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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,033 ✭✭✭YellowLead


    I think the cinema in fine if you go for dinner or drinks after, but it was a bit late and in a dodgy part of the city. But yes there are other things that are better overall where you can chat away



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 496 ✭✭Goodigal


    Agree. Think it's a waste of 'getting to know each other a bit more' time.

    But at least you've Fri night to do that.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,308 ✭✭✭Pwindedd


    Got todays one - if everything else falls apart today I have achieved something at least 🤣



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 283 ✭✭Ivor_Guddon


    yep they do and its all for show and then be in debt for next 30 years paying for it lol

    Post edited by Boards.ie: Mike on


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,268 ✭✭✭Mister Vain


    Every wedding I've been to the couple ended up getting divorced as well.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 283 ✭✭Ivor_Guddon




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,268 ✭✭✭Mister Vain


    Throwing my length? You will have to explain that one to me. 😄



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,308 ✭✭✭Pwindedd


    I was about to comment that the problem might lie with you.

    But this was a much better response. Actually lolled.

    (That's 2 positives today and it's not even lunchtime yet)



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 283 ✭✭Ivor_Guddon


    now i have to explain it to him which looses the fun



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 283 ✭✭Ivor_Guddon


    your cock , stop giving it to the bride and they may not have to divorce 😁



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,268 ✭✭✭Mister Vain


    Ha I haven't heard that phrase before. Is that a Dublin thing? Its the full of the pipe out in the country.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,159 ✭✭✭andrew1977


    matched with a woman last weekend , got chatting , going fine , within 3 days she was planning weekends away for us , sending me hotels and if I liked them or where would I bring us, , even said if things go well would I like to go on the family holiday during summer!! ., constant voice notes ( which I hate anyway ) , messaging / wattsapp we hadn’t even met face to face , got very intense far too quick , spooked me bigtime I have politely declined to meet and legged it pronto !

    Men get bad rep at times , there’s a fair few lunatic women knocking about too !



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 496 ✭✭Goodigal


    Thats very intense 😳 I think you had a lucky escape there



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,398 ✭✭✭raclle


    Jeq would've been all over it but you're the last person I was expecting to say that.

    Post edited by Boards.ie: Mike on


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 283 ✭✭Ivor_Guddon


    she would have rocked your world i bet

    i'd have at least met her tbh

    Post edited by Boards.ie: Mike on


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 283 ✭✭Ivor_Guddon


    so was on POF last night and some random girl mailed me to say the dreaded words " your famous on the facebook page " , so apparently i'm on this facebook page that the ladies set up to warn people of others

    so i thanked her for the headsup and asked her to post something good about me to blow their heads lol

    she said no based on what she heard ........

    so people believe strangers on a page that post under annon usernames , sounds legit

    if you have honest info etc why post under annon username ?

    devastated that some bitter twisted bint is slagging me 😁😁😁

    I'll never get a date again ha ha ha ha ha



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,159 ✭✭✭andrew1977


    She is taking a break from work at the minute , lot of time on her hands , my phone was non stop hopping with messages and me working full time. She wanted to meet asap , bit of a distance between us too , I said that’s an issue and I’m away the weekend for bank holiday ( which I am ) and busy with work next week and left it at that .

    Way too intense for me to be honest , if I said the same stuff to a woman within a few days she would think I’m cracked !

    Post edited by Boards.ie: Mike on


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,268 ✭✭✭Mister Vain




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 283 ✭✭Ivor_Guddon


    and i have been off dating apps etc for past 8 months , up until like 2 weeks ago and 100 % never treated anybody badly or slagged somebody

    so somebody i didn't want to meet perhaps " if i can't have him , then no one can " ha ha , some saddo's

    sooner these groups are taken down the better



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,308 ✭✭✭Pwindedd


    I think you've probably made the right choice here - for you at least. I know I wouldn't be suggesting trips to anywhere with someone I hadn't met in real life. When you meet and there's no attraction it can make you want to back track RAPIDLY on some of the things you've said in the getting-to-know-you conversation. (Same with dirty talk, no point getting all hot and horny with someone you don't even know if you fancy)

