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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,971 ✭✭✭Sudden Valley


    How about if she said reducing the number of gay people. The term really has to be explained better than a single sentence. Does she think therapy will dissuade people that they want a sex change?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,090 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    People are born disabled too though. It's not always acquired.

    Anyway, since a large part of the debate is about access to specifically-required healthcare, it's far more like being disabled than it is like, say, being gay. Being gay just requires everybody else to leave you alone. Being trans usually requires lifelong drug treatment, and sometimes major surgery.

    Given the costs of trans healthcare, it's perfectly reasonable for a country to want to ensure that numbers of trans people are not being artificially increased by, say, treating autistic people with temporary gender dysphoria as trans and setting them on a pathway to lifelong drug treatment and surgery when in fact their autism is simply making adolescence more challenging for them.

    So a little more psychological support but NOT affirmation of their "trans" nature might well lead them to desist within a few years (as most children with GD that is not treated with puberty blockers do), numbers of trans people would be reduced, and nobody would die.

    "If a woman cannot stand in a public space and say, without fear of consequences, that men cannot be women, then women have no rights at all." Helen Joyce



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,090 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    How can it be "a fundamental part of someone's nature" when there are transitioners who later detransition? Clearly some people are getting their "inherent nature" wrong?

    Also, how does this all fit with the idea of people being "gender fluid"?

    Like, if gender is so innate that a male person can "be" female to the extent of needing hormones and surgery to "validate" their "real" gender because gender is a dichotomy, but if people are gender fluid, then it's not really a dichotomy, since people can indeed move about from one to the other. What's their "inherent nature"? Especially as teens, when identity is kind of fluid anyway.

    "If a woman cannot stand in a public space and say, without fear of consequences, that men cannot be women, then women have no rights at all." Helen Joyce



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,618 ✭✭✭apache


    That was very long winded and didn't raise any points. They never even had a representiative. Poor show from TENI. I think they know it's indefensible.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,090 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    Gay people don't require drugs and surgery to be gay though, so the comparison doesn't work. That's like saying we should reduce the number of red headed or lefthanded people: I mean - why??

    Groups of people who need lifelong and expensive medical care just to remain normally healthy though - yeah, why would a country not want to ensure that numbers of those people weren't being unintentionally increased? Which is exactly the fear about puberty blockers etc: that they're pushing children onto a pathway of drugs etc that they would not otherwise be on.

    "If a woman cannot stand in a public space and say, without fear of consequences, that men cannot be women, then women have no rights at all." Helen Joyce



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,697 ✭✭✭Hamsterchops


    She means reducing the amount of children getting pumped into the Transitioning programmes .....

    Too many children being indoctrinated, hence Helens suggestion of reduction, and as previously stated, children's Transitioning has increased at a crazy rate just within the last few years ... many experts put this down to social contagion, spread by social media. Everybody want's to be non binary, or to be the opposite sex, and they're being led to believe that this can actually happen, while Helen Joyce is arguing that they're being fed a lie.

    She hasn't said anything controversial.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,274 ✭✭✭BruteStock


    She never even alluded to that. That is your extremist interpretation of what she said. The reason you put words into her mouth and refuse to quote her verbaitin is because what she said is reasonable and sensible.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,971 ✭✭✭Sudden Valley


    But again the assumption is they are not actually trans and being misdiagnosed. That could have been said for gay people years ago. Are people who don't get surgery still refers to as trans? If so the sentence their numbers should be reduced can be compared to how gay people were thought of years ago by the conservative establishment.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,090 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    You're proving my point: who needs a "diagnosis" of being gay?

    Nobody.

    The only reason anyone "needs" a diagnosis of being trans is because they require extra health care. Like someone who's disabled.

    So comparing the idea of "reducing numbers" is nothing like reducing numbers of gay or lefthanded or red headed people, it's like reducing numbers of people with a certain disability.

    And that's a perfectly reasonable thing for a healthcare system or a government to try to do - without being accused by extremists of wanting to kill the disabled. That's hysterical nonsense, such as we saw with the anti choice brigades about disability and pregnancy terminations.

    "If a woman cannot stand in a public space and say, without fear of consequences, that men cannot be women, then women have no rights at all." Helen Joyce



  • Posts: 24,207 ✭✭✭✭ Kylan Nice Salami


    They should all get an assessment. Being gay is reasonably clear in that you are sexually/romantically attracted to someone of same sex or if bisexual of people of both sexes. If being gay causes any initial emotional distress that of course should be addressed.



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  • Posts: 24,207 ✭✭✭✭ Kylan Nice Salami


    Emotional distress from any cause amounts to a disability, temporary or long term. Any such distress should be addressed. All disabilities need to be reduced in as much as they can be by counselling, medical, surgical means and accommodation and inclusion. I would love my own MS to be reduced, preferably by not eliminating me in the process though.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,971 ✭✭✭Sudden Valley


    It didn't used to be seen as clear. It was seen as something that could be solved by conversion therapy.

    Post edited by Boards.ie: Paul on


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,971 ✭✭✭Sudden Valley


    I'm not against diagnosis of trans people but it you that is supporting the assumption that people are being misdiagnosed. Having disabilities is not a good comparison either so not sure why you are pushing it I thought the phrase of reducing numbers was from an anti trans activists so not from the government anyway. The source of the route can change the meaning of the phrase.



