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  • Registered Users Posts: 23,695 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    KevRossi wrote: »
    No, schools are established to provide an education of which religion and sex education is a part. It is not the basis of an education. You're thinking of a Madhhabad.

    And if my tax money is paid to provide a national school then I'd expect something as basic as sex education to be without religous influence. What next? Dinosaurs didn't exist as God only created the earth 8,000 years ago?


    Schools are established by patron bodies to provide education according to their own ethos, whatever their ethos may be, whether it’s religious or secular in nature. The basis upon which they are paid by the State is to teach the National curriculum, on top of their own curriculum. That’s the basis on which when it comes to relationships and sex education, the Department of Education leaves it up to schools to decide at a local level amongst themselves how relationships and sex education are to be taught, and parents are not obligated to have their children participate in either religion or sex education classes.

    Your taxes aren’t providing anything. It’s the Government who are elected by the people who determine how funds are to be distributed on behalf of the State, in furtherance of the common good of Irish society. That’s why parents don’t have to pay for their children’s education, because it is for the common good of Irish society that children are educated. Service providers who provide education services to the State have to be paid, same as any other service provider providing a service to the State. Voluntary bodies managing the schools take an awful lot of the administrative headaches off Government, and save the State an absolute fortune from not having to pay civil servants to manage schools.

    So you’re left with two choices - everyone with children funds the education of their own children, and everyone who pays tax continues to pay the same tax they were paying already, or, establish your own patron body, which is easy to do and considering it’s as popular as you claim, that shouldn’t be an issue, and apply to the Department of Education to be considered eligible to provide education on your terms first, and their terms second (that is, to provide education according to your own ethos first, and teach the national curriculum second). Finding volunteers to manage the schools you establish also shouldn’t be an issue if the demand is there as you’re suggesting.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 309 ✭✭Pandiculation


    And to add to that some of the educate together schools are really badly run

    You’ve conducted a survey and have some kind of analysis to back that up or is it just a swipe at Educate Together?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 309 ✭✭Pandiculation


    Your taxes aren’t providing anything..

    I gave up on your post at that point. Who exactly do you imagine pays for all these things?


  • Registered Users Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    And to add to that some of the educate together schools are really badly run

    I think some people see the system of non uniform, calling teachers by their first names and the general inclusion of the pupils in school matters as a bit too far out for a country like Ireland and assume all the kids coming out of ET's are jumped up little brats who don't know their place :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users Posts: 15,395 ✭✭✭✭Beechwoodspark


    You’ve conducted a survey and have some kind of analysis to back that up or is it just a swipe at Educate Together?

    I know the local one to me has a bad rep and have heard multiple stories of how badly it is run. Bullying allegations etc etc. Indiscipline. Some students allowed to run riot. Poor back up from management

    My general point is that educate together does not automatically mean good just the same as catholic schools do not automatically mean bad.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 3,529 ✭✭✭Hoboo


    eviltwin wrote: »
    I don't think that alone is enough. I was baptised and made my communion etc but haven't been in a church in 30 years and don't consider myself Catholic.

    But you're still registered as catholic and since Pope Benedict nullified defections you're considered and recorded as catholic for life. Hotel California.

    It's an absolute nonsense.


  • Registered Users Posts: 24,296 ✭✭✭✭lawred2


    Schools are established by patron bodies to provide education according to their own ethos, whatever their ethos may be, whether it’s religious or secular in nature. The basis upon which they are paid by the State is to teach the National curriculum, on top of their own curriculum. That’s the basis on which when it comes to relationships and sex education, the Department of Education leaves it up to schools to decide at a local level amongst themselves how relationships and sex education are to be taught, and parents are not obligated to have their children participate in either religion or sex education classes.

    Your taxes aren’t providing anything. It’s the Government who are elected by the people who determine how funds are to be distributed on behalf of the State, in furtherance of the common good of Irish society. That’s why parents don’t have to pay for their children’s education, because it is for the common good of Irish society that children are educated. Service providers who provide education services to the State have to be paid, same as any other service provider providing a service to the State. Voluntary bodies managing the schools take an awful lot of the administrative headaches off Government, and save the State an absolute fortune from not having to pay civil servants to manage schools.

