online dating

Agree. Think it's a waste of 'getting to know each other a bit more' time.

But at least you've Fri night to do that.

yep they do and its all for show and then be in debt for next 30 years paying for it lol

stop throwing your length in then 😀

I was about to comment that the problem might lie with you.

But this was a much better response. Actually lolled.

(That's 2 positives today and it's not even lunchtime yet)

your cock , stop giving it to the bride and they may not have to divorce 😁

matched with a woman last weekend , got chatting , going fine , within 3 days she was planning weekends away for us , sending me hotels and if I liked them or where would I bring us, , even said if things go well would I like to go on the family holiday during summer!! ., constant voice notes ( which I hate anyway ) , messaging / wattsapp we hadn’t even met face to face , got very intense far too quick , spooked me bigtime I have politely declined to meet and legged it pronto !

Men get bad rep at times , there’s a fair few lunatic women knocking about too !

Jeq would've been all over it but you're the last person I was expecting to say that.

so was on POF last night and some random girl mailed me to say the dreaded words " your famous on the facebook page " , so apparently i'm on this facebook page that the ladies set up to warn people of others

so i thanked her for the headsup and asked her to post something good about me to blow their heads lol

she said no based on what she heard ........

so people believe strangers on a page that post under annon usernames , sounds legit

if you have honest info etc why post under annon username ?

devastated that some bitter twisted bint is slagging me 😁😁😁

I'll never get a date again ha ha ha ha ha

Was she from Cavan by any chance?

I think you've probably made the right choice here - for you at least. I know I wouldn't be suggesting trips to anywhere with someone I hadn't met in real life. When you meet and there's no attraction it can make you want to back track RAPIDLY on some of the things you've said in the getting-to-know-you conversation. (Same with dirty talk, no point getting all hot and horny with someone you don't even know if you fancy)

As you can see others here would have made a different choice. She might find someone who is enthralled by her enthusiasm. Give Breezy her number will ya 🤣

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I'm on it. If you want to send me a pic I'll have a look. I never post on it, just keep an eye on it out of interest, so you don't need to worry about me saying anything on it.

That said, they're fairly tight-knit in terms of women telling lads they're on it because it can really put the woman in danger, some men who are posted are legit fcking dangerous (although to be fair, if you'd sense you wouldn't be posting about someone like that and giving them reason to come after you). If they find out who shared the post with a dude they screenshot your page to call you out and then remove you.

The posts that go up are always reviewed by mods beforehand, they're strict on that to avoid any lawsuit sh1t, they do ask for proof like texts etc. for any accusations. So whoever put you up must have had something on you whatever it was.

Only ever seen 2 ppl I spoke to on it. One person I spoke to like 15 years ago is on it, and rightly so tbh - he was sending me abusive messages for ages after I said I wasn't interested in chatting more and even found me online to keep sending them. The other, I spoke to briefly but wasn't into him, and the post was basically a ton of girls saying he always arranged to meet and ghosted (not a crime worthy of sticking his pic up IMO). You could be more on that end of the spectrum.

I'm after getting my fella's bday present sorted early and I'm delighted cause I know he's going to love it, it'll be a complete surprise.

Trying to suss out Valentines though as my ex was Italian and very over the top about it, so we went all out, but that really isn't my current BFs vibe. I know his ex wasn't into any of that stuff either and they were together like 10 years. And as we won't be together on the day (I fly over a week later) I'm unsure if he's going to do anything at all. Like I might get flowers but... ehhh I dunno if he's ever even bought ones. 😂 I actually sent him flowers a few weeks ago to celebrate his new job and he said he never got ones before! Girls - buy yo men flowers!

I do have something I want to send him (something I made) with a card, so I'm thinking if I do that it's like small enough to not make him feel bad if he doesn't realise I'm arsed about Valentines (I am, but I can see why ppl would think I'm not). I honestly wouldn't mind if he didn't bother, but I just want to because I like getting/making special things for people that I know will mean something to them, it's my way of showing love I guess.

Ah, I didn't notice anything more than usual. It's all in good fun I think. But if it's annoying you just say and I'm sure ppl would tone it down. Everyone likes you and all of your quirks Jeq!

Yeah but man, they Sherlock the sh1t out of anyone who leaks stuff, sooo many girls have had their profiles posted when they get found out. Not sure I want the whole group after me.🤣

On the ones posting the dangerous dudes (and they are, we're talking like with newspaper links about assault etc.) they can post anon (the mods know who they are) or get someone else to post for them, but there are cases where the guys obviously know it's them based on the info they give.