Could you respect such a person?

Sugar_Rush · 14-01-2022 3:23pm #1

Dude I knew one time.

Somewhat of a greaseball, but his girlfriend was unbelievable.

Only problem was, everyone else also knew she was unbelievable, had experienced it.... if you know what I'm saying.

She accepted remuneration for letting them know she was unbelievable and letting them experience it..... if you know what I'm saying. That was her line of work. I'm sure we're on the same page by now (this was in a continental european city btw, they're more liberal over there).

From this dudes point of view I get it, it was a win-win situation. He wasn't exactly Casanova incarnate, but how any self respecting man could accept those circumstances completely mystifies me.

I'm looking at him thinking, how did you ever manage to come to terms with the fact that you're dating a girl who is communal property?

Price of admission and any Joe off the street can get down and dirty in Denmark?

Maybe I'm being to sensitive but dating a lady who has mouth-to-south all day with a queue of Uncle-Bucks then comes home to kiss you French?

Meh.

Not for me.

o1s1n · 14-01-2022 3:25pm

That 'communal property' bit is going to go down a treat...

Penn · 14-01-2022 3:26pm

InYOURendo!

TheValeyard · 14-01-2022 3:27pm

Pauliedragon · 14-01-2022 3:27pm

I know it's Friday but it's a bit early to be on the pints. The 8pm closing is getting to people maybe.

Mrs OBumble · 14-01-2022 3:27pm

#NotAllMen

Yeah, right

Burt Renaults · 14-01-2022 3:28pm

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058227982/could-you-respect-such-a-person

Just what are you trying to say?

I don't know what you're saying.

Can someone tell me what he's saying?

TheValeyard · 14-01-2022 3:29pm

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118474624#Comment_118474624

Q. Would you be willing the date a prostitute (possibly from Denmark or in Denmark) because of her history or employment.

Burt Renaults · 14-01-2022 3:35pm

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118474642#Comment_118474642

Denmark? Nope. There's norway I'd date a Scandinavian prostitute. For a start, I couldn't affjord it.

TooTired123 · 14-01-2022 3:46pm

Very straightforward. You meet a girl you like and it turns out she’s a sex worker. Do you want to continue building a relationship with her, taking this information into account, or not?

Kintarō Hattori · 14-01-2022 3:49pm

Everyone needs someone to love them OP. The world is a big place with many different people who have experiences different to your own. If your friend has no issue with it, then that should just be it- you do, you wouldn't date someone like that, but there's the old saying 'there's someone for everyone'.

Live and let live.

Larbre34 · 14-01-2022 3:51pm

I'm pretty sure that's just a written description of the narrative to the early the 1980s music video of the song 'Smooth Operator' by Sade.

Can't think why we had to suffer for it though....

Maybe close this.

o1s1n · 14-01-2022 5:13pm

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118474813#Comment_118474813

I think that water pump under your apartment may have finally gotten to you.

Sugar_Rush · 14-01-2022 5:59pm

^^ As far as I recall that's what she used to call herself, a "nasty little slut".

Seemed to love it.

And more power to you, sister!

My point is any man who tries to make a sweetheart out of that is perhaps of questionable integrity.

AckwelFoley · 14-01-2022 6:18pm

Man, I missed boards.

You just don't get this Internet on facecloth

*Grabs popcorn*

anewme · 14-01-2022 6:24pm

And some men wonder why women are complaining about them. This is the kind of attitude they mean.

what a nasty grimy skewed view of women.

What a classless misogynistic OP.

Type that kind of crap here, because if you said this to anyone given the current climate, there’s a good chance you’d get the response this language deserves.

not all men, but some men, some men who speak like this.

SamStonesArm · 14-01-2022 6:28pm

Wouldn't be for me but whatever yer into .

Ubbquittious · 14-01-2022 7:50pm

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118474687#Comment_118474687

I oslo don't think I'd bother

B.A._Baracus · 14-01-2022 7:57pm

Did this really happen op? lol...

But on the subject, yeah don't know how any guy could openly know / let / accept / whatever that his partner is a prostitute. There's a famous saying, which I am sure someone is gonna get hump on in here, but it's "a sl*t will only break your heart"

MEGA BRO WOLF 5000 · 14-01-2022 7:58pm

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118474623#Comment_118474623

What does this even mean?

NickNickleby · 14-01-2022 8:01pm

I have to say, that's a terrible way to talk about the girl. She (hopefully) chooses this as her profession. Her clients are no doubt happy to avail of her services. Now, let's assume all the necessary hygiene protocols are adhered to. Where's the problem?

You might say that you weren't making a moral judgement, well no matter, your belittling of the girl is appalling.

14-01-2022 8:02pm

Sex workers are still people. It's a job at the end of the day.

Maybe he got off on it? Some people are into hotwifing, not much different really except sex workers get paid.

FortuneChip · 14-01-2022 8:09pm

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118475655#Comment_118475655

Did she ever refer to herself as a "subhuman slut" though, as that's what you actually wrote.

14-01-2022 8:09pm

To answer your question -

Her, yes.

Him, yes.

Someone who refers to her as a "pay-for-play subhuman slut" - No.

SamStonesArm · 14-01-2022 8:15pm

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118476341#Comment_118476341

Comes across as it is all men, just ignore it

Goldengirl · 14-01-2022 8:15pm

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118474813#Comment_118474813

Sounds like you have the problem, Sugar?

Not your girlfriend, so its his decision.

B.A._Baracus · 14-01-2022 8:18pm

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118476355#Comment_118476355

Would you happen to have 6 minutes and 16 seconds to spare? I could type the reality of being an escort but i'll let this woman say it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lDfboy7MB-8

Do you still feel the same?

NickNickleby · 14-01-2022 8:21pm

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118474813#Comment_118474813

ah here, this is downright APPALLING. Would you for God's sake stop now.

Donald Trump · 14-01-2022 8:28pm

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118474687#Comment_118474687

I knew a load of Scandinavian hookers

Worked in a local Lapp dancing place

NickNickleby · 14-01-2022 9:33pm

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/118476437#Comment_118476437

I'm sorry B.A, but all I saw there was a woman who saw a gap in the market and exploited it. She seems to display certain amount of distaste about some practices in which she participated, but there's no suggestion of coercion or force. The one occasion where she uses the word 'rape' refers to a time when the clients withheld payment, and therefore it felt like rape. Now in case you think I misread the subtitles, she said "three men locked me in a room and all had sex with me. Then they didn't pay. It was like rape". Remember, at the end she said "But I do want to be rich" so she chooses to continue.

As for Covid... she made a choice. Madness and all, but HER choice.

Everything else is unhygienic and disgusting, and its hard to believe that people can actually dream up these 'desires'. But, I do believe it.

Now, I've often heard Ruhama being described as a Catholic oppressive organisation. Well, if memory serves me correctly, THEY were responsible for the criminalisation of the purchase of sex. I agree with that, because of the risks to young girls being tricked or forced into prostitution. What we need is some sort of legalisation and regulation of prostitution.

And just to reveal the cognitive dissonance:

No, I wouldn't go to a prostitute. (even in my clean and regulated sex industry).

I wouldn't want my daughter to choose that life

I wouldn't like such an establishment at the end of my road.

Ten of Swords · 14-01-2022 9:40pm

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