    As you can see others here would have made a different choice. She might find someone who is enthralled by her enthusiasm. Give Breezy her number will ya 🤣



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,412 ✭✭✭Jequ0n


    I seem to have a terrible reputation in this group …



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,308 ✭✭✭Pwindedd




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,159 ✭✭✭andrew1977


    Absolutely, right decision for me , only dipping my toes back into hopefully the dating scene and this encounter first off alarmed me . Wanting to book a night away somewhere for both of us when we’d not met in person even for a coffee is madness . Most blokes would probably say .. ah feck it I’ll go for it , not my kind of style / interest . Rather meet have the chats / develop a spark if there was one and go from there .

    She was very full on , about meeting her kids etc , talked to her family about me already .we had been chatting 3 days . Weird in my book but as others have said , fine for them .



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,733 ✭✭✭PoisonIvyBelle


    I'm on it. If you want to send me a pic I'll have a look. I never post on it, just keep an eye on it out of interest, so you don't need to worry about me saying anything on it.

    That said, they're fairly tight-knit in terms of women telling lads they're on it because it can really put the woman in danger, some men who are posted are legit fcking dangerous (although to be fair, if you'd sense you wouldn't be posting about someone like that and giving them reason to come after you). If they find out who shared the post with a dude they screenshot your page to call you out and then remove you.

    The posts that go up are always reviewed by mods beforehand, they're strict on that to avoid any lawsuit sh1t, they do ask for proof like texts etc. for any accusations. So whoever put you up must have had something on you whatever it was.

    Only ever seen 2 ppl I spoke to on it. One person I spoke to like 15 years ago is on it, and rightly so tbh - he was sending me abusive messages for ages after I said I wasn't interested in chatting more and even found me online to keep sending them. The other, I spoke to briefly but wasn't into him, and the post was basically a ton of girls saying he always arranged to meet and ghosted (not a crime worthy of sticking his pic up IMO). You could be more on that end of the spectrum.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,733 ✭✭✭PoisonIvyBelle


    Oooh I'm off to hunt down the frenchies in it.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,733 ✭✭✭PoisonIvyBelle


    I'm after getting my fella's bday present sorted early and I'm delighted cause I know he's going to love it, it'll be a complete surprise.

    Trying to suss out Valentines though as my ex was Italian and very over the top about it, so we went all out, but that really isn't my current BFs vibe. I know his ex wasn't into any of that stuff either and they were together like 10 years. And as we won't be together on the day (I fly over a week later) I'm unsure if he's going to do anything at all. Like I might get flowers but... ehhh I dunno if he's ever even bought ones. 😂 I actually sent him flowers a few weeks ago to celebrate his new job and he said he never got ones before! Girls - buy yo men flowers!

    I do have something I want to send him (something I made) with a card, so I'm thinking if I do that it's like small enough to not make him feel bad if he doesn't realise I'm arsed about Valentines (I am, but I can see why ppl would think I'm not). I honestly wouldn't mind if he didn't bother, but I just want to because I like getting/making special things for people that I know will mean something to them, it's my way of showing love I guess.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,412 ✭✭✭Jequ0n




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,733 ✭✭✭PoisonIvyBelle


    Ah, I didn't notice anything more than usual. It's all in good fun I think. But if it's annoying you just say and I'm sure ppl would tone it down. Everyone likes you and all of your quirks Jeq!



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,412 ✭✭✭Jequ0n


    If they are stupid enough to bring attention to themselves despite being “scared” of someone they deserve everything that’s coming to them. Though you’d hope the wronged party had enough brain cells to outsource the revenge so they’d have a solid alibi.

    You, my dear, could be making a fortune leaking the info to interested parties. I’m liking this idea a lot



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,733 ✭✭✭PoisonIvyBelle


    Yeah but man, they Sherlock the sh1t out of anyone who leaks stuff, sooo many girls have had their profiles posted when they get found out. Not sure I want the whole group after me.🤣

    On the ones posting the dangerous dudes (and they are, we're talking like with newspaper links about assault etc.) they can post anon (the mods know who they are) or get someone else to post for them, but there are cases where the guys obviously know it's them based on the info they give.



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