    So you’re left with two choices - everyone with children funds the education of their own children, and everyone who pays tax continues to pay the same tax they were paying already, or, establish your own patron body, which is easy to do and considering it’s as popular as you claim, that shouldn’t be an issue, and apply to the Department of Education to be considered eligible to provide education on your terms first, and their terms second (that is, to provide education according to your own ethos first, and teach the national curriculum second). Finding volunteers to manage the schools you establish also shouldn’t be an issue if the demand is there as you’re suggesting.

    some top notch double speak there


  • Registered Users Posts: 12,399 ✭✭✭✭mariaalice


    It’s strange that it seems to work well in other countries where access to quality information though schools has proven to be vital tool in terms of providing them with knowledge.

    Some are very savvy. Others think they’re very savvy ans aren’t or have weird information absorbed from who knows where.

    You’re in an era where you could be getting your views of sex and relationships from really bad sources online

    The supnOut.ie site is a very good source for teens, it's more the idea that a religion-free mixed school, which is an entirely good idea, is going to be the answer to every teenage issue around sex, mental health, social anxiety etc its very naive.


  • Registered Users Posts: 23,695 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    I gave up on your post at that point. Who exactly do you imagine pays for all these things?


    If you’d continued to the next line, your question is answered rather than expecting I should have to repeat myself because you couldn’t be arsed.


  • Registered Users Posts: 24,296 ✭✭✭✭lawred2


    mariaalice wrote: »
    The supnOut.ie site is a very good source for teens, it's more the idea that a religion-free mixed school, which is an entirely good idea, is going to be the answer to every teenage issue around sex, mental health, social anxiety etc its very naive.

    of course it's not

    but has someone suggested it is?


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  • Registered Users Posts: 23,695 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    lawred2 wrote: »
    some top notch double speak there


    It’s not doublespeak at all. Kev would pay the same tax they already do regardless of how the Government chooses to spend it’s money. As a proportion of revenue the Exchequer takes in, Kev’s tax contributions as an individual wouldn’t even cover the cost of one child’s education, let alone the education of the nation’s children.


  • Registered Users Posts: 13,505 ✭✭✭✭Mad_maxx


    Religion needs to be banned from schools. All connections cut.

    Sign me up provided the religion of WOKE is also banned?


  • Registered Users Posts: 12,399 ✭✭✭✭mariaalice


    lawred2 wrote: »
    of course it's not

    but has someone suggested it is?

    I was replying to a poster who had a point about conservative bubbles, its as if they don't seem to realise Ireland is a country that passed the same-sex referendum and has abortion rights for example.

    This is not a cohort of backward conservative people hiding in the bushes waiting to jump out, ideas like that appear to be linked to those who are extrapolating their issues onto the education they had.

    Religion-free mixed schools are an entirely good idea but are not a panacea for all ills.


  • Registered Users Posts: 6,614 ✭✭✭Feisar


    IMHO and I don't believe in anything, so that's not part of the reasoning behind my point, the church should pull the pin and close the doors this September and tell us to jog on.

    First they came for the socialists...



  • Registered Users Posts: 13,505 ✭✭✭✭Mad_maxx


    Every kind of school has some sort of ethos, right now there is a very aggressive push for a progressive ethos in education.

    The notion that removing the Catholic ethos will remove all ideology is either naive or dishonest?


  • Registered Users Posts: 15,395 ✭✭✭✭Beechwoodspark


    Feisar wrote: »
    IMHO and I don't believe in anything, so that's not part of the reasoning behind my point, the church should pull the pin and close the doors this September and tell us to jog on.

    That’s never going to happen

    There’s a majority of Irish parents who freely choose catholic schools over other options

    I’m all for this freedom of choice


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,189 ✭✭✭Cilldara_2000


    Why should they have to pay for it? You’re certainly not paying for it. Free education is provided for by the State, and the State doesn’t give a leg up to any religion either, it hasn’t done since 1973.

    Yes I am paying for it. And you're paying for it. Everyone else is paying for it too.
    Schools are established by patron bodies to provide education according to their own ethos, whatever their ethos may be, whether it’s religious or secular in nature. The basis upon which they are paid by the State is to teach the National curriculum, on top of their own curriculum. That’s the basis on which when it comes to relationships and sex education, the Department of Education leaves it up to schools to decide at a local level amongst themselves how relationships and sex education are to be taught, and parents are not obligated to have their children participate in either religion or sex education classes.

    Your taxes aren’t providing anything. It’s the Government who are elected by the people who determine how funds are to be distributed on behalf of the State, in furtherance of the common good of Irish society. That’s why parents don’t have to pay for their children’s education, because it is for the common good of Irish society that children are educated. Service providers who provide education services to the State have to be paid, same as any other service provider providing a service to the State. Voluntary bodies managing the schools take an awful lot of the administrative headaches off Government, and save the State an absolute fortune from not having to pay civil servants to manage schools.

