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Did you enjoy college /3rd level Education Life?

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  • Registered Users Posts: 4,160 ✭✭✭blackbox


    An enjoyable four years - maybe I should have got a better result but then I might have missed out on other things.

    However, the four years was enough. I was ready to move on. Lots of colleagues stayed on to do PhDs etc. as there were few jobs at the time but that wasn't for me.



  • Registered Users Posts: 1,679 ✭✭✭fluke


    Interesting to see the comments about people going through an awkward sort of time during their college years. I definitely felt as though I enjoyed college a helluva lot more than school, but college came with it's fair share of drama, among my peers, and at least for me, there was a lot of growing up to do.



  • Registered Users Posts: 5,177 ✭✭✭Oscar_Madison


    just a note to say thanks for all contributors so far - it’s a slow moving but very interesting thread and read- hopefully it will grow over time - I know it’s not quite a “discussion item” but sometimes less is more - I’ve read all posts - certainly so far it’s clear that whilst we all thought we’d take on the world going to college it can be a daunting place too - we were still all growing up to various degrees .

    Cheers and thanks again .



  • Registered Users Posts: 3,515 ✭✭✭hoodie6029


    Seems like an age ago now. But I enjoyed it overall.

    I didn’t get people who started (or more likely were forced to start) college young. I know one guy started a 3 year Law degree at 17. He was still 6 months shy of his 21st and he was done and out working! I didn’t start til I was 19 and with hindsight 20 would have been a better age to start at. Still immature enough to have wanton fun but ‘old’ enough to be responsible for your study.

    Post edited by hoodie6029 on

    The road to Hell is paved with good intentions.



  • Registered Users Posts: 2,598 ✭✭✭PommieBast


    Undergrad and PhD combined totalled 9 years. Mostly enjoyable but the last 18 or so months ranks as the worst time of my life.



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  • Registered Users, Moderators, Regional Abroad Moderators Posts: 2,190 Mod ✭✭✭✭Nigel Fairservice


    I spent 4 years in UCC in the early to mid 2000s and had a great time. I struggled academically a bit in secondary school and had to repeat my Leaving Cert. I seemed to hit my stride in college and did reasonably well without having to kill myself. Lots of time spent playing Pro Evolution in friends houses on College Road between classes and having tea in the student centre or the Green Kiwi. Very care free days for the most part

    I wish I had been a bit more adventurous with some of the opportunities I could have had in college. Looking back I would have loved to do an Erasmus year abroad or a J1, or both!

    I did a masters at a UK university after for 2 years. In Cork I knew a lot of people in UCC before we ever got to college. In the UK I knew nobody. You had to make more of an effort to meet people but I did end up meeting some wonderful people.



  • Registered Users Posts: 1,785 ✭✭✭mrslancaster


    They were the best years, ug UCD and pg DCU, loved my courses and made some lifelong friends.



  • Registered Users Posts: 274 ✭✭lmk123


    hated school, loved every minute of college made some great friends, it was great crack but if I had to any longer back then my liver would’ve given in



  • Registered Users Posts: 28,925 ✭✭✭✭Wanderer78


    crippling depression and anxiety, guess it wasnt great for me…..



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    Enjoyed university so much that when they offered me a research assistant job after 4-year graduation I took it without hesitation.

    Later on I moved to another university after getting another grant researcher offer, while pursuing advanced degrees. Love it so much that I will probably stay in the Ivory Tower as long as they will have me. I’m publishing, so I won’t perish.



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  • Registered Users Posts: 10,536 ✭✭✭✭Furze99


    More like early 80s here and yes it was good experience, knocked the edges off for sure with fellow students being from a wide variety of backgrounds. Only downside was going into the jobs market mid 80s - not a great time to be getting in the door.



  • Registered Users Posts: 24,888 ✭✭✭✭Strumms


    didn’t enjoy it. Without getting into specifics, the course was not as advertised. It was the first year of it we were like guinea pigs. the language lab we were supposed to have access to didn’t appear till year two. The language lab when it did appear was essentially a room full of desks with a tape player and headphones. So why it took that long or why it was determined to be a ‘lab’

    the head honcho refused to take any responsibility for it and told us to take our problems and concerns to the department of education…not her. This despite at the beginning her lauding the course and state of the art facility 🤪…more like state of the facility.

