere/tension that's hard to describe; but it's usually for an hour or two or at most a couple of days. The sheer enormity of this thing is hard to comprehend.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,704 ✭✭✭downthemiddle


    Unfortunately the horrific experience of the victim is being lost in this thread.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,145 ✭✭✭monkeybutter


    But you don't seem to have an actual point

    I mean he targeted a certain crowd looking for this

    If he hadn't done that he'd be have been rumbled

    They let him film and take pics like

    That is grade a stupid

    It is a miracle no one ratted him out



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,145 ✭✭✭monkeybutter


    It's too late to posting links when you can easily find it



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,725 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    Help me out here: the NYT reported 83 suspects, and that 50 have been charged with rape, and that the daughter stated 72. The article that was linked to here in the thread said

    police counted 92 rapes committed by 72 men, of whom 51 were formally identified. 

    Something doesn't math out here, where are you getting that 30 didn't rape her, genuine question I want to clear up this math as it shouldn't be controversial: 50 charged (NYT), 51 identified (Telegraph) edit: 1 didn't rape the victim, he instead is charged raping his own wife, and then 72, and 83, then, 11 didn't rape her. Not 30. No pointed argument about that, just trying to clarify the exact numbers as it does not appear to add up to what is known. I don't recall reporting linked to in this thread reporting 30 as a figure and not seeing it in either of these 2 articles.

    Thread's been over this ask about why they didn't go to the police: 1) none of us know, the courts involved may get to the bottom of that, 2) none of us again know if they weren't involved in various other sex crimes, the husband particularly is an edge case even among rapists but we know he is charged in other rapes of his own spanning decades, and was upskirting women with cameras, etc. etc., it seems entirely reasonable to assume that these 11-30 individuals were not simply fantasy-curious innocents and 3) had already likely crossed the criminal boundary through the means and methods by which they were recruited by the husband, even if they did not go through with raping her (or they feared they had already committed a crime or didn't want to be investigated) 4) We don't even know what their reasons for not raping her were, it could have ranged from as you suggest (and they allege in their legal defenses) 'this is wrong, I'm out,' to 'actually she's not my type' to 'this feels like a trap' etc. etc.

    The investigation of the website was "across Europe" without anyone yet telling us the full scope of where these men in this particular case all hailed from, that is the bounds of where our knowledge is about the case:

    He met most of the men, the investigating judge’s report stated, in a chat room on a notorious, unmoderated French website implicated in more than 23,000 police cases in France alone from 2021 to 2024. It was finally shut down, and its owner arrested, in June after an 18-month investigation stretching across Europe.

    The chat room where most of the men met Mr. Pelicot was called “a son insu,” which means “without their knowledge.”

    I note the chat room wasn't "without her knowledge, Mazan edition" etc. and it's not as though people who speak French are bound to live within France, as stated some of the men are truck drivers, soldiers, tradesmen etc. and travel for work, especially in the EU, is hardly uncommon such as for trades, I knew people in Clarecastle who flew home on the weekends, but made a killing flying out to the UK and France etc. for road-related construction and engineering during the Celtic Tiger, flights being cheap and fast, and their work paying quite well.

    We agree that the case is shocking, these men are monsters, and quite a lot of them are local, but I would not go so far as to agree with your initial assessments - that it's "probably the same everywhere" and that this case is not some "Little Britain" outlier:

    He also didn't have to search too far to recruit the others - it was all within a fairly small zone. So unless there's some reason to think that particular small town and its surroundings make up some sort of "Little Britain" incestuous village - which AFAIK there isn't, then it's probably the same everywhere. Which means there are a lot of men living normal lives who are eager to rape an unconscious woman as long as her husband isn't going to punch their lights out.


    The nature of this case is highly unorthodox compared to reporting on rapes I have seen across my lifetime (which does include the world over, reports of sex rings, child sex rings, human trafficking etc. but this case is still something of an oddity how it went about). A sinister motive, with a found opportunity through the internet chatroom, and as discussed, many of these men were "working class and middle class," people with their own money, and means, it would not surprise me that these men could travel far for the opportunity the husband was presenting to them.

    We would even agree that there are, given the insight the case has offered, more individual men out in the world, of status, who have the means, and the motivation and may or may not have the opportunity to travel for consensual or non consensual encounters, I think it would be fair to say there is at least one matching that description in most communities - truck driver, soldier, priest, handyman, any walk of life, the walk of life likely doesn't factor to their criminally deviant disposition (though in some cases I argue like eg. priests, again, they seek out positions of social trust as a means to the motive).

    Where we diverge is I think it's a stretch to say these kind of rape sex rings happen everywhere though as your above statement would imply in this thread as being 'in every or nearly every village' there being an "incestuous" sex ring underbelly either happening or just waiting to happen if one husband gets on the current form of seedy craigslist and asks if people wanna have a nonconsensual go of their wife.

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,725 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    The above quote is fundamentally pretty accurate though. You and a couple of others have been trying to make out that I said "small ads in the local paper and suchlike, which I didn't.

    We also don't know that he wouldn't have had just as much success with a more open format. It may have been the risk of a WOMAN denouncing him that stopped him putting a small ad in the local rag.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,552 ✭✭✭kaymin


    One million people live within a 50km radius of Mazan.

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,195 ✭✭✭Large bottle small glass




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,034 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    I already explained where the 3 in 10 came from, and probably gave a link, but you were too busy calling me a liar. So you can just go back over the thread if you want to know.

    Meanwhile, here's another one for you from that same list of accused men above: Simoné Mekeneze, ex-army ranger, now living in Carpentras with his American wife and three sons, barely 9 km away from Mazan

    https://www.facebook.com/simone.mekenese.3/

    And not a single one so far has turned out to be from the other side of France. Never mind elsewhere in Europe.

    ”I enjoy cigars, whisky and facing down totalitarians, so am I really Winston Churchill?” (JK Rowling)



  • Posts: 1,125 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Because that’s not the intent of the OP and their anti everyone but their definition of what a woman is.

    Post number two on this post said all that was needed. The OP’s agenda is why this toxic crap still dribbles on



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,034 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    Even if it's four million, zero out of the at least one hundred men who knew what was happening went to the police. Not a single one. What are the odds of that?

    ”I enjoy cigars, whisky and facing down totalitarians, so am I really Winston Churchill?” (JK Rowling)



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,641 ✭✭✭Former Former Former


    this thread was never, ever about the victim or the case. It has gone exactly as the OP wanted.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,552 ✭✭✭kaymin




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,725 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    I already explained where the 3 in 10 came from, and probably gave a link, but you were too busy calling me a liar.

    I never called you a liar.

    "probably" gave a link doesn't clarify it at all. I guess I am given no choice but to go with the information I can verify, which is 11 men didn't go through with the rape of the woman here. If you wish to claim 19 other men didn't you're welcome to supply the evidence definitively.

    3 down, 50 to go in your series profiling the men charged, I look forward to the remainder.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,552 ✭✭✭kaymin


    Jasus, it took you longer to write that reply than it would to post the link. I've googled and couldn't find.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,034 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    Right. I said he didn't put it in a small ad - because I had been accused of having implied he had.

    ”I enjoy cigars, whisky and facing down totalitarians, so am I really Winston Churchill?” (JK Rowling)



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