    So you’re left with two choices - everyone with children funds the education of their own children, and everyone who pays tax continues to pay the same tax they were paying already, or, establish your own patron body, which is easy to do and considering it’s as popular as you claim, that shouldn’t be an issue, and apply to the Department of Education to be considered eligible to provide education on your terms first, and their terms second (that is, to provide education according to your own ethos first, and teach the national curriculum second). Finding volunteers to manage the schools you establish also shouldn’t be an issue if the demand is there as you’re suggesting.

    Or we have the third choice which is already going on: divestment of schools from the RCC.
    That’s never going to happen

    There’s a majority of Irish parents who freely choose catholic schools over other options

    I’m all for this freedom of choice

    Majority of parents have non-catholic choices? That's news to literally everyone.


  • Registered Users Posts: 7,028 ✭✭✭witnessmenow


    We are not religious (raised Catholic, long since moved away from it), we didn't get married in a church, didn't baptise our kids and our eldest will be attending a Catholic school next year. For us the fact it was an Irish school and the quality of the school was more important than the small bit of religion they do (which our daughter will be opted out of). We are in a small town so we had the option of only two schools.

    I think people are taking anecdotal events of people driving past techs to catholic schools as a sign of thats what people want, they probably just want good schools. 20 years ago (when Ireland was probably much more religious than now) the Catholic school I went to had an absolute awful Christian brother principal (awful as in useless, not a particularly bad person or anything) and the school went from having 100 1st years to 40 in his 3 years there. The majority went to the Tech school up the road, it wasn't some form of sign that society was shifting, it was just a better run school at the time.


  • Registered Users Posts: 23,695 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    Yes I am paying for it. And you're paying for it. Everyone else is paying for it too.


    No you’re not. Neither am I, nor is anyone else paying for education. Taxpayers pay taxes, that’s about it. They do that anyway. It’s Government who decide how revenue they receive is spent, and how much they need to take in to cover the cost of providing for services such as education, healthcare and so on for the common good of Irish society. There is no discrimination in the provision for educating the nation’s children between people who pay tax and those who don’t, which is a good thing for Irish society as a whole, as compared to everyone being expected to pay for their own children’s education. I wouldn’t mind as I can afford it, many people simply couldn’t.

    Or we have the third choice which is already going on: divestment of schools from the RCC.


    That’s not a choice individuals have though? Taxpayers or not.

    Majority of parents have non-catholic choices? That's news to literally everyone.


    Have you read your Constitution lately? Specifically Article 42 as it relates to education -


    1: The State acknowledges that the primary and natural educator of the child is the Family and guarantees to respect the inalienable right and duty of parents to provide, according to their means, for the religious and moral, intellectual, physical and social education of their children.

    2: Parents shall be free to provide this education in their homes or in private schools or in schools recognised or established by the State.

    3.1°:The State shall not oblige parents in violation of their conscience and lawful preference to send their children to schools established by the State, or to any particular type of school designated by the State.

    3.2°:The State shall, however, as guardian of the common good, require in view of actual conditions that the children receive a certain minimum education, moral, intellectual and social.

    4:The State shall provide for free primary education and shall endeavour to supplement and give reasonable aid to private and corporate educational initiative, and, when the public good requires it, provide other educational facilities or institutions with due regard, however, for the rights of parents, especially in the matter of religious and moral formation.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,189 ✭✭✭Cilldara_2000


    No you’re not. Neither am I, nor is anyone else paying for education. Taxpayers pay taxes, that’s about it. They do that anyway. It’s Government who decide how revenue they receive is spent, and how much they need to take in to cover the cost of providing for services such as education, healthcare and so on for the common good of Irish society. There is no discrimination in the provision for educating the nation’s children between people who pay tax and those who don’t, which is a good thing for Irish society as a whole, as compared to everyone being expected to pay for their own children’s education. I wouldn’t mind as I can afford it, many people simply couldn’t.





    That’s not a choice individuals have though? Taxpayers or not.





    Have you read your Constitution lately? Specifically Article 42 as it relates to education -


    1: The State acknowledges that the primary and natural educator of the child is the Family and guarantees to respect the inalienable right and duty of parents to provide, according to their means, for the religious and moral, intellectual, physical and social education of their children.

    2: Parents shall be free to provide this education in their homes or in private schools or in schools recognised or established by the State.

