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Should I chance it?

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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,078 ✭✭✭IAMAMORON


    4Ad wrote: »
    Ah Jeepers lad's dont be at me !!
    I think she has the 4AD sonar just to avoid me !!

    Or else she is looking here and has figured out who I am !!!
    Gonna hide in the hedge tomorrow morning and wait and wait and wait, just for ye !!!

    At this point my best advice is to avoid her now like the plague, this is going on for months now and it looks like she has even changed up her jogging routine?

    You creeped her out, leave it..... and massively do not hang around a ditch waiting to spot her tomorrow, that really is acting the creep.

    I am sorry.


  • Registered Users Posts: 15,457 ✭✭✭✭Kylta


    Hey OP, since your probably going to go to prison for what happens next, (jumpingoutof bushes on top of women, don't matter what lovelorn excuse you use)I want to thank you for this amusing thread, and while your slopping out in arbour hill (with the sex cases), you can always say for awhile you were normal


  • Registered Users Posts: 10,943 ✭✭✭✭the purple tin


    There was a few of these threads and the guy didn't ask the girl out in any of them.
    Forget about this woman OP, but a word of advice next time you see one you fancy go and talk to her straight away while you have the nerve.
    the longer you leave it and build it up in your mind the more difficult it gets to approach somebody.


  • Registered Users Posts: 688 ✭✭✭hurikane


    Can anyone link the thread with the guy making a move on the grinds teacher?


  • Registered Users Posts: 10,943 ✭✭✭✭the purple tin


    hurikane wrote: »
    Can anyone link the thread with the guy making a move on the grinds teacher?
    Good old Feeky Magee.
    https://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2055760092


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  • Registered Users Posts: 688 ✭✭✭hurikane



    Cheers, wonder what feeky is at these days. He’d be a great man to advise on threads like this.


  • Registered Users Posts: 480 ✭✭Klopp


    hurikane wrote: »
    Cheers, wonder what feeky is at these days. He’d be a great man to advise on threads like this.


    I would love to know if he never did bump into Donna later in life and how he did in his LC Irish!


  • Registered Users Posts: 416 ✭✭wrmwit


    Klopp wrote: »
    I would love to know if he never did bump into Donna later in life and how he did in his LC Irish!

    So I spent the last 10 minutes going through the thread wondering if the OP had the courage to ask her out only for the last comment to be the above!

    God damn it :):):)


  • Registered Users Posts: 10,943 ✭✭✭✭the purple tin


    How old would Feeky and The Tutor be now?


    Good name for a band that- Feeky & The Tutors :D


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,126 ✭✭✭dashoonage


    someone should start a twitter hastag #findmagee so we can get an update. I'm sure it would be grand.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 6,602 ✭✭✭Feisar



    Those were the days, we were all rooting for him.

    First they came for the socialists...



  • Registered Users Posts: 2,554 ✭✭✭Irish_rat


    Was probably one of the best thread ever on boards. Pure legend.


  • Registered Users Posts: 16,520 ✭✭✭✭yabadabado



    I wonder whatever happened to Donna from Neighbours ..


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,671 ✭✭✭4Ad


    Hi all, update...
    We are friends, thats all !!
    Bit of craic, bit of chat, nothing more, I think she (C) is just being friendly..
    Not that I have ever asked..
    I just get that feeling off her..Pretty though !!

    Please dont slag/slate me !!


  • Registered Users Posts: 16,356 ✭✭✭✭Leg End Reject


    4Ad wrote: »
    Hi all, update...
    We are friends, thats all !!
    Bit of craic, bit of chat, nothing more, I think she (C) is just being friendly..
    Not that I have ever asked..
    I just get that feeling off her..Pretty though !!

    Please dont slag/slate me !!

    Had a quick scan of this thread, for the love of God ask her! Better to know than wonder.

    I've a feeling I said this to you in another thread, but faint heart never won fair lady. No point beating about the bush (no pun intended), let her know you'd like to get to know her.


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,845 ✭✭✭Antares35


    Ah I got an update and couldn't wait to see what had happened :D ah ask her OP. Nothing ventured... :)


  • Registered Users Posts: 455 ✭✭Goodigal


    Please ask her on a date! Give us hopeless romantics here something to ponder!! I was really hoping you had made further progress!!


  • Registered Users Posts: 35,667 ✭✭✭✭BorneTobyWilde


    Had a quick scan of this thread, for the love of God ask her! Better to know than wonder.

    I've a feeling I said this to you in another thread, but faint heart never won fair lady. No point beating about the bush (no pun intended), let her know you'd like to get to know her.


