Sex negative culture

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It seems your friend was the one uncomfortable but not her work colleagues, so I’m not sure it’s true to say that many people don’t? Maybe just some?

I wouldn’t be discussing it with my mother/relatives or anybody I’m not comfortable with - but certainly have with both colleagues and friends.

Well, I suppose there's 'talking about sex' and 'respect for your partner (s)'.

They are two different things. One can talk about sex while being respectful about your partner etc but there is obviously a line that some people rightfully have. There are certain levels of appropriateness and it's not all tied to religion.

There's people who are talking about sex, and people who are actually having it themselves.

Not much overlap between the two groups in my experience.

Well you can be well sure that he'd be below in the pub trekking big man stories about what he does to you to his drinking mates

The partners that they are so worried they're be disrespecting

Who is so worried? Me? One might respect others and especially their own private life without worries...

sex is a private thing , it's poor form for a man to discuss sex in detail . confirming the deed is acceptable anything further is inappropriate.

if people wanted their sex antics known throughout the land they'd have sex in public

’nudge, nudge’

It’s not subjective if you’re arguing that it’s a cultural phenomenon. I don’t know what culture you’re referring to unless you’re relying on stereotypes of other cultures and trying to compare that to Irish culture.

When you admit you can’t help but feel something, that’s subjective, like your idea of a ‘sex negative’ culture is one where people don’t talk about sex. Your friend told you she sees it as disrespectful, you say you don’t see it that way - that’s subjective. Your question was answered, you don’t accept the answer, you still want to believe Christianity has anything to do with it.

Yes, but where are their tongues?