    3.1°:The State shall not oblige parents in violation of their conscience and lawful preference to send their children to schools established by the State, or to any particular type of school designated by the State.

    3.2°:The State shall, however, as guardian of the common good, require in view of actual conditions that the children receive a certain minimum education, moral, intellectual and social.

    4:The State shall provide for free primary education and shall endeavour to supplement and give reasonable aid to private and corporate educational initiative, and, when the public good requires it, provide other educational facilities or institutions with due regard, however, for the rights of parents, especially in the matter of religious and moral formation.

    This tax thing is extreme petty semantics. We pay taxes. The taxes pay for stuff. Ergo, we pay for stuff.

    That article is fine aspirational stuff. The facts of the matter are that in vast swaths of the country the choice outlined in section 3.1 doesn't exist in practice because all schools in the area are catholic ethos.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 6,614 ✭✭✭Feisar


    Aren't we all free to set up our own schools? I love the "feck the church but we aren't arsed set up our own" attitude.

    First they came for the socialists...



  • Registered Users Posts: 1,189 ✭✭✭Cilldara_2000


    Feisar wrote: »
    Aren't we all free to set up our own schools? I love the "feck the church but we aren't arsed set up our own" attitude.

    As One eyed Jack has helpfully pointed out, the state has a constitutional obligation to not require parents to send their children "to any particular type of school designated by the State". It has failed miserably and only in recent years has it moved to address this issue but the divestment project is moving at a glacial pace.


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,433 ✭✭✭J.O. Farmer


    Feisar wrote: »
    Aren't we all free to set up our own schools? I love the "feck the church but we aren't arsed set up our own" attitude.

    Ah but there's the problem, parents want to outsource sex education along with everything else to schools but then complain it doesn't reflect their values.

    Surely most children get far more exposure to their parents and learn far more from them than ever they do in school particularly in terms of values and how to behave in society.


  • Posts: 3,801 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Majority of parents have non-catholic choices? That's news to literally everyone.

    Aren’t Catholic schools in fact generally over subscribed with waiting list where there is a choice? If the demand was the other way you’d see Catholic schools just disappear anyway. I wonder how deep the desire really is.

    Obviously this is partly tradition and partly academic history but it’s there.


  • Registered Users Posts: 13,148 ✭✭✭✭Geuze


    But the main point here, why is the Church, who are evidently anti (or at least a hard sceptic) of science, involved in orientating a science based topic - reproduction?!

    I don't know about other churches, but the Catholic church isn't anti-science.

    https://www.google.com/search?q=catholic+scientists+in+history&oq=catholic+scient&aqs=chrome.2.69i57j0l9.5703j0j4&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,189 ✭✭✭Cilldara_2000


    Geuze wrote: »

    Fantastic that Galileo Galilei is the first result there. A man whose theories were denounced as heretical and his books banned by the church.


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,303 ✭✭✭landofthetree


    We don’t need to. We’ve already put enough money into them to run them, build them and maintain them for the last 100 years to more than cover the cost of the land they sit on.

    But you dont own the land and therefore dont own the schools.


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,303 ✭✭✭landofthetree


    Simi wrote: »
    Because there are only Catholic schools! Outside of major cities there is zero choice. The patron system is a sectarian relic that needs to be confined to history.

    Not true.

    I live in a midlands town. It has 3 Catholic secondary schools and a community college.

    Very few want to go to the community college.

    In the major cities parents pay thousands for faith based schools when they have the choice.


  • Registered Users Posts: 23,695 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    This tax thing is extreme petty semantics. We pay taxes. The taxes pay for stuff. Ergo, we pay for stuff.


    It’s not semantics, it’s fact - we don’t pay for education.

    That article is fine aspirational stuff. The facts of the matter are that in vast swaths of the country the choice outlined in section 3.1 doesn't exist in practice because all schools in the area are catholic ethos.


    The fact is that the choice does exist - send your children to a school who’s ethos you don’t share, or don’t. Parents can’t be forced to, as though they have no choice. The State only requires that children receive a minimum standard of education.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,178 ✭✭✭Bob the Seducer


    There needs to be a shift in the perception of sex education at Governmental level. For too long it has been delivered in schools from an ideological perspective with a basis in religion rather than from a functional perspective with a basis in health/science.

    I'm not suggesting that Catholic ethos schools should be prevented from giving the religious perspective, but that element should be delivered within the confines of the formal religious education provided rather that passing it off as 'sex education'.


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