  • Posts: 24,207 ✭✭✭✭ Kylan Nice Salami


    Yes actually I remember that back in the day, but as far as I know it wasn’t practised here or was it? And as far as I understand, in most jurisdictions it was a process you might subject yourself to voluntarily . Again a process at the time with no scientific evidence and proved to be useless. Indeed I’m sure some such practises might still be taking place in certain parts of the world.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,291 ✭✭✭✭Gatling




  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators Posts: 18,358 Mod ✭✭✭✭CatFromHue


    I'm not sure if diagnosis is the proper word here but before affirming care the majority to nearly all youth who went through gender distress worked themselves through it and most figured out they were actually gay. It was only the minority of youth who became trans as adults.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,473 ✭✭✭✭GreeBo


    My fundamental issue with the whole thing is that it relies on putting people into boxes that fit some stererotypes.

    Why cant you just have girls that like "boys" stuff and boys that like "girls" stuff? Why do we suddenly have to decide that they are the wrong gender and some action must be taken?

    There arent multiple genders, there are two that correspond to the 2 sexes. I dont a flying continental if you are male and like barbie and dressing up, you are still male. Likewise if you are female and love nothing better than being up to your armpits in an mechanics pit of grease, you are still a woman.


    Its actually amazing how backwards the whole trans thing is. Not long ago a male who liked some typically female things would have been called "a fag", now we are saying that they are actually a women in a mans body. No one can explain to me whats wrong with a man liking/enjoying things that aren't uber macho?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,090 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    You haven't said why it's a bad comparison - I've explained why I think it's a good one.

    As for who said it, that's not important, since we're just discussing whether or not it means "eliminating people" as Annasopra claimed, or whether it's similar to saying someone wants to see a reduction in the numbers of people with disabilities. It doesn't have to be official strategy for someone to suggest that maybe it should be.


    So when Helen Joyce said that, was she calling for trans people to be eliminated or not? It's obviously totally hysterical to say she was - and someone who insists that's what she was doing is not making a serious case. They're just - well, being hysterical.

    "If a woman cannot stand in a public space and say, without fear of consequences, that men cannot be women, then women have no rights at all." Helen Joyce



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,971 ✭✭✭Sudden Valley


    To be honest ite a mystery why anyone would qoute her good or bad. She is not an expert or a psychologist but makes grand claims on trans issues.

    For any medical condition there will be misdiagnoses medical professionals are only human, so to say you want to reduce diagnoses is such an obvious phrase as to be trite. But if she wants to reduce transitions for properly diagnosed patients then I think can comes across as cruel.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,344 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    They absolutely are. So how would you reduce the number of people born with disabilities, or the number of people born as trans people?

    Post edited by Boards.ie: Paul on


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,473 ✭✭✭✭GreeBo


    For most of us its not even in the same continent I'm afraid.

    Being gay or bi has zero to do with being trans. T is the worst thing to happen to LGB imo.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,090 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    Fine that's a reasonable opinion. The claim being made though was that she'd been calling for trans people to be eliminated. That's a lie, or at the very least a hysterical over-interpretation of what she actually said/wants.

    "If a woman cannot stand in a public space and say, without fear of consequences, that men cannot be women, then women have no rights at all." Helen Joyce



  • Posts: 24,207 ✭✭✭✭ Kylan Nice Salami




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,473 ✭✭✭✭GreeBo


    Same way as you try to reduce eating disorders, you don't force feed people, you get them to realise that they are not looking at themselves objectively.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,473 ✭✭✭✭GreeBo


    How many gay people have suddenly realised that they are actually straight?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,971 ✭✭✭Sudden Valley


    Trans have been involved in the lgbt movement even before the stonewall riots. Since before gays had any rights. The worse thing for the lgb folks is straight conservatives trying to limit their rights still based on a perceived gay agenda.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,971 ✭✭✭Sudden Valley


    I would say you would find alot who claim to be straight, who are actually gay, who live in conservative parts of America or are forced to undergo conversion therapy by their parents. You do realise that there still parts of western society that is not welcoming to gay people.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,344 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Did you read the article you quoted?

    case of the troubled 22-year-old

    I was actually asking about cases involving people from Ireland though.

    Same happened with left handed kids in school in the 60s, if you beat them often enough, they stopped being left handed.

    If you actually allow people to be trans, then yes, more people will be trans. Why is this seen as a bad thing?

    Have you spoken to many people with disabilities about your plan to reduce them? Because lots of people with disabilities would not agree with you. There is a view in the d/Deaf community in particular that they have a unique culture and anyone considering "curing" them can FRO. Some people in that community see measures such as cochlear implants as equivalent to using whitening soap to "cure" black people of being black.

    It was far from voluntary when it was forced on you by your family or your community. It was, and is, abhorrent torture.

    Surprise, surprise - people are different and people change. Why do want to impose your position on other people?

    So why reference it? It doesn't say what you suggested it said. Is that your third or fourth attempt at disinformation about surgery for non adults?


    So what is her plan to reduce trans people about? How is the reduction achieved?

    Did it ever strike you that perhaps there could be a very very large difference between being a trans woman and "man liking/enjoying things that aren't uber macho"? These two scenarios aren't in the same ballpark.

    Post edited by Boards.ie: Paul on


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,232 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra



    It's worse than cruel. She literally wants to mandate trans people out of existence.

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,697 ✭✭✭Hamsterchops


    Well I introduced Helen to this thread seeing as she's the author of a best selling book on the subject, she's also Irish and she's a bloody good antidote to the Trans lobby who hate her intellect. So many other experts in the field, from Maya Forstater to Julie Bindal, to Stella O'Malley, Rosie Duffield, Sall Grover (OZ), Peter Boghossian, Sharon Davies, not forgetting best selling author Andrew Doyle, the list of knowledgeable people goes on......



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