Personality disorder

I would consider anyone who keeps harping on about Donald Trump, several years after he no longer became something to whine about, to have some sort of post cognitive latent angst malign, that would appear to indicate they can't find a new hate figure with which to ramble on about?

Latent antihero prognostic fallibility disorder.

Yes. And now?

You do know that nobody choses to have a “disorder”, right?

I’d say you have met them but few would be stupid enough to identify themselves as such. While BPD seems to be more or less accepted now and there are ample support networks, it’s not the same with the 2 other conditions you mentioned.

The conditions are used as slurs and insults by people who have no idea what they are talking about, but who feel morally superior. People don’t understand that it’s not your condition/ diagnosis that makes you do things. Actions are still also based on conscious choices and not “just” caused our disordered thinking.

My father was in all likelihood a narcissist, most self centred person I’ve ever known, he saw his wife and children as primarily alive to serve his interests, he’d also criticise others for his own mistakes, he preferred outsiders to his own family, narcissists grow bored of those around them as they need fresh supply , he had zero loyalty to his own as well, one time in my life I really needed him to have my back and he didn’t want to know

he’s dead nearly twenty two years but having read up on NPD , I believe he was definitely a near classic case

funny thing is my mother is the quintessential empath, incredibly susceptible to guilt and will help people no matter how undeserving

I don’t think it’s possible to heal it. You can learn ways to manage it somewhat though to avoid it messing up your life ( it’s in ones interest I guess).

There are few “communities” where you find reflective people who are interested in discussing their frustrations and coping skills.