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Madeleine McCann

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,250 ✭✭✭Immortal Starlight


    I’m not confusing any situation. I don’t need you to tell me what I can think or say. The only victim in this case is Madeleine. Her parents job was to protect her and look after her. A job in which they failed miserably.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,646 ✭✭✭bassy


    Waste of time she's dead and buried,parents to blame on leaving her alone........you get what you reap,very sad poor child bless.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,062 ✭✭✭orangerhyme


    It's not about blame or finger pointing but it's their responsibility to take care of their kids and they didn't.

    Every parent takes risks or is complacent at times.

    If you were babysitting 3 kids of that age for someone else, would you pop out to a bar/restaurant 50m away for the night and check in on them in 30 minute intervals?

    You simply wouldn't. You'd stay in and be responsible.



  • Site Banned Posts: 2,931 ✭✭✭Musicrules


    Didn't the cadaver dog find something in the apartment? Why has this been just brushed aside so easily? Maybe the peado killed Madeleine in the apartment. He definitely would have had opportunity.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 774 ✭✭✭rodders999


    Really strange how every 6 months or so some news story breaks about this case where it’s announced that the police are searching location X or looking at some new piece of evidence/person etc.

    This gets the case back in the news cycle for 2/3 days but nothing ever comes of it, and it looks like more of the same from this latest search

    Multiple times a year, ever year this happens and yet not a single advancement in the case has ever been made.

    No doubt before the year is out there will be some new angle or location to be searched and it will begin all over again, the police have been making themselves look incredibly incompetent for 16 years now.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,409 ✭✭✭✭pjohnson


    I've always found the rabid defence of the McCann's putting drinks and food above their childs safety one of the more disturbing things.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,755 ✭✭✭lbunnae


    Can only assume it comes from the type of people that have done/would do the same.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,409 ✭✭✭✭pjohnson


    Yep. The poor children, you'd think this incident would have made them cop on but clearly not.



  • Site Banned Posts: 2,931 ✭✭✭Musicrules


    I think there's definitely a type of guilty feeling with many of them. They've done similar but nothing bad happened fortunately. Defending the McCann's is really a defence of their bad parenting.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 368 ✭✭backwards_man


    All your examples of your daughter are normal living. Kids climbing trees at home and swimming in pools on holiday is normal. You are trying to normalise leaving 3 toddlers on their own in an unlocked apartment. It isn't. It never was. Not in the 80s. Not now. Tragic accidents happen all the time. It's not neglect to allow your child climb a tree. Was your daughter 2 when you left her alone up the tree?



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 179 ✭✭LunaLoo


    If it wasnt ever acceptable then hotels and holiday camps wouldn't offer the "listening services" they did. Butlins did, the children would be left in the chalet and a staff member would patrol them. If they heard anything the room number would be announced in the dance halls, bingo rooms and wherever else adults were socialising.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,171 ✭✭✭hamburgham


    Abduction is rare so let’s say that wasn’t on their mind. Why were they not afraid of Madeline just waking up and wandering off through the unlocked door? I gather they were beside the road.Maybe she did. I would see that as the primary risk. To say nothing of any of them waking up and just crying. I don’t know how close the swimming pool but falling into that would be another risk.

    I don’t let my dog out of my sight when I’m out never mind three toddlers.



  • Site Banned Posts: 2,931 ✭✭✭Musicrules


    The McCann's and their pals didn't even hire listening services. There is no defence of their behaviour. Night after night leaving their kids alone in an unlocked apartment while they wined and dined with their buddies. There shouldn't even be a discussion on whether this was ok or not.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,204 ✭✭✭tinytobe


    I find it not only disturbing, but also offensive together with that "the poor McCanns are suffering so much already".

    It was the McCanns who were the first committing a crime of child abandonment, neglect and failure to protect, and that clearly in favour of a good time out with drinks and food - legally they were never punished. They've put their good time out before the well being of the children.

    And sadly there are enough in this forum who believe that just by talking to the media and playing the grieving parents card all the time that's punishment enough.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 179 ✭✭LunaLoo


    My comment was in response to one saying that it was never acceptable.


    It wasnt available in the complex they stayed in because of the layout thats why they decided to do it themselves.



  • Site Banned Posts: 2,931 ✭✭✭Musicrules


    It was never acceptable! Leaving 3 kids under 3 alone in an unlocked apartment, how can you justify this?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,294 ✭✭✭Deusexmachina


    How about accepting that they made an atrocious error or judgement AND that they are victims of a horrendous crime. They made a mistake. But that does not mean they were to blame for the murder of their child.

    i am a parent. I would never leave my children in a vulnerable position like that - it was reckless. But that doesnt mean I am not heartbroken for the parents.

    The victim blaming on social media is appalling.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,204 ✭✭✭tinytobe


    Yes, but what you're describing as an atrocious error and a mistake is actually a crime. And it's also not a crime, it's against every common sense. It's also selfish, putting personal social lives of eating and drinking before their children's safety.



  • Posts: 8,532 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Can this be put to bed once and for all.

    Its not normal to leave toddlers on their own in any setting. The McCanns were absolutely wrong to do so. There are no mitigating factors at all.

    The more you think about it the more shocked you are that anyone would have done this.

