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Sick of stupid men.

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  • #32
    Jequ0n
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,412 ✭✭✭Jequ0n


    https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/119896949#Comment_119896949

    I based this on your more recent update. I read it twice and wondered what/ who you want. Imagine how confusing it must be if you are dating someone and their expectations aren’t clear.



  • #33
    YellowLead
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,027 ✭✭✭YellowLead


    OP you say the genuine guys you invested in were too reserved to take things to another level - can you expand on that? What is the other level?

    If you are dating a guy and he doesn’t want things to progress to actually being boyfriend/girlfriend and committing - it doesn’t mean he is too reserved, it means he’s just not that into you. And it’s fine - that’s what dating is all about - getting to know each other etc and it’s nobody’s fault if it’s not the right fit.

    Or do you mean they were too shy to sleep with you?



  • #34
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 280 ✭✭ [Deleted User]


    https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/119896962#Comment_119896962

    When I said I want someone to lead but to know when not to? That's just a little thing. You see it with couples all the time. That they go to each other for support and advice. Maybe what I really meant was I want someone I can trust.

    Some of my responses might seem all over the place because I'm half responding/half talking to myself to figure myself out.

    I really don't expect a lot to be honest.

    Just not to speak to me like I'm a piece of **** would be nice at this stage.



  • #35
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 280 ✭✭ [Deleted User]


    https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/119896972#Comment_119896972

    Some maybe were just not into it but it's not really what I'm talking about.

    No I don't mean too shy to sleep with me.



  • #36
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 795 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Men bad!

    Thank you for coming to my TED Talk



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  • #37
    Daniela Uptight Thermostat
    Posts: 24,207 ✭✭✭✭ Daniela Uptight Thermostat


    Regarding sexual experience (as a woman) I find most guys do ask what you might be into, they also try to negotiate you into what they are into, and may indeed make repeated attempts to see if they could persuade you into whatever fantasy act they would like you to partake in. That’s consensual; what isn’t acceptable to me is the very occasional one who try and play it by ear during intimacy, and it becomes something short of rape if they don’t seem to know their own strength.



  • #38
    YellowLead
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,027 ✭✭✭YellowLead


    What do you mean then? When you say the genuine ones are too reserved to take things further?



  • #39
    Daniela Uptight Thermostat
    Posts: 24,207 ✭✭✭✭ Daniela Uptight Thermostat


    I don’t allow any repeat of a bad experience with someone.



  • #40
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 280 ✭✭ [Deleted User]


    https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/119897027#Comment_119897027

    You can close the thread now mods.

    Thanks to anyone who posted advice.



  • #41
    HildaOgdenx
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 8,276 Mod ✭✭✭✭HildaOgdenx


    Mod Note - Thread closed at OP's request.



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