There will be a rise in incel related terror attacks

Y’know, if I’d been challenged to pick a poster who might type that, you’d have been right at the top of a list of one. ;)

Do incels actually exist in the real world? Moral panic for the internet age.

Yet more proof of my theory that there are few things that can't be cured by a good ride.

Absolute nonsense, every single letter you typed is absolute nonsense.

Your particular motivations in life are not applicable to everyone else's.

I'm obviously only posting this as it increases my chances of mating. Have you got a Youtube channel by any chance?

You Sir, are bananas.

What's a beour?

Assuming that it's a normal-looking woman, or better than normal, I think the answer, as someone said, is "expectations". These guys are nothing special (and that's probably being kind) but they seem to feel they have a right to "have" a woman who will skivvy for them as well as being great looking and up for sex whenever they want. Someone from a porn film, IOW.

@jmlad2020

Don't be trying to make these lads the gay's problem. There is a cohort of incels who blame their lack of sex on females solely for their gender not appreciating all those wonderful cretins clear sexual appeal and riding them whenever needed. These lads couldn't pull a man for precisely the same reason they can't pull a woman. Noone, noone is owed sex as a condition of their just "being" and if one chooses to treat people as objects, and lay blame for being ostracized on the world rather than having a modicum of self awareness? Well I'd be fairly sure gayness won't help their cause and I can't see a rush to add "asshole" to the pride flag 🤔 no matter how cool that could be 😝

The problem isn't women, the problem is that a cohort of people are basically becoming western Otaku. That cohort have "socialized" but only with others of thei predilections and it's a self reinforcing circle of stupidity. The lack of female interaction is now not only never their own fault. They now have a support group who agree and will reinforce the notion that women are avoiding and withholding sex, rather than the simple truth that they are quite often choosing a lifestyle and an approach to people that is an antithesis of how to engage with people and women in particular.

It's very much a culture of blaming the bitches and chads, then retreating to the incel safe spaces to be told they are right.

Also as @endacl has said... If I had to point out who on boards could write such a self indulged and whiney OP? The OP would have been my pick too.

That he has chosen to lay his thoughts out and seek to not only justify the Plymouth incident but, also to claim it's likely here? Would honestly lead me to believe it's time to report them to an appropriate authority and hope that perhaps some kind of intervention can be made.

This is not really a new thing, just a new name. Men who for whatever reason lack the social/interpersonal skills to have normal relationships with the people around them, and instead see the world as some form of rule-driven game where you get to have sex and be successful if you play by the rules.

From their point of view, they're playing by the rules, but still losing anyway, while others who are apparently not playing by the rules, are winning. The absurdity of this belief aside, it's easy to see why someone would become frustrated with the world.

It's obviously not a simple fix, it needs to be caught early on, resetting young mens' expectations of life. Most of it comes from a place of misogynism; women are a prize to be seized, chattel for ones' personal gratification, an entitlement.

Peoples' self-awareness is often lacking too. While one may have low self-esteem and feel like they're ugly, fat and unworthy, they also lack the ability to be self-critical. These issues - in their mind - are caused by external factors. Others standing in their way or forcing them to be like they are. Like that moron last week who murdered his mother because he blamed her for his failures in life.

Their issues are 100% their own. All of their problems, they have created for themselves, and they perpetuate themselves. Creating narratives in their head about imaginary "status pills" and blaming their lack of sex on "vapid sexuality". Somehow there are other very ordinary and unremarkable men getting into fulfilling relationships around them, but nevertheless the problem must be society. It can't be their own problems holding them back. Nosir.

In short, we need to be spending as much on mental health as we do on physical health. All of the "take care of your mental health" messaging is great, but ultimately fairly pointless without the structures to back it up. We're dismantling the stigma around admitting that you're not well, but we're still leaving families to have to self-manage mental illnesses that require specific treatment.

It's like saying, "Don't be afraid to talk to your friends if you think you've broken your leg", but providing nowhere to go to actually have a qualified professional look at your leg, put it in a cast and arrange physio afterwards.

I think the internet has definitely exaccerpated the problem. I see the spree killer in England was thrown off reddit, didn't they have a sub reddit for incels?

Have these weirdo's not heard of internet dating sites, female prosthetic masturbation toys or prostitutes?

Surely they would solve a lot of the problems?

The "incel" thing was all started pretty innocently; by a woman believe it or not; ultimately as a support group for individuals who found themselves unlucky in love.

As typically happens online, the loudest and angriest members of this group continuously warped the purpose of incel forums, driving out anyone seeking actual support and discussion. Eventually this warps the entire concept itself, until it became basically a banner for self-pitying, misogynistic heterosexual men (almost entirely middle-class and white) to go online and shout about how much they've been wronged by the world and the root of their problems are caused by women not knowing their place.

As it become more and more extreme and they started glorifying and celebrating violence carried out by other incels, they started getting kicked off mainstream platforms like Reddit.

At this stage, there's nothing innocent about the "culture" in it, nor nothing therapeutic about being part of it. Any young man who self-identifies as an incel or claims to be part of the incel group, should be treated like someone saying they're a KKK member. It is a gigantic red flag that he needs some form of help or should be on a watchlist of some kind.

"in fact many women are attracted to violent thugs." Well, there you go. Maybe the OP can add violent thuggery to his list of desirable male qualities - should be easier to achieve than the rest anyway.

Do the Japanese herbivore men not count? Do black men not ever get into the same situation?