    Made friends and got to spend some time abroad working as part of the language element of the course, the sole enjoyable aspect…



  • Registered Users Posts: 557 ✭✭✭BaywatchHQ


    I had a bittersweet experience at university in the early 2010s. I did like the experience of city life in a GB city but I was a loner and spending weeks without much social interaction wasn't good for someone in the prime of youth. My hope at 18 was that I could have friends and meet girls and have a normal life. It turns out I was an incel and I wasn't aware of that because the incel internet sub culture hadn't really started at that time.

    I was obsessed with the idea of visiting an escort and would scroll through the escort websites but wasn't low inhibition enough to go through with it. You know it is over when you are looking at escort websites aged 20. The height of my sexual experience at university was doing live cam sessions on Adultwork. Nowadays young people have others to chat to in that situation because of incel and blackpill forums and YouTube channels.



  • Registered Users Posts: 705 ✭✭✭weadick


    I hear people talking about college days as the best of their lives and often wonder where it went wrong or didn't work out for me. I did four years in Carlow and one year in UCD and hated it, especially Carlow. I only made two or three real friends in my time in college and even then I haven't seen any of them in person since graduation. I'm glad I got the degrees but don't look back on that time with any nostalgia, it was mostly crap.



  • Registered Users Posts: 8,976 ✭✭✭pgj2015


    I think a lot of it has to do with luck, the group of people in my small class of about 20 were all very similar, the year ahead of us who did the same course were a bunch of twats mostly and so if I ended up in that class, college mightn't have been half as good.

    But god did we have fun, out 2 or 3 nights a week sometimes, rag week was 5 nights out in a row, BBQs, foreign holidays, Raves, gigs in Dublin, 24 hours parties sometimes, college bar.



  • Registered Users Posts: 18,325 ✭✭✭✭gormdubhgorm


    I would say absolutely yes - both times suited me down to the ground, to be honest. I learned much more than in secondary school that is for sure. Not sure I would have the energy for it now though.

    Post grad I had even more appreciation for it all. I lived on campus then, so even handier. Loved having to do research (when research was proper research mostly done manually as the internet was in the more basic days), loved the buzz and energy of the places.

    Obviously there was the drinking and parties etc. But from what I remember there was not too much of that. Because the courses were so time consuming. But the 'pubs' (plural) were all short distances from the colleges I was in. So there was always the chance of a couple of pints anyway.

    Lost touch with the friends I made etc and those from the courses. But out of curiosity, I looked them up during lockdown to see what they were doing. Those that are still around are doing well. I think, I was very lucky to be in exceptionally good groups of people who sort of drove me on by their high standards, and they were always helpful.

    Guff about stuff, and stuff about guff.



  • Registered Users Posts: 4,019 ✭✭✭Bredabe


    As a mature student with a "disability" it was tough going especially as I was promised particular support which were then refused at every turn. Being gaslite by senior members of staff constantly was enough to drive me to the edge.

    The lack of respect from senior lecturers was also an issue, as was the arrogance shown by some of my class on the mandatory notice board assignments. Lack of maturity in the staff who were supposed to help(am aware I was old enough to be someone's granny, but grannies need support too)

    The things I enjoyed most after the discounts on the card and the ability to access experiences I wouldn't have previously, was how much I learned about ppl and how norms expected their educational experiences to be. I met some truly lovely grad students who kept me sane.

    One of the most enjoyable things is the look on people's faces when I tell them I have an honours degree from a recognised university! They go the most enjoyable shade of green some of them.

    "Have you ever wagged your tail so hard you fell over"?-Brod Higgins.



  • Registered Users Posts: 2,136 ✭✭✭eightieschewbaccy


    Yep, if you're dealing with personal issues like that, it can a bit crippling to start out in college I found. You don't really have the confidence to start making friends and it can be incredibly lonely.



  • Registered Users Posts: 561 ✭✭✭iffandonlyif


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  • Registered Users Posts: 423 ✭✭Amberjack


    went to UCD in the early 90s, hated it, was like a factory, you were just another number. Now as I was a Dub I got the Dart there and back so probably would have had a better experience if I lived on campus or local digs. In later years I went back and did additional studies at smaller colleges which in my opinion were so much more personal and friendlier and made good friends there.



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  • Registered Users Posts: 8,297 ✭✭✭BrianD3


    Re: UCD being too big and like a factory, what are people's thoughts on the characteristics of an institution that are likely to result in a good undergrad experience. I've always encouraged people to attend institutions' in Dublin, Cork, Galway, Limerick. Self contained campus if possible. Students from all over the country attending. Plenty of accommodation fairly near to the campus and/or on campus. Critical mass of highly intelligent people. weirdos (students and lecturers) and hot women.

