After how long with zero success should I delete my pic profile

POF is crap unless you state that you are tall, handsome and extremely rich.

jimjangles wrote: »

Ok that would be zero out of three.

Be creative, say that you're married in your profile.

jimjangles wrote: »

I can't I live in a rural area where there's nothing to do unless you're a footballer.

Macra na Feirme?

Have you land with good drainage? Much road frontage with full planning permission?

Just give up and accept that you're repulsive. It's a relief and you'll be able to get on with your life.

jimjangles wrote: »

I've been on plenty of fish for many months and have had zero success.
No views, no conversations, nothing.
I tried putting up a photo, deleting my photo etc.
How long with no activity or success whatsoever is long enough to say screw it this is useless it's time to delete this?
I'm a male by the way so looking for answers from a male perspective.

Have you tried adding a few more photos. Ladies like to get a good idea of who they are messaging.
Do you have any info in the bio?
You need to reel'em in

jimjangles wrote: »

I can't I live in a rural area where there's nothing to do unless you're a footballer.

I'm very rural as well and found most of the dating sites terrible. But did manage to meet someone very nice on Facebook Dating. We first made contact during lockdown and didn't meet till about 4 months later. Think that really did make a difference as we got to know each other via whatsapp.

Have you got a female friend you can send your profile onto so they can give you some pointers?

Get rid of all your pics, delete account and make a fresh new one with all new pics every 3-6 months

FFVII wrote: »

3.5 years on them apps. Got nowhere.

Women on there are the worst.

They want BMW, house, 6ft etc.

All they have is some other fellas kid.


You talk for a few weeks and then you realise shes talking to 4 others.

Most on there are on there for a reason. That reason reveals itself pretty quickly.

And you know yourself why you are there.

is requiring a height a thing on these sites? I hope you asked about their weight in response?

silverharp wrote: »

is requiring a height a thing on these sites? I hope you asked about their weight in response?

I seem to remember Bumble having it as one of the very few bits written on your profile. That app is tailored for women to choose so it's a little different. I'm not sure if it was a thing on PoF.

Keep the picture. Change your head.

Women are selfish and ignorant and lousy. THIS
This probably comes across in your texts to women, and the just getting nowhere gets you down.
I remember an online date, the lady looked like she was ready for a **** date, get it over with and go home, I can see why you'd get like this after few dates now working, we 'd a drink like planned and then she wanted to know could we go for food, think I needed surprise her that we could actually have fun.
I meet my GF on Tinder, I couldn't get out of my head it's tinder, and can you really get a proper relationship come about off of tinder, but we did.
Helps I'm in Dublin, I did use to live in Wicklow, I'd save my swipes for Dublin and Swipe away when I was in the city, you do need massage a lot of women to get dates.
I did feel a bit used by women a bit, saying they wanted a relationship but then were afraid to actually get into one, but then I've GF to show for tinder time and I've had other relationships from online dating.
Have you tried MEETUP.COM, kinda is an undercover dating app, and you get a decent day out with hikes and stuff, but you might need to drive a bit to meet people.
You do seem to have a not so great opinion of women, might be worth looking at yourself a little rather than blame online dating women, you can make changes with you, hard to change women online to how you think they should be.