    After 16 years though its a pointless argument. Hopefully there is a DNA breakthrough coming and this can be put the bed. The family given closure and bruckner locked up for life.

    The debate of whether Gerry and Kate should face prosecution? What purpose would the outcome of a prosecution be? To further persecute a family already suffering an ongoing nightmare? To satisfy the appetite of the baying mob? I think its the latter.

    I think the best outcome now is closure. Please god the child didnt suffer. Hopefully the attention the case got in the days following the abduction meant that the person responsible didnt have time to inflict anything.

    But what the McCanns did that evening is in no way normal or run of the mill parenting. It opened an oppurtunity for this crime to take place. I personally wouldnt persecute them further for it.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,204 ✭✭✭tinytobe


    You could potentially say, that the McCanns are not going to be repeat offenders, in comparison to a drunk driver, who may do it over and over again. For any prosecution it's probably too late, however it often sickened me to the point of being strongly disturbing how the McCanns were portrayed as the grieving parents, but on the other side, it was them who also committed the crime of child neglect, abandonment and failure to protect. And grief is rarely a punishment for crime.

    I often don't think the German police have that much on Bruckner as they are leading to believe. Not releasing information in an investigation is one thing, but there's not an awful lot Brueckner could do, if he's in jail. That is, if it was Brueckner. Just talking to his lawyer, but if the police has decent evidence beyond reasonable doubt, there isn't much Brueckner can do, apart from an even longer jail sentence.

    I would guess that Madeleine is most likely dead. Her eyes are too distinctive, somebody would have found her by now if she was alive, plus DNA would have done the rest.

    If suppose it was Brueckner and he was observing the McCanns before he made his move, he probably also planned on how to dispose of Madeleine. Since they didn't find anything on Brueckner in that hotel room, he probably moved carefully, thus most likely the body of Madeleine is well hidden, most likely far away from any place he visited regularly, like the reservoir.

    I'd find it more likely he dumped Madeleine over the cliffs somewhere, salt water would have washed any DNA quickly. Brueckner, as mad in his mind as he was, but he wasn't a complete fool when it came to committing the crime.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,204 ✭✭✭tinytobe


    There is an extensive article in the German media: ( pls use google translate )

    Apparently new information will be shared in the coming week, however it's not expected to lead to anything further.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,656 ✭✭✭happyoutscan


    About the bins, do you have a link for this? Luz has the public 'drop bins' (holes in the ground that get emptied weekly) but perhaps these are a newer addition (post kidnapping).

    Also, as mentioned earlier I've requested that a separate thread be opened so people can bash for or against the McCanns as this thread is constantly derailed with it. Perhaps I'm wrong but I'd rather stick to current updates instead of the constant McCann bashing. Surprised this bashing is allowed.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,048 ✭✭✭✭cnocbui


    I'm not trying to normalise anything, just trying to point out that as risks go, it was at the absolute bottom of the scale. As the old saw goes, walk a mile in someone's shoes. The McCanns said they felt it was safe, and I believe them.

    I blame Mark Warner resorts. They knew what was going on and knew the area wasn't safe, according to the nanny's, who related how they had been specifically warned as soon as they were employed not to walk alone at night in the village and were obviously aware of some goings on in the village as they said they didn't feel safe. It would seem someone might have put maintaining a facade of a family safe environment over customer safety.

    I find it extraordinary that people can blame the McCanns for events while characterising the hundreds of child drownings in Europe annually as perfectly understandable and acceptable 'tragic accidents'.

    We are still making assumptions about an abduction scenario and death, when still to this day all that is known is that MM went missing.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,389 ✭✭✭tibruit


    Both types of bins were in use at the time, i.e. the underground containers and large wheelie type bins. They were also emptied and removed to landfill in the early hours following the disappearance.

    Why would you need a separate thread for so called McCann bashing? There are plenty of question marks about the McCanns in all of this that go way beyond the neglectful way they cared for their kids.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,656 ✭✭✭happyoutscan


    With a separate thread, posters can continue on for as long as they and others want about how neglectful the McCanns were.

    We know they were neglectful, everyone knows they were neglectful so why the need - as you just did - to remind everyone again about how neglectful the McCanns were?

    It's constant and some get perverse kicks out of the constant bashing imo.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,755 ✭✭✭lbunnae


    Loads on here don't agree it was neglectful. The thread is about Madeline McCann case in general , stop trying to mod it.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,656 ✭✭✭happyoutscan


    I'm certainly not trying to mod it. I'm trying to make a suggestion.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,389 ✭✭✭tibruit


    Their version of events portrays them as neglectful. How do you know that their version is the truth rather than the best possible spin that they can put on it all? A lot has been said about Bruekner but I have yet to see any evidence in the public domain that connects him to an abduction of Madeleine McCann. He fits a profile and he may be responsible, but it is surprising to me how people seem to have just accepted now that the McCanns were just neglectful and nothing more.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,656 ✭✭✭happyoutscan


    So you think the McCann's were intricately involved in it? How?



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 818 ✭✭✭reclose


    Would you leave two 2 year olds and an almost 4 year old alone in an unlocked apartment while on holidays so you could go to a restaurant with your friends?



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