    People preach but would not want what they preach.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    She might just like you as a person though. There are men I get along with brilliant as friends and we have great craic, like at work, or just as general mates. And we can have quite important conversations about life and the universe and stuff going on for them.
    But it would be incredibly awkward if any of them asked me out because it completely changes the dynamic of the one human being to another human being really liking each other thing but not in a genital way.
    In short it brings SEX into it and once sex has been introduced it never really leaves the room again. Which can really put an awkward spin on a happy comradeship or even on a close enough friendship.

    Of course that really makes it difficult to know how to bring it up when it is right and fitting. But I reckon there are signals that one would not miss. Looks. Smiles. Extra close positioning. In other words, I think most women would make it reasonably obvious when they are in that hot kind of mood for ya and it would kind of flow that way.

    Maybe I have it arseways though.


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,671 ✭✭✭4Ad


    She might just like you as a person though. There are men I get along with brilliant as friends and we have great craic, like at work, or just as general mates. And we can have quite important conversations about life and the universe and stuff going on for them.
    But it would be incredibly awkward if any of them asked me out because it completely changes the dynamic of the one human being to another human being really liking each other thing but not in a genital way.
    In short it brings SEX into it and once sex has been introduced it never really leaves the room again. Which can really put an awkward spin on a happy comradeship or even on a close enough friendship.

    Of course that really makes it difficult to know how to bring it up when it is right and fitting. But I reckon there are signals that one would not miss. Looks. Smiles. Extra close positioning. In other words, I think most women would make it reasonably obvious when they are in that hot kind of mood for ya and it would kind of flow that way.

    Maybe I have it arseways though.

    I think you have it 100 correct.I think she is just being friendly..
    I wouldn't exacltly be Brad Pitt looking !!


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  • Posts: 18,749 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    4Ad wrote: »
    I think you have it 100 correct.I think she is just being friendly..
    I wouldn't exacltly be Brad Pitt looking !!

    Don't be putting yourself down!!
    I'm in my mid 40s & up until a few years ago I never even thought my boyfriends were good looking.
    What I mean by that is, I was attracted to men by getting to know them, and their personality won me over!!
    Tbh, I think that's fairly normal in Ireland, the women do tend to be better looking then the men!
    #shrug#


  • Registered Users Posts: 16,356 ✭✭✭✭Leg End Reject


    bubblypop wrote: »
    Don't be putting yourself down!!
    I'm in my mid 40s & up until a few years ago I never even thought my boyfriends were good looking.
    What I mean by that is, I was attracted to men by getting to know them, and their personality won me over!!
    Tbh, I think that's fairly normal in Ireland, the women do tend to be better looking then the men!
    #shrug#

    I'm agreeing with the first part of your post. In person there's more to attraction than looks. Chemistry/pheromones play a big role in deciding if a man starts a throbbing in the nethers.

    I don't have a definite physical type, my exes have varied hugely in height, weight and facial features. They all had compatible personalities and sense of humour to me, and all were attractive to me. An objectively handsome man can appear as dull as ditchwater if that spark is missing.

    The second part I don't agree with, I think it's an even split. As women have the advantage of make-up, hair colour, more variety in clothing etc to enhance attractiveness, it's unfair to say that we are generally more attractive than our male counterparts.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    4Ad wrote: »
    I think you have it 100 correct.I think she is just being friendly..
    I wouldn't exacltly be Brad Pitt looking !!

    It 's not looks that do it. Honestly :) Beautiful chaps can leave one cold while there are quare enough looking articles that inspire desperate longings.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Home & Garden Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 22,294 CMod ✭✭✭✭Pawwed Rig


    You are going to be single for the rest of your life with that attitude. Just ask her


  • Registered Users Posts: 10,943 ✭✭✭✭the purple tin


    Don't ask her out op, keep the friendship instead.
    Then you could tell her you are looking for a girlfriend and ask her to set you up with one of her single friends.
    When a woman recommends you to another woman as a potential boyfriend that is a big thumbs up for you, sort of a seal of approval.


  • Registered Users Posts: 18,069 ✭✭✭✭fryup


    4Ad wrote: »
    I live in a small village where I do alot of running..I meet this girl out running alot!! She is damn cute about mid 40's,

    she'll like you alot for that alone ;)


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,934 ✭✭✭pgj2015


    In my experience women are far more forward than men, if they fancy you, you will know, because they will ask you out, all they have to do is get your number, then they will usually text you.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 452 ✭✭Sharpyshoot


    Make some move op, don’t go on with the horn bullying just keep it semi professional.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 467 ✭✭EddieN75


    Did anything happen after!?

    The thread is nearly 8 months old since the op!

    Please say yes!


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 452 ✭✭Sharpyshoot


    There might be a baby on the way.


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