    I've known a good few people who attended RTCs/ITs in medium sized towns and while they seemed to have gotten a decent and practical education in these institutions, the experience that they describe wouldn't appeal to me. Sounded like school but with more drinking and a lot of lazy disinterested students, normies, students living at home who didn't want to make new friends etc. Also, could be BS but one lad who attended Sligo IT claimed that if you missed a certain number of lectures, a letter would be sent to your parents. Jesus wept if true.



  • Registered Users Posts: 3,331 ✭✭✭HBC08


    I was in Galway RTC in the late 90s.

    I didn't attend about 90% of lectures,they rang my parents.

    Even though it was midweek I just happened to be at home and answered the call.



  • Registered Users Posts: 2,598 ✭✭✭PommieBast


    These days it would likley get them in trouble over data protection.

    Dunno about Ireland but during my time in Bristol (even after graduation I still had lots of departmental contacts) I noticed how students had become more conservative and diligent. Especially post-2008 people tended to drop out rather than drink their way to a Desmond.



  • Registered Users Posts: 14,067 ✭✭✭✭retalivity


    Hated it, the place was full of tossers and I was broke for most of it, so couldnt afford to have the good time that everyone else was having.

    Stuck it out and graduated & got my first job, then the party started…



  • Registered Users Posts: 13,519 ✭✭✭✭cj maxx


    University was a disaster . Being from Ireland I didn’t qualify for a grant plus I hadn’t done chemistry in school so getting accepted on a pharmacology degree course wasn’t the brightest idea . I passed my early exams and lab work but the need to work to pay rent got in my way .



  • Registered Users Posts: 2,466 ✭✭✭Hamachi


    Agree with this to a large extent. I went to UCD a decade after you (2000-2005). I’m from the country, so always lived in house shares, but never on campus. First year was pretty lonely. As you say, very anonymous and you feel like a unit on a conveyor belt. I did make friends in various house shares in subsequent years and left with a small set of individual friends, three or four of whom I still meet in person all these years later. It was just fortunate that our paths crossed though.

    I did postgraduate study in Cork and abroad. It was infinitely easier to make friends compared to UCD. Having said that, those friendships haven’t stood the test of time, whereas the small number of UCD relationships remain intact to this day.

    There’s something a bit ‘off’ about the atmosphere in Belfield. As somebody else said, if you’re not part of the South Dublin clique or fail to stumble into a sociable class, it can be an alienating experience. The huge class sizes in particular faculties also play a role in creating that sense of anonymity. If I was 17 again, I would give UCD a wide berth with the benefit of hindsight.



  • Registered Users Posts: 18,325 ✭✭✭✭gormdubhgorm


    I lived on campus in UCD (Post Grad) and fortunately the course I was on, there where there were only small numbers of people. They were all sound from what I remember.

    I can understand how people get "lost" in UCD as a young girl/fella fresh from school, especially if they are shy types and lived at home. I always felt sorry for the people in the courses where there were massive numbers like arts. That would be even worse.

    Post edited by gormdubhgorm on

    Guff about stuff, and stuff about guff.



  • Registered Users Posts: 2,466 ✭✭✭Hamachi


    Yep. One of the friends I made through a house share did an arts degree in UCD. Lovely girl, but quite introverted until you get to know her. She had a torrid time for her first two years. She really fell through the cracks and scarcely knew anybody. She described weeks on end barely speaking to anybody on campus. She randomly moved into a house share with my buddy and I plus another girl who was also stranger initially. We all got along really well. She only really got some enjoyment from the place in her third and final year. I don’t think her experience is that uncommon in UCD.



  • Registered Users Posts: 6,571 ✭✭✭suvigirl


    I loved the college 'life' too much in the early 90s

    Social life, drinking, drugs, working part time, did not go well with going to college. while I have a couple of friends from that time, most of my good friends were made in school or through work.

    College itself was not good, my secondary school didn't prepare any of us for the different type of study we had to do in college. So, I left after first year and spent a few years working in different jobs, when I went back I was more mature and sure of myself and did a lot better.

    Am back again now, after doing a degree in a different area, am now studying for a masters. It's totally different as a part time mature student, but it is much easier this time round.



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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,671 ✭✭✭I see sheep


    Absolutely.

    Get up and watch Home & Away. Into the canteen or bar meet a few people for a cup of tea. Lunch somewhere (maybe a roll from Wards). Into the bookies for a couple of hours. College bar for a couple of pints. Home and throw a frozen Pizza on. Start drinking. Into the pub, into the nightclub, Supermacs/Charcoal Grill. Do